When you take the time to really reflect on your marriage, and fully understand the spectrum
of victories and defeats, you'll be armed with the insight you need to better engage with a future partner.
I will save an accounting
of my victories and defeats for later posts, but I still have a printout of Jay Greene's early email counsel about my school board enthusiasms (expressed in this Education Week essay in 2009) taped to a long - dead computer screen:
Some disagreements are resolvable only by agreements to disagree or acceptance of the provisional nature
of victories and defeats.
What is envisaged is an aeon of conflict,
of victory and defeat, of achievement and disappointment, of success and failure.
An alternating current
of victory and defeat for favorites appears to be the persistent theme of conference play as races gather momentum around the country.
«I think a big challenge for some parents is letting their child experience the ups and downs
of victory and defeat and the lessons they can learn from those experiences,» she says.
The universal body language of sports The Olympics are a good place to study the gestures
of victory and defeat — raised arms, slumped shoulders — many of which are consistent across sports and cultures.
While the young men from the United States Quartermaster Brigade of the 5th Army, the Italian Monte Rosa Division and the German 362nd Unit confront thoughts
of victory and defeat, the locals become embroiled in their own violent struggle as fascist and communist forces clash head - on.
Thousands of players arrived in Las Vegas to showcase their skills in a variety of games, resulting in some intense battles and emotional moments
of victory and defeat.
The sounds
of victory and defeat was -LSB-...]
In Spite of Their Defeat In this the gallery's inaugural group exhibition, artists Heimir Björgúlfsson, Juliana Paciulli, William Ransom, and Amir Zaki offer works that explore the dual existance
of victory and defeat.
Not exact matches
Even if they're not going to be involved in the day - to - day operations
of your business, they will be involved emotionally as they observe your day - to - day business
victories and defeats.
In
victory and defeat, they witnessed his great strength
of character, his high sense
of duty, his humility
and selflessness.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust
and sweat
and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again
and again, because there is no effort without error
and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph
of high achievement,
and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold
and timid souls who neither know neither
victory nor
defeat.
We know a thousand items about the day or yesterday, we learn the events
and troubles
and heartbreaks
of a hundred peoples, the policies
and pretensions
of a dozen capitals, the
victories and defeats of causes, armies, athletic teams.
In Chapter four
of Art
of War, Sun Tzu wrote that «he who is destined to
defeat first fights
and afterwards looks for
victory.»
As Christ claimed the
victory over death by death, so a Christian
defeats death
and the fear
of death with all
of its tragic consequences through a mindfulness
of death during his life.
Yet when such polarities are vying for our attention, there is no doubt that the chaos
of it all threatens to overwhelm us with shouts
of victory, eruptions
of defeat and visions
of rubble.
One used to hear that Vietnam was still awaiting its novelist: meaning that the tangled confused hypertext
of millions
of disparate
defeats and small
victories and lies
and photo - ops
and press conferences make no emotional sense until some Tolstoy can lead us through the emotional
and factual jungle to a deeper truth.
Lent leads to a set
of powerful
and paradoxical realities manifested in Holy Week
and the paschal event: death
and life,
defeat and victory, crucifixion
and resurrection.
After felicitously noting that for Soloveitchik «
victory and defeat are
of equal value,» he succumbs to the natural pull
of a more one - sided, hierarchical position, writing that the motion
of submissive retreat «is inherently endowed with holiness,» while «the act
of advance is not in itself holy,»
and so must be «imbued with this quality through the willingness to accept
defeat.»
Questions such as whether torture is permissible in Tolkien's world view, whether war is glorified (with a side - debate about how the films differ from the books in this respect),
and how
victory and defeat are characterised, are worth considering
and will encourage readers to think more deeply about LOTR
and appreciate how nuanced Tolkien's treatment
of these issues is.
They have been compulsively afraid
of defeat and have preferred to banish «negative thinking» from their consciousness while they magically reiterate the theme
of self - confidence
and victory.
A good winner has felt,
and thereby understands, the funk
of defeat; he knows that the best man doesn't always win;
and so he is therefore generous in
victory.
Obama's margin
of victory was much smaller than in 2008 when he
defeated John McCain by a 53 % to 46 % margin,
and he lost ground among white evangelical Protestants
and white Catholics.
I «prayed» to my gods
and got what I asked for — Obama
victory, approval
of same s3x marriage,
defeat of Akin
and Mourdock — so maybe there is something to «prayer»...
When Israel was
defeated and subjugated, many
of the Hebrews understood that God had abandoned them
and they begged God to return to lead them again to
victory over their enemies.
For the true sportsman every contest is a new beginning: he carries no burdens
of earlier
defeat and wears no garlands
of prior
victory; he plays each game solely for itself, as if there were no other.
Defeating the proponents
of embryonic research on their own utilitarian terms was worth doing, even if it is only a partial
and temporary
victory.
Religious groups can facilitate or undermine the legitimacy
of alliances,
and any such alliances may spell
victory,
defeat, or at least minor alterations in the opportunities
of population segments, whose identities are defined by religious commitments.
In the chronicle
of any great struggle, there are long spans
of waiting punctuated by brief but significant episodes
of terror,
victory,
and defeat.
It is to resist despair, to resist giving in to the terrible prices
of the struggle — the loss
of friends, the stubbornness
of evil, the inevitable weariness —
and to resist giving up hope when early
victories become clouded by
defeat, the way becomes difficult,
and the goal seems ever more distant.
«WE HAVE THE
VICTORY» For those struggling with thoughts of unforgiveness and attacks on the mind especially deceiving thoughts and doubts these are from satan in the word they are called fiery darts we are to quench those darts by faith so we need to read the word and believe that Gods word is true.We also have the victory over these thoughts because when we accept Jesus the holy spirit dwells within us so satan does nt have authority over us he can not rule what belongs to God he can only deceive.We can not defeat the enemy in our strength we need the holy spirit when we try and overcome him in our strength we struggle especially with our thoughs and in the area of sin.If you are having evil thoughts or doubts commit your way unto the Lord and let him fight your battle.Tell the enemy he has no authority over you that you are under the covering of Jesus Christ and when you have doubts memorise verses on faith ie greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world.The holy spirit is just like Jesus talk to him be friends with him he helps us to live like Christ and gives us the power to do it.We are overcomers more than conquerers through Christ who strengthens us.
VICTORY» For those struggling with thoughts
of unforgiveness
and attacks on the mind especially deceiving thoughts
and doubts these are from satan in the word they are called fiery darts we are to quench those darts by faith so we need to read the word
and believe that Gods word is true.We also have the
victory over these thoughts because when we accept Jesus the holy spirit dwells within us so satan does nt have authority over us he can not rule what belongs to God he can only deceive.We can not defeat the enemy in our strength we need the holy spirit when we try and overcome him in our strength we struggle especially with our thoughs and in the area of sin.If you are having evil thoughts or doubts commit your way unto the Lord and let him fight your battle.Tell the enemy he has no authority over you that you are under the covering of Jesus Christ and when you have doubts memorise verses on faith ie greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world.The holy spirit is just like Jesus talk to him be friends with him he helps us to live like Christ and gives us the power to do it.We are overcomers more than conquerers through Christ who strengthens us.
victory over these thoughts because when we accept Jesus the holy spirit dwells within us so satan does nt have authority over us he can not rule what belongs to God he can only deceive.We can not
defeat the enemy in our strength we need the holy spirit when we try
and overcome him in our strength we struggle especially with our thoughs
and in the area
of sin.If you are having evil thoughts or doubts commit your way unto the Lord
and let him fight your battle.Tell the enemy he has no authority over you that you are under the covering
of Jesus Christ
and when you have doubts memorise verses on faith ie greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world.The holy spirit is just like Jesus talk to him be friends with him he helps us to live like Christ
and gives us the power to do it.We are overcomers more than conquerers through Christ who strengthens us.brentnz
Reinhold Niebuhr, for example, wrote an exuberant review
of Science
and the Modern World in which he saw Whitehead's philosophy as «exactly the emphasis which modern religion needs to rescue it from
defeat on the one hand
and from a too costly philosophical
victory on the other.
It must live with regenerative awe
and wonder in the midst
of the strange turnings that transform
victory into
defeat and defeat into
victory; the humbling ironies
and the intractable conditions within both people
and nature that shatter the best laid plans
and destroy the bridges
of our hopes.
Until the next world, violence alone ensured the survival
of Christendom —
and so, after their
victory at the great Battle
of Lepanto, Spanish
and Italians butchered scores
of defeated Turkish seamen thrashing in the bloody seas, determined that the sultan would lose all his skilled bowmen
and rowers.
Elisha likewise played an active part in the
victories over Aram,
and Isaiah played a critical role in the
defeat of Sennacherib.
18) Edwin Markham, «
Victory in
Defeat,» from The Shoes
of Happiness
and Other Poems (New York: Random House, 1945), p. 347.
Closest to the idea
of monergism are stories where the
victory itself is won by the power
of Yahweh
and the role
of Israel is to pursue
and plunder the already
defeated foe.
It is only in recent years that historians have begun to write social
and economic histories; before that histories were primarily records
of defeats and victories in battle.
And the people
of Israel celebrated war with their finest literary efforts, glorying in
victory, lamenting in
defeat.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust
and sweat
and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again
and again, because there is no effort without error
and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph
of high achievement,
and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold
and timid souls who neither know
victory nor
defeat.
Resurrection shows that the death
of Jesus was not a shameful
defeat, but was a glorious
victory over all the forces
of evil, over sin, death,
and the devil.
This
victory of process thinkers begins to look like the
victory of the quantum physicists, who accepted history
and helped
defeat classical physics, but then realized that this was the kind
of accomplishment after which «you smile for months
and then you weep for years.»
It is the anguish
of waiting, the agony
of struggle; it is killing
and being killed, maiming
and being maimed; it is leave - taking, absence, fear
and hope, joy
and despair, devotion
and hatred, escape
and death; it is the exultation
of victory; it is the bitterness
of defeat; it is the incalculable aggregate
of all the blood, sweat,
and tears the war is costing the thousands who fight
and the millions who suffer the war's desolation.
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred by dust
and sweat
and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs
and comes short again
and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions,
and spends himself in a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows in the end the triumph
of high achievement;
and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold
and timid souls who know neither
victory nor
defeat.»
And from there it is another short step to «God allows all kinds
of prayers» - for
victory in battle, for the
defeat of enemies, for the smashing
of a corrupt political regime, for the removal
of a hated social or economic system.
Therein is based our faith on Jesus Christ, in that we CAN NOT (in our sinful nature) obey the whole law
of God (or even the first law, imho) without Him,
and with Him even when we stumble, he will set us back on the path, because he has
defeated sin
and death
and has won for us a
victory.
The story
of Jesus, he writes, is «the story
of God's kingdom being launched on earth as it is in heaven, generating a new state
of affairs in which the power
of evil has been decisively
defeated, the new creation has been decisively launched,
and Jesus» followers have been commissioned
and equipped to put that
victory and that inaugurated new world into practice.»
I am skeptical
of the meaning
of «
victory»
and «
defeat» in their relation to modern war between great countries.