They discover and enable the sharing
of vulnerable emotions as well as attachment fears and longings all in the service of creating enough safety to re-shape the bond and create a more secure attachment between partners.
Objective # 5: Participants will be able to demonstrate knowledge of and engage in a Hold Me Tight conversation with their partner including the expression
of vulnerable emotions and attachment - related needs.
Not exact matches
Of course caring also makes us
vulnerable, so perhaps that is why pastors are cautioned to avoid
emotions that lead to closeness with the laity.
Although Ferdinand wasn't socially isolated or financially
vulnerable, he still experienced the tumultuous range
of emotions that grief brings.
I've seen the macho stuff as a cover up for fear based weak (afraid
of emotions) men who are FEARFUL
of being
vulnerable - something Christ wanted out
of His followers.
You may, however, be making him extremely unhappy, angry, hurt, resentful and a lot
of other crappy
emotions that make him
vulnerable to one.
Steph and Aglaée get
vulnerable and discuss their personal struggles, crazy thoughts, rollercoaster ride
of emotions, and strategies for surviving the newborn phase and first few months.
It also plays on the fragile and
vulnerable emotions of new parents like myself, whether or not they are parenting after loss.
While it is true that angry leaders are perceived by others to wield more power, followers warm more easily to those showing more
vulnerable emotions, says Tanja Schwarzmüller
of the Technical University
of Munich in Germany.
People with Botox may be less
vulnerable to the angry
emotions of other people because they themselves can't make angry or unhappy faces as easily.
Having
vulnerable and emotional conversations is hard for everyone but especially people who are sensitive or inexperienced in the language
of emotion.
Steph and Aglaée get
vulnerable and discuss their personal struggles, crazy thoughts, rollercoaster ride
of emotions, and strategies for surviving the newborn phase and first few months.
Life is hard sometimes, and oh so
vulnerable and can put us into all type
of resentments and
emotions, but we are tough and while none
of us will make it out alive, we can choose to live each day as it was to be our very last and not to worry about what tomorrow holds for us; and if you believe in the highest power, you should also trust His timing.
This isn't a bad thing, and it doesn't mean that someone like this is desperate or needy, simply that they are more
vulnerable to falling for people who don't reciprocate their feelings or who are scared off by the strength
of their
emotions.
Ill - intentioned persons will seek to take advantage
of the unhappiness
of others since they are most
vulnerable when it comes to
emotions.
Out
of that
vulnerable environment springs actual
emotion.
He says he didn't realize what he was doing, and seeing my
vulnerable and honest expression
of raw
emotion flipped a switch.
The songs are intricately plotted to give the illusion
of being impulsive and obsessive, buffeted by shifting
emotions: by turns sensual and wary,
vulnerable and guarded, leisurely and urgent.
While the cast are universally fantastic, with Emily Blunt amazing as the
vulnerable yet badass mother and Krasinski carrying multiple
emotions with his pained yet stoic father figure, it will be Simmonds that gets the lion's share
of the credit.
Best Actress: Annette Bening — Kids Are All Right — stern, intelligent yet moving and likeable — it takes a real pro to accomplish that with such style and verve Nicole Kidman — Rabbit Hole — heartbreaking but resilient — a perfect balance between broken and fixed — it is so joyful to watch a character so succinctly communicated Lesley Manville — Another Year — heartbreaking with closeup after closeup
of vulnerability and grasping hope — truly a fragile and pulsating performance Julianne Moore — Kids Are All Right — courageous and oh so human — sexy and
vulnerable in an earthy way — her struggles with herself are the heart
of the movie and she carries it magnificently and warmly Natalie Portman — Black Swan — the tour de force this year — the crazy, emotionally volatile core
of a crazy, emotionally volatile film — some wonder if it might be «easer» to play such big
emotions but the incredibly thin wire she has to traverse in such an extreme environment is daunting and she makes it work and gives us believability and solicits true sympathy in the middle
of a fright fest — a truly accomplished achievement
As Mildred Hayes, a gruff woman grappling with the aftereffects
of an abusive ex-husband (John Hawkes) and the attentions
of a new romantic suitor (Peter Dinklage) whom she perpetually exasperates, McDormand plays a wide range
of emotions in Three Billboards — standoffish, sarcastic, and at times quite
vulnerable.
Moss plays Catherine as
vulnerable and in pain, tangled in a torrent
of contradictory
emotions — anger, betrayal, love, hate, don't leave me and get the hell out
of here — but also narcissistic, self - involved, without any ability to empathize, and Waterston is distant and wary as Virginia, still angry at Catherine's neglect
of her emotional turmoil in a previous getaway.
Hooper puts his cast out in front, scaling down the film from gigantic sets and props to make his film «Les Miserables» a movie
of faces and
emotions, Jackman provides a physically demanding part both in voice and presence and proves himself fully capable, both strong and
vulnerable, as Valjean.
It's very easy to lose the story
of Batman in the midst
of more interesting villains, and that certainly seemed the case with The Dark Knight, but Rises puts Wayne right back under the microscope, and Bale finds new depths
of emotion with the character, making him more
vulnerable and ultimately human than before.
John, cynical yet
vulnerable, thinks he's immune to
emotion until he meets bright, brittle Marisol, the author
of his favorite zine.
Despite society and the risk
of appearing
vulnerable, there are plenty
of men out there who are eager to express their
emotions.
She hardens herself to survive, but years after she has lived in the United States, it is clear she is willing to make herself
vulnerable to gain some peace and understanding
of who she is and how she can meld her conflicting
emotions, fears and hopes into a whole, connected person.
These silk sheets, and the
emotions that have been wiped onto them, are left
vulnerable and at the mercy
of the viewer.
Years from now you will look back on and be reminded
of the those first cuddles and tender
vulnerable emotions.
Mindfulness - based interventions, including mindfulness - based stress reduction (MBSR), are deemed to promote a better awareness and acceptance
of emotions as they occur and therefore could help develop emotional competencies in professional caregivers.18 However, despite the importance
of empathy in healthcare and the suggested capacity
of mindfulness practice to increase empathy and its related emotional competencies, these have seldom been selected as primary or secondary outcomes in previous studies.19 20 We conducted two inter-related studies to test for the effect
of mindfulness on these outcomes in a population
of professionals
vulnerable to burnout.
The concentration
of beneficial nurse effects on the emotional, language, and mental development
of children born to mothers with low psychological resources in the current trial is consistent with corresponding nurse effects on child abuse, neglect, and injuries among children born to low - resource mothers in earlier trials
of this program.10, 17,19 The
vulnerable and low - vitality
emotion classifications are relevant to child maltreatment.
Several researchers have postulated that SIB is a mechanism used to compensate for inadequate affect regulation in situations perceived as stressful.7, 8 Although primarily derived from clinical populations, the affect - regulation theory helps to explain SIB in community populations as well, since many report it as a method
of coping with unwanted negative
emotion.9, 10 If so, individuals
vulnerable to SIB may also be at heightened risk
of suicidality when trauma or psychological distress overwhelms their capacity to cope effectively.
Although anger at someone, can sometimes serve as the original response to an event, it is more often a way
of protecting yourself from a more
vulnerable emotion.
Being in a relationship has almost become an exercise in survival, and
of course, when we think we need to protect ourselves against hurt from our partner, we are not going to open up to them, acknowledge our insecurities and fears, and count on them to safeguard our most
vulnerable emotions.
Couples in relationships that are caught in the negative cycle
of the dragon, have learned to protect themselves from hurt by withdrawing their most tender and
vulnerable emotions, and leading the way with their anger and their coldness.
Instead
of the softer, more
vulnerable emotions, we instead communicate our frustrations and our anger, our jealousy and our self - righteousness.
I watch the compelling, absorbing nature
of negative
emotions (Gottman, 2007) and the unresolved hurts and wounds (Johnson, 2008) that get in the way
of being able to engage in respectful, mutually honest, and
vulnerable conversations.
Once partners become more aware
of their underlying needs, fears, and longings, they are helped to communicate with each other on the basis
of these more tender and
vulnerable emotions.
These women develop a belief that they must be strong at all times, never show their
vulnerable emotions, never allow themselves to depend on others to have their needs met, and always set their own needs aside to take care
of others.
Looking for the «soft» or,
vulnerable emotions underneath someone's hard display
of anger, will help keep you connected as you are better equipped to empathize with that person's true
emotion.
In psychodynamic therapy approaches, people who resort to violence in order to hide deeper
emotions are encouraged to become conscious
of the more
vulnerable feelings that may underlie their aggression.
As my partner is less comfortable than I with sharing his deepest
emotions, it helped so much to have a room full
of other couples, all being open and
vulnerable with one another.
When we suppress our
vulnerable emotions like sadness (like when Riley lets them get lost), our other
emotions (fear, disgust, shame, anger) go into overdrive so we don't always understand why we respond so harshly to someone or something until we've taken the time to slow ourselves down and discover the deeper feelings
of hurt and sadness and let them have a voice.
It creates a safe environment for the
vulnerable exploration and expression
of emotion.
Many
of us get caught in the trap
of getting angry when we feel these
vulnerable emotions.
What if we expressed some
of our softer and
vulnerable emotions — the ones that we sometimes feel safer expressing through text messages — directly with our partners or kids?
Regardless
of social conventions, all humans are capable
of deep love, but some people are afraid to open themselves up to
emotion because it feels
vulnerable.
During the
vulnerable teenage years, strength - based parenting is associated with higher levels
of life satisfaction, positive
emotions and confidence in the ability to cope with stress, which is especially relevant given one in four young Australians is affected by a mental health condition.
When people can feel positive
emotions at the same time that they feel negative
emotions, they are less
vulnerable to the effects
of stress.
Often they've spent much
of their lives learning how to avoid feeling
vulnerable at all costs — which works well in situations demanding that they stay calm, turn off
emotions, remain task focused, and perform under pressure.