Most likely you are emotionally drained because you are carrying a lot
of unresolved anger that is a direct consequence of not solving problems as they come up.
Or, will your child look out and not see one or either of you there, because
of your unresolved anger towards each other?
Imputing motives to people you don't know is immoral and a sign
of unresolved anger.
The amount
of unresolved anger and bitterness bubbling just under the surface has been incredibly shocking.
Not exact matches
Instead
of dealing with the real underlying issues, we find ourselves looking for another enemy, another scapegoat, another target for our
anger and
unresolved grievances.
Unresolved guilt, remorse,
anger, and grief form a vicious cycle
of intertwined, mutually reinforcing pain.
Yet I suspect that the results
of the sermon, in addition to transmitting certain head - level ideas about
anger, were to make his congregation feel guilty about their
unresolved hostility and to arouse hidden
anger toward the minister himself.
It does require both parents to put the needs
of the child ahead
of their own
unresolved anger and personal preferences.
If you've witnessed examples
of extreme,
unresolved anger for more than two weeks, seek the help
of a mental health professional who can provide one - on - one assistance and help your child work through these difficult emotions.
API looks at the intersection
of parenting and shame, keeping in mind that shame is a normal emotional response to certain social situations, but like
anger or disappointment, when
unresolved, shame can lead to lifelong difficulties.
A chance to present
anger / wounding as well as
unresolved past pain (* the past pain MUST be as a result
of a wound closely related to the present one), which will be uncomfortable to hear BUT requires validation from you — «I can see that I was disrespectful and devaluing to you and set a bad example for our children.»
For couples, we will explore ways
of communication to increase the connection and intimacy in your relationship, resolve conflict, and work through shame, guilt and long - standing and
unresolved anger.
This tough set
of marching orders ignores the fact that the two divorced parents march across terrain now made rugged by diminished finances,
unresolved anger and bitter remorse.
It does require both parents to put the needs
of the child ahead
of their own
unresolved anger and personal preferences.
If you have recently gone through a divorce, you might have
unresolved feelings
of anger toward your ex spouse; find yourself reeling from past betrayals both big and small; become stressed when you think about the legal and emotional ramifications
of the divorce; or you may even experience symptoms
of depression.
I believe that most
of our distress in life, often in the form
of anxiety, depression, or uncontrolled
anger, arises from
unresolved conflicts in our important relationships, past and present, and that psychotherapy works by providing a new relationship - a supportive, empathic one in a which person can explore these important interpersonal connections, come to understand them in new ways, and change them.
The crux
of the difficulties couples experience is the playing out, in ways large and small,
of those
unresolved feelings
of childhood: pain, rawness, fright,
anger.
TOUGH MARCHING ORDERS — Divorced parenting means facing the grim reality
of diminished finances,
unresolved anger and bitter remorse.
Being critical can begin innocently enough and is often the expression
of pentup,
unresolved anger.
Unresolved issues from the past are often at the root
of anxiety, depression,
anger, and recurrent relationship problems in the present.
Unresolved anger toward a parent, spouse, perpetrator
of violence / abuse can «fuel» destructive impulses within the addiction.