Instead, you will learn to live with the reality that
these often painful thoughts and beliefs about yourself will arise from time to time, and that what is really important is accepting these distressing thoughts without allowing them to dominate your life.
Not exact matches
I
think it is
often more
painful when «bad things» happen to those we love than when they happen to us.
Willimon's alternative to narrative triviality, «to engage in thoughtful,
often painful reassessment of our circumstances; to
think it out, to consider the evidence and to act on our verdict» actually invites an inductive process.
At any moment this has a focus, but one which shifts continually, now on perception of the outside world, now on a memory which has somehow been stored out of mind (perhaps for many decades), now on an emotional state, now on a toothache, now on construction of an abstract pattern of
thought, now on communication with others, but again and again on the
often painful process of choosing among courses of action, and then of acting.
Thank you for sharing your
thought - provoking and
often painful stories.
I
think this book is essential for women to read to remind them that birth does not have to be a scary,
painful riddled experience as it is
often portraited.
There is no value in denying or sugarcoating feelings; so while well - meaning advice like, «be strong,» «try not to
think about it,» or «get over it» might appear powerful, they fail to honor the very real, raw and
often painful experiences of life.
I
think that it's a very individual thing... some women are more comfortable in their own skins, more confident, the changing hormonal mix they encounter during perimenopause (the years of hormonal fluctuations before a woman goes through menopause) can have a positive (or a negative) effect —
often the vaginal tissues thin due to those changes and initially can be very beneficial as it makes everything feel much better — in some it can go too far and it ends up feeling more
painful.
The
thought of that made me cringe every so
often while I was shopping, but finally I found a skirt that would make the memory of the old one a little less
painful.
I'll go ahead and add that I love Schappell's snappy (and
often painful - in - a-good-way) dialogue... especially when a character is
thinking one thing and saying another.
In times of crisis, people
often can not do more than hang on to the here and now, because memories of someone who is gone and
thoughts of the future without them are just too
painful.
Don't neglect it
thinking it will go away;
often times pups will continue to scratch until they scratch their skin raw, causing a
painful infection.
The onset is usually very
painful and the dog will cry out and may fall down: owners
often think that the dog has broken its leg or even its back.
There are several reasons: (a) it's less adversarial than going to court; (b) it's more private; (c) you retain control of the process — i.e., you are not bound by what the mediator
thinks (indeed, most mediators see their role as helping the parties effectuate their goals, not imposing the mediator's ideas); (d) it's usually much less expensive; (e) if there are children involved, the process is less likely to embroil them in a
painful conflict; and (f) mediation
often gives divorcing couples a better chance of successfully negotiating issues that may come up in the future (such as child support, alimony, or custody and visitation issues).
I find that couples
often think the only option to a
painful marriage is divorce — and they make that decision from a place of emotion and fantasy, without clarity about the financial and emotional realities.
People who are fused with their
thoughts tend to struggle with or avoid
painful emotions, and
often struggle with choosing a purposeful and values - guided action.
Psychotherapy is
often an effective treatment for jealousy: Couples experiencing mutual jealousy may benefit from marital counseling, while an individual experiencing jealousy might benefit from working with a therapist to process
painful emotions and reframe negative, damaging
thoughts that affect his or her behavior.
We
often bury
painful experiences from the past even though they can continue to affect the way we behave and
think in the present.
Withdrawers
often believe «I'm not enough for you»,
often amidst a
painful internal battle of trying to prove
thoughts and beliefs wrong.
Despite the initial very difficult transition during which you are likely overwhelmed with numerous
painful thoughts and feelings, going through therapy at such a vulnerable time
often results in deepening of insight and self - love, healing attachment wounds and preparing for healthier and more successful future relationships (to both friends or future partners).