From that moment plans for spreading the good news to the thousands
of alcoholics who could be helped began to take shape.
The fact that half of a group
of alcoholics who were in a mental hospital recovered is significant.
For those that say its just a lack of character and discipline, do yourself a favor and google «famous alcoholics»... throughout history there have been hundreds
of alcoholics who have had more discipline and character than any of us will ever have.
Of those alcoholics who wish to get well and are emotionally capable of trying our method, 50 percent recover immediately, 25 percent after a few backslides.
This is especially true of the spouse or other relative
of the alcoholic who has not recognized the illness.
Since the Emmanuel approach was dependent on professionals, the number
of alcoholics who could be helped was quite limited as compared to AA.
What percentage
of the alcoholics who receive initial sobriety are able to achieve long - term sobriety through this approach?
One recent study found that 80 %
of all alcoholics who recover for a year or more do so on their own, some after being unsuccessfully treated.
The first group did in fact have its share
of alcoholics who wandered by; but the «real» alcoholics who «really tried» (as Bill Wilson described them) were a sturdy band of «last gasp» alcoholics who had stayed sober for about two years since A.A.'s founding days of 1935.
The type
of alcoholic who makes his living by panhandling has an inner contempt for those he exploits.
In the case
of the alcoholic who has not achieved sobriety as yet, the appearance of openness to help may hide an underlying resistance; it may be a passive - aggressive way of defeating the counselor by seeming to agree and comply.
There are examples in the literature
of alcoholics who have had long and successful psychoanalytic therapy to remove their major inner conflicts.
Counseling with the spouse or other relatives
of an alcoholic who is not yet open to help, is essentially crisis counseling.
However, much that is said will apply to other close relatives
of alcoholics who seek help — husbands, parents, grown children, etc..
Many Tories regard the eurozone as the equivalent
of alcoholics who would only drink away any cash they were given.
The study subjects were screened to eliminate people who were suffering from alcoholism themselves, so it is not yet known if taste perceptions also differ between children
of alcoholics who succumb to the disorder and those who do not.
AA meetings in Houston Al Anon Homepage (Has Links to Meetings) The Al - Anon Family Groups are a fellowship of relatives and friends
of alcoholics who share their experience, strength, and hope, in order to solve their common problems.
The Al - Anon Family Groups are a fellowship of relatives and friends
of alcoholics who share their experience, strength, and hope, in order to solve their common problems.
Not exact matches
His rough upbringing — which includes a revolving door
of stepfathers, an
alcoholic mother
who chased him around with a knife, and a period
of homelessness — makes a compelling origin story, a tale he still emotionally unspools at his seminars decades later.
He grew up with a mother
who has been described as an abusive
alcoholic and a pill user — plus a series
of stepfathers and father figures.
The face
of addiction a generation ago was that
of the working - class or upper - middle - class man, probably long and intimately known to his neighbors,
who stood up at an AA meeting in a church basement and bluntly said, «Hi, I'm X, and I'm an
alcoholic.»
Most importantly, note this: I am a Christian, I'm gay, I'm a recovering
alcoholic, I believe in Evolution, I believe the universe is 13 billion years old and that the Earth is 4.5 or so billion years old, I believe man evolved from lower primates and that Adam was the first man
who God gave a soul and sentience, I do not believe in hell but I do believe in Satan, I do not believe the Bible is a book
of rules meant to imprison man or condemn him but that it is rather a «Human Existence for Dummies» guide, I believe Christ was the son
of God but I do not believe Christianity is the only «valid» religion, I do not believe atheists will go to hell, while the English Bible says God should be feared, the Hebrew word used for fear, «yara», such as that used in the Book
of Job, actually means respect / reverence, not fear as one would fear death or a spider.
The gift
of God to the recovering
alcoholic is «a desire to stop drinking» and people
who care enough to be honest about life in the pursuit
of sobriety.
My soon to be 2 years
of being a «dry drunk», an
alcoholic is yes, due my belief in a higher power, perhaps GOD or God or even another human being
who has lived thier life alikened my path in life.
Also, as noted, I apologized for those times when my anger got the better
of me but in hindsight, I see I was exhibiting signs
of prologued trauma and abuse not signs
of mental illness (like most
of NYC I got tested post 9/11 and there's no signs
of mental illness though my childhood growing up with two
alcoholic parents
who died before I was 18 does produce some triggers that I now know how to manage so I don't let my anger get the better
of me).
Anonymity also casts an atmosphere
of clandestineness around the movement which gives it ~ certain added appeal, especially for those
alcoholics who are in the «gang» stage
of psychosocial development.
Our AA magazine says on its masthead: «
Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship
of men and women
who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
Is there anyone
who remembers, among church - going profiteers and racketeers, insatiable sexists,
alcoholics, torturers, and myriad murderers
of human rights - any
of the exploiting respectables
who remembers the story
of Cain and Abel and the piteous words: The voice
of thy brothers blood crieth unto me from the ground.
In other words, he should remain in the background, ready to offer advice and assistance but not taking a prominent part in the activities
of the one, two or three
alcoholics who are trying to get started.
Mary Karr — «completely unbaptised, completely without faith», an «undiluted agnostic», an
alcoholic and someone
who wants «to eat all
of the chocolate and snort all
of the cocaine and kiss all the boys», the child
of a father
who drank himself to death and a mother
who married seven times — started going.
Each morning at court the
alcoholics who seemed to have the best chance
of making a comeback were culled out and turned over to Captain Crocker.
These are low - bottom
alcoholics who are constantly in and out
of jail as a result
of repeated drunkenness - related arrests.
If a minister is known as a militant advocate
of prohibition and temperance, and if he treats alcoholism in a moralistic fashion in his public pronouncements, it is likely that some
alcoholics who might otherwise seek his help will give him a wide margin.
One
of the more outspoken
alcoholics I interviewed told
of a young minister
who apparently tried to use the AA group as a means
of obtaining members for his church.
He should see himself as the coordinator
of the team in providing help for those
alcoholics who come to him, unless there is some other persons or agency which can fulfill this function more efficiently.
Those
who advocated total abstinence but did not favor prohibition had seen an average
of 3.9
alcoholics per year.
Short - term therapy (a few weeks or months) with a psychiatrist
who is knowledgeable in the area
of alcoholism can be valuable for many
alcoholics who do not require longer - term psychiatric treatment.
Before proceeding, it might be helpful to the reader to indicate more directly the relevance
of the next three chapters to the work
of the pastor and others
who are concerned with helping
alcoholics.
In one two - year follow - up study
of 178
alcoholics, it was found that 24 percent
of those
who had received conditioned reflex therapy plus group therapy had improved; 26 percent
of those
who had had individual therapy plus group therapy had improved;
It is important, as well as comforting, to recall that Giorgio Lolli has said that individuals
who are relatively free from basic anxieties can have a beneficial influence on
alcoholics, regardless
of training.
Even to imply that a rare
alcoholic does recover this ability is to foster a dangerous, unrealistic hope for the vast majority
of alcoholic counselees, each
of whom wants desperately to believe that he is that rare person
who may recover control.
In such facilities the «clinical team» consists
of various combinations
of the following — an internist, a psychiatrist, a psychologist, a social worker, and, in a few clinics, a pastoral counselor and a recovered
alcoholic who serves as a counselor.
Representative
of the many
alcoholics who have found their way to AA and happy sobriety through the help
of their clergymen is Bob P.,
who has been sober in AA for several years.
Fortunate is the pastor
who lives in one
of the 220 areas in the United States and Canada in which
alcoholic clinics are available for referral.
In general, those
who had had considerable opportunity to work with
alcoholics showed a great deal
of understanding and realism concerning the psychology and methods
of such work.
It was found that those
who considered alcoholism primarily or entirely a matter
of sickness had seen a yearly average
of 9.3
alcoholics, whereas those ministers
who considered alcoholism primarily or entirely a matter
of sin had seen a yearly average
of only 2.3
alcoholics.
Ministers
who have attempted to «go it alone» in counseling
alcoholics have found their effectiveness to be doubled or even tripled when they learned to utilize all
of their community's helping resources to the hilt.
The Washingtonians are a grim reminder to AA's
of what might happen to their movement should they ever be diverted from their «one primary purpose... to carry its message to the
alcoholic who still suffers.»
Therefore, a minister
who holds to the temperance view would seem to be in a position
of having to choose whether he will make this a major emphasis or whether he wishes to counsel
alcoholics.
The 91 clergymen
who returned questionnaires reported having counseled with a total
of 353
alcoholics during that year.