Not exact matches
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Parenting,
Unconditional Parenting.
... please go
on, skim, read, devour, or whatever your mood, temperament or ambition dictates, these pages
on parenting experts and
parenting styles e.g. positive
parenting,
unconditional parenting and attachment
parenting.
• The need to exercising self - compassion as you process emotions • Emotional purging in a conscious way to move to an easier
parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time • Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
parenting journey • Moving passed mindfulness and consciousness to peacefulness • Functioning as a peaceful human being • Moving from «doing» to «being» • The value of peaceful presence, free of emotional trigger, for your kids • Modelling ownership of behavior for your kids • Peacefulness as a practice that takes time •
Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself • Unconditional love — what does that l
Parenting as an extension of nature: gradually forging new pathways in your relationships and being expansive, not staying «stuck» • The healing power of authenticity with your kids • Aiming for perseverance and presence, not perfection • Exercising compassion for others and recognizing we don't know their struggles • Learning how not to try to control others and focus
on self to remain peaceful • Journalling as a practice to release emotions • Finding opportunities for stillness • Releasing others from the responsibility for reading your mind • Shifting to a solution focus to create momentum • Fear: being curious about it to avoid being driven by it • Showing up in your own home to make a difference in the world • Practical ways to nourish yourself •
Unconditional love — what does that look like?
I just finished
Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn, so the de-emphasis
on praising wasn't new to me, but I agree with the comments above that the research examples Nurtureshock gave really resonated with me.
It was also through this process that I found some of my favorite
parenting books, including The Science of Parenting by Margot Sunderland and Alfie Kohn's Unconditional Parenting, which have had a big impact on my p
parenting books, including The Science of
Parenting by Margot Sunderland and Alfie Kohn's Unconditional Parenting, which have had a big impact on my p
Parenting by Margot Sunderland and Alfie Kohn's
Unconditional Parenting, which have had a big impact on my p
Parenting, which have had a big impact
on my
parentingparenting.
I have found great comfort and advice in this area from a number of books (Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves,
Unconditional Parenting, I Love You Rituals, and Gordon Neufeld's latest book) All of these books are sending the same message: harsh treatment of our little ones leave long - lasting and damaging effects
on them.
Unconditional parenting asks you to create a
parenting plan or a family doctrine that supports the needs of all members, to set forth the «rules of the house» - the guidelines that children and
parents agree
on together about how family members should be treated and how tasks will be divided.
I've been
on board with limiting praise for my kids ever since reading
Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn.
And while most
parents would say they want to raise compassionate kids, they might be surprised to discover just how little they're actually modeling the behaviors they hope to pass
on — qualities such as
unconditional love, gentleness, forgiveness, patience, gratitude, humility, and more.
The film's resonance extends far beyond the gun control debate (though the
parents featured are now all activists
on that front) and summons «the exquisite beauty and inherent terror of parenthood — the
unconditional love and complete lack of control.»
The Humane Society will provide all necessary food and supplies so that the foster
parents can focus their attention
on giving the kitties
unconditional love and a proper home in which to grow.
Attachment
parenting is based
on mutual respect, behavior modelling,
unconditional love, and talking as well as listening.
If you wish to know more about
unconditional positive
parenting than you get
on this
parenting style quiz page, you might like these high - level
parenting articles
on positive
parenting, attachment
parenting and
unconditional parenting.
Parenting oneself takes
unconditional love for wounded parts, Letting those prevail even
on the interests of one's adult children / grandchildren.
For the
parents of overweight children, every day is a balancing act;
on one hand, there is the natural desire to show one's child
unconditional... Read more...
Lighthouse
parenting is also based
on two main principles: giving
unconditional love and letting children fail, Care.com reveals.
Unconditional parenting is based on the therapeutic principles of the unconditional pos
Unconditional parenting is based
on the therapeutic principles of the
unconditional pos
unconditional positive regard.
If I were to put names
on the
parenting styles I practice, I would say that it's a mix of positive
parenting, attachment
parenting and
unconditional parenting.
Like attachment
parenting,
unconditional parenting states that meeting a child's needs
on an individual level is the basis for all healthy relationships.
On the other hand, children raised with
unconditional parenting (
unconditional positive regard, attachment
parenting) are more likely to grow into adults who are not afraid of intimate relationships, are able to think independently, and are committed to good values and behavior because it was modeled to them by people who love and accept them for who they are, not what they do.
As a
parent, she considers some of the most inspirational and helpful ideas outside academia being those of Dan Siegel regarding
parenting from the inside out, Alfie Kohn for
unconditional parenting, LR Knost for sensitive
parenting and Jesper Juuls ideas
on building a close, authentic relationship with your child.
In this way positive
parenting, attachement
parenting and
unconditional parenting are
parenting styles that focus
on the child's needs to bring those attractive long term results such as high self esteem, high awareness, critical thinking, taking responsibility for one's own life and genuine respect for other people.
Unconditional positive regard is when a child feels like a
parent's love, acceptance, and approval is given freely and not conditional
on behavior.
Always assure them that they can count
on both
parents unconditional love, however the divorce dispute turns out.
But according to «
Unconditional Parenting,» if you start with unconditional love, you won't need to rely on the sometimes - frustrating system of punishmen
Unconditional Parenting,» if you start with
unconditional love, you won't need to rely on the sometimes - frustrating system of punishmen
unconditional love, you won't need to rely
on the sometimes - frustrating system of punishment and reward.