I encourage compliments that focus
on behavior rather than something that can not be altered or developed like a physical characteristic.
Avoiding harsh punishment and focusing
on behaviors rather than the child is also helpful.
They still expected you to perform, they still pushed you, and they still benched you when you missed practice or got in a fight on the field, but they focused their disappointment
on behaviors rather than you as a person.
Mark Brooks:... and when you match people based
on their behaviors rather than who they say they are, you get better results.
Not exact matches
To the Fed's credit, the majority of FOMC members in January 2008 based their policy decisions
on the mounting dysfunctional
behavior of the financial markets
rather than ephemeral coincident indicators such as real GDP growth.
If this happens, always consider delaying the conversation
rather than allowing impulsive reactions to cloud your judgment or have a negative impact
on your words and
behavior.
The philosophy of stoicism, founded in Athens by Zeno of Citium in the early 3rd century BC, asserts that virtues (such as wisdom) should be based
on behavior,
rather than words.
Rather than looking for hacking tools, Exabeam's technology monitors human
behavior on a company's networks.
Rather, I want to shed light
on the single
behavior that neither contender has managed to master — to their own detriment: empathy.
He saw the business opportunity in offering analytics software that would help clients design products based
on user
behavior rather than
on hunches.
In a study done last month in the journal Environment and
Behavior, researchers at Cornell University manipulated the gaze of the cartoon rabbit
on Trix cereal boxes and found that adult subjects were more likely to choose Trix over competing brands if the rabbit was looking at them
rather than away.
Rather than simply communicating with users who visited their own Facebook pages, brands could now study data about user
behavior and capitalize
on their perceived interests.
It is likely Keynes would see this mindset reflected in current investment
behavior where the focus is often
on short - term trading activity in reaction to market noise, i.e., what other market participants are thinking,
rather than investment decisions based
on the fundamental longer - term value of an enterprise.
But that approach has largely fallen out of favor, with more states turning to red flag laws that focus not
on a mental health diagnosis but
rather on dangerous
behavior.
«Since we never know when risky
behavior will bring
on a market correction, I'm going to issue a warning today
rather than wait until one is upon us,» Marks wrote.
Here is another study going the rounds
on the web that claims that a law / rules - centered morality
rather than a relational morality can blind us to the harm our
behavior does to others:
I'm working
on a hypothesis that atheism at root has nothing to do with belief or lack of belief, but
rather results from refusing to engage with certain modes of cognition and
behavior.
With the exception of predatory
behaviors that take advantage of the vulnerable among us, we should concentrate
on cleaning up our own act,
rather than remaking others into our own image so that their presence is not challenge our narcissistic psychological comfort zones.
Science can discern, in the hundreds of thousands (probably millions) of years (Since Mankind's
behavior on the «tree of Life» is
rather that of a flowering than of an ordinary shoot, it is possible that the estimate of several million years, based
on the average longevity of animal forms, should be materially reduced to allow for the acceleration due to the totalization of the Noosphere.)
The primary focus in Homey's therapy is
on the situation one is now facing and
on the current function of
behavior,
rather than
on the discovery of the infantile roots of the problem.
Putting the focus back
on chastity might help us remember that repentance and redemption are always possible, as well as encourage us to view sexual
behavior in a wider context of self - control, bodily respect, and patience,
rather than as a simple prohibition against a particular physical action.»
Thus pigeons can be trained to put like items together (match - to - sample), but because pigeons»
behavior is based mainly
on absolute
rather than relational factors, pigeons fail to transfer relations, e.g., relations of hue to relations of brightness.
The Church would
rather take a moralistic stand
on the women involved in prostitution, blaming them for their lack of a moral code of
behavior than challenge the men to examine their depraved sexuality.
Some evolutionary social scientists refer to our species as «the moral animal,» which I suppose means that we have the potential to reflect
on the affects of our
behavior rather than simply be blindly driven by survivalist insticts.
That's because same - sex
behavior in the first century was not understood to be the expression of an exclusive sexual orientation but
rather it was understood as excess
on the part of those who could easily be content with heterosexual relationships, but who went beyond them in search of more exotic pleasures.
When neurosis is viewed as the product of the impossible demands made
on the individual by an overdeveloped conscience, therapy may be directed not toward helping the patient live up to his or her conscience, but
rather toward bringing down the conscience to the level of
behavior.
It's an ideal focused
on an identity in Christ
rather than
behavior — straight, gay, or celibate — as the judge of one's acceptability.
In other words, we focused
on belief
rather than
behavior and belonging, both of which are valid categories.
This isn't an attack
on His sovereignty by any means, but
rather an observation I've come to based
on the
behavior and statements regarding God.
I see his point, but it seems that the emphasis
on right action can lead to lead to legalism and an emphasis
on outward
behavior rather than the inner attitude of hearth, something Jesus and the Prophets frequently criticized.
This
behavior ties in with research
on need gratification in a situation of imbalance, and with the tendency to seek gratification of existing needs within areas perceived to be similar to previous
behavior patterns
rather than in areas perceived to be radically different.
What we are being provided with is a general caricature of this social class which is a statistical fact
rather than an inviolable law
On the whole the actions of this class exemplify modes of
behavior determined by their social environment.
My personal experiences with shifting to a healthier diet have been that I am much more successful when I focus
on behaviors that I should add or increase,
rather than those I should eliminate.
Research shows that soups can help you lose weight: in one study, published in the journal Physiology &
Behavior, people consumed the fewest calories
on days when they ate soup
rather than the same ingredients in solid form.
Remember to reward good
behavior with gentle praise, caresses and treats,
rather than focusing
on punishing poor
behavior.
Rather than focusing
on addressing every
behavior issue or adhering to a perfect schedule each day, try to hit the important targets and realize that you might have to let some smaller things go each day.
When we focus
on the healthy need every
behavior demonstrates
rather than the
behavior itself, we can build a new level of understanding and a deeper connection with our children.
They can bring home an income and be wonderful caregivers for their kids, but the message I was trying convey to you is that since we learn gender roles early
on, it is to no surprise why as young boys, one would learn values that are geared more towards homeward stability and success,
rather than other virtues, i.e. dependent
behavior.
I don't believe there's any one cure - all, but I would definitely advise parents to seek help that focuses
on relationships, and
on the needs behind their child's
behaviors,
rather than
on diagnoses and medication.
Rather than focusing
on the agony of the unwanted
behavior, parents change their response to it.
Conclusion: Using bribes to manipulate kids to repeat a desired
behavior is a control tactic that makes kids focus
on the reward
rather than helping them want to repeat the
behavior.
Rather than, punitively, playing «take - away» with the child when they're not conforming to family rules, it's much better to focus
on educating them beforehand about the negative outcome of their questionable
behaviors.
But
rather than reacting to their attempts to derail you, focus
on the
behavior at hand and give consequences for it.
To arrive at a universal truth regarding human development and
behavior, Bowlby felt it was necessary to utilize several fields of scientific inquiry
rather than rely
on existing theories of psychoanalysis alone.
The first limitation is «model attachment is based
on behaviors that occur during momentary separations (stressful situations)
rather than during nonstressful situations.
Let your tween select, modify, and create his or her own experiences and environments
rather than relying
on a one - size - fits - all approach that is presented by average
behavior models.
Though these kinds of responses are well meaning, they teach kids to rely
on our evaluations
rather than to learn to form their own judgments about
behavior.
Rather than focus
on taking away privileges for misbehavior, emphasize to your child that he can earn rewards for good
behavior.
If it's only
on the odd occasion your child is not happy to share, it's a good idea to remove the object that is causing this
behavior,
rather than putting your child through a lecture.
Rather than taking an authoritarian stance
on everything, show a willingness to evaluate your child's
behavior in the context of the circumstance.