Have a read of API's Nighttime Parenting article for more information
on cosleeping and some important safety information.
I'd like to discuss that a bit more in this post, and my next post will be chock - full of the science
on cosleeping and sleep training.
I have resorted to cosleeping but in light of all our pediatric policies
on cosleeping, the guilt only gets worse.
Thanks so much for sharing your perspective and experience
on cosleeping with two very different kiddos.
That said, every family is different and it's good to read some facts
on cosleeping that make sense.
we had planned
on cosleeping using a sidecar arrangement but after a week of putting my son in the cosleeper to start the night and ending up with him in the bed with us we just keep him with us from the start.
In Milwaukee, the local government has declared war
on cosleeping.
I am pregnant and we plan
on cosleeping with our little one.
Not only are they spending taxpayer money to pay for advertising, consulting, billboards, etc in their attack
on cosleeping, effectively shifting the limelight away from the real issue, but they also blamed smoking and maternal obesity for the extreme numbers of deaths due to stillbirth and prematurity.
My numbers come from the McKenna and McDade study
on cosleeping.
Not exact matches
That being said, I never had a colicky baby, and both of my babes were happy with baby wearing,
on demand nursing, and
cosleeping.
Full - color glossy brochure about infant sleep safety and
cosleeping based
on API's Principle of Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally.
«It's incredible watching these sequences unfold,» says McKenna, acclaimed as the father of this type of sleep research and the world's foremost authority
on the biological basis of
cosleeping.
I can sit nearby after getting everyone to sleep and work
on my next book into the depths of each night, so grateful for an understanding hubby who is supportive of
cosleeping and so incredibly resourceful and talented.
I sit nearby after getting everyone to sleep and work
on my next book into the depths of each night, so grateful for an understanding hubby who is supportive of
cosleeping and so incredibly resourceful and talented.
One common argument against
cosleeping is that it will create children who are more dependent
on parents than children who sleep alone, or that
cosleeping children will never learn to sleep alone.
Based
on all of the above information, it sounds like
cosleeping is not a causational variable but correlational variable.
I somehow got
on the subject of
cosleeping (which isn't too hard for me), and she «admitted» that her baby sleeps in a crib.
Many of the AP practices were things we already planned
on doing — such as natural birth and extended breastfeeding — and others evolved naturally once we became parents, including
cosleeping, babywearing and gentle discipline.
People are so quick to pass judgment or offer «advice»
on the proper way to do something:
cosleeping or crib, breastfeeding or bottle feeding, homemade baby food or store - bought.
The Director of the Mother - Baby Sleep Laboratory at Notre Dame and author of the book Sleeping with Your Baby: A Parent's Guide to
Cosleeping, is an expert
on the subject, and all bedsharing parents should be familiar with his Safe
Cosleeping Guidelines.
I was given the book babywise and have since learned how stupid the whole western idea of solitary sleep is when you understand how human milk is produced and human milk for human bubs is obviously ideal although I am glad we have formula for situations in which it is impossible and feel for women who miss out
on all the closeness of
cosleeping / breastfeeding etc..
Since he started
cosleeping we would still put him in the crib
on occasion.
James McKenna, PhD., probably the foremost researcher
on the topic of mother - infant
cosleeping, has written Sleeping with Your Baby: A Parent's Guide to Co-Sleeping.
I have written quite a few posts
on the benefits of
cosleeping and the negative effects of allowing babies to cry.
I think we'll have an early walker... anyway he has been teething for over 3 months, so we have been
cosleeping since he was 4.5 months old and I feel like its time he learns to fall asleep
on his own.
Western culture largely has frowned
on the arrangement, whereas
cosleeping seems to be the norm in other developing countries.
Collectivist cultures, meaning cultures that place greater value
on the good of the group as opposed to the individual, are more likely to
cosleep than societies that emphasize the individual.
So, to stay awake, Mom may decide to breastfeed her baby
on the couch or in the rocking chair — locations that are well - documented to be dangerous for
cosleeping — where she might then fall asleep.
We started off
cosleeping with our newborn in a bassinet
on the headboard (it is a very wide headboard!).
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Cosleeping... Peaceful Homes... Birth... and much more.
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on mothering from a natural living standpoint, traveling with kids, and Waldorf posts.
I have learned a great deal from this website / blog, but
on the sleeping issue you clearly only advocate for
cosleeping.
The influence of parent - infant
cosleeping, nursing, and childcare
on cortisol and SIgA immunity in a sample of British children.
And the assumption by pediatric sleep researchers that there is one ideal sleeping arrangement for all, or that
cosleeping is harmful and detrimental or that infants need to «consolidate their sleep as soon in life as is possible» is not only fallacious but harmful and it explains why western parents are the most exhausted, disappointed least satisfied, (yet, most educated and well read), I am convinced, than any other parents
on the planet, as regards their infant's sleep.
The bed / crib / bassinet should not have any stuffed animals or pillows around the infant, or other children in it (if an adult bed); and never should an infant be placed to sleep alone in a bed, or
on top of, or around a pillow but rather, if bedsharing, infants are best positioned under the breastfeeding mother's arm, usually under her triceps, the universal position for a breastfeeding -
cosleeping infant.
Do recall that
cosleeping with an infant
on a couch, recliner, or sofa, though also forms of
cosleeping are, however, dangerous and should be avoided as they increase the chances of suffocation, regardless of sobriety.
In short, and as mentioned above,
cosleeping (whether
on the same surface or not) facilitates positive clinical changes including more infant sleep and seems to make, well, babies happy.
(While these traits may be confounded by parental attitudes, such findings are clearly inconsistent with the folk belief that
cosleeping has detrimental long - term effects
on psycho - social development.
We
cosleep bc my lo sleeps better that way and I get anxious if she isn't next to me... We sleep
on a king and moved in a twin size bed in our room for dh haha..
This website is intended to give scientifically — based information, provide downloadable scientific articles, as well as provide access to educational PowerPoint presentations and television appearances about my work
on mother - infant
cosleeping and breastfeeding.
Avoid
cosleeping with a baby
on a couch as too many that I know of slipped face down into the cracks between the pillow seats and were compressed against the back wall of the couch, or fell face down into the back part of the couch and suffocated.
Persons taking sedatives, medications or drugs, or intoxicated from alcohol or other substances, or otherwise excessively unable to arouse easily from sleep should not
cosleep on the same surface with the infant.
Personally, I would also avoid
cosleeping on waterbed, although there may be some instances they are firm enough and lack deep crevices (around the frame) that could be deemed safe.
Like so many things in life the truth is a bit complex: there is no one outcome (good or bad) that can be associated with
cosleeping in the form of «bed - sharing, but rather a range of outcomes (from potentially beneficial to dangerous and risky) depending
on the overall circumstances within which the
cosleeping takes place.
Laboratory studies reveal that the average duration of infant and maternal awakenings in the
cosleeping environment are shorter
on average than the awakenings mothers and babies experience when baby awakens in another room, and requires intervention before going back to sleep (see Mosko et al 1997).
According to the statement,
cosleeping on the sofa, or when extremely exhausted, or taking drugs (including I'd imagine flu medication and sleeping pills) or after drinking is dangerous.
* A study of parents of 86 children in clinics of pediatrics and child psychiatry (ages 2 - 13 years)
on military bases (offspring of military personnel) revealed that
cosleeping children received higher evaluations of their comportment from their teachers than did solitary sleeping children, and they were underrepresented in psychiatric populations compared with children who did not
cosleep.
It was a wonderful home birth and my midwives actually told us she should sleep
on me, but we didn't understand
cosleeping yet and didn't do it.
I was DEAD SET against
cosleeping before I had my son — I had seen all the literature
on the risks and the supposed «evidence» about how it was SOOOO much more dangerous than a crib.