But you might be surprised by other question threads, including opinions
on disciplining children; that is, if you are both on the same page about family planning.
Previous research has focused
on disciplining children as young as age 3, in part, because spanking is common among children of this age.
For general ideas on handling challenging behavior read my article
on disciplining children.
Tell me about a time when a parent disagreed with your approach
on disciplining their child.
Not exact matches
It's
discipline and determination that will drive you to work when you're tired, when there's a sports game
on, when your
child wants to play and when the business isn't succeeding.
From then
on and many years till now, parents had to teach and
discipline their
children.
For decades, American evangelicals have fiercely fought any legal or cultural limits
on parents» «rights» to
discipline their
children.
I lean heavily
on my mother and my sister for
disciplining my
children, for an extra set of hands, for help cleaning the kitchen.
I concluded at the time of the riots that of all the things the government now needed to do, it was the married family which most urgently needed to be rebuilt: I was and remain as certain of that as anything I have ever written, and I have been saying it repeatedly for over 20 years: I was saying it, for instance, when I was attacking (in The Mail and also The Telegraph), as it went through the Commons, the parliamentary bill which became that disastrous piece of (Tory) legislation called the
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
Children Act 1989, which abolished parental rights (substituting for them the much weaker «parental responsibility»), which encouraged parents not to spend too much time with their
children, which even, preposterously, gave children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children, which even, preposterously, gave
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the child and the nature of the smack
children the right to take legal action against theirparents for attempting to
discipline them, which made it «unlawful for a parent or carer to smack their
child, except where this amounts to «reasonable punishment»;» and which specified that «Whether a «smack» amounts to reasonable punishment will depend
on the circumstances of each case taking into consideration factors like the age of the
child and the nature of the smack.»
Please note that the emergency contact number which you provide
on the consent form needs to indicate who we should contact during the week should your
child need to be sent home for illness or
discipline issues.
For example, experiment in role - playing with various ways in which a couple might handle a breakdown of communication
on a subject such as
disciplining children.
A
discipline - focus for spiritual formation can lead to legalism — as evidenced by the Christians who congratulate themselves
on their daily Bible reading, church attendance, or the superior vocations of their
children.
The volume includes two additional studies
on theologians who, although they hold quite pessimistic views
on the nature of
children, do not endorse physical
discipline: the Reformer John Calvin and the 18th - century American Calvinist Jonathan Edwards.
Still thinking of
discipline in terms of
child care, it becomes apparent, however, that the best prevention is education whenever it can be achieved that is, that the
child who can learn to anticipate consequences for himself is in a much better position to avoid harmful misconduct than the
child who relies wholly
on external admonitions.
In that world God was present, direct and inexorable; his messages to parents were everywhere: from flour spilled
on the floor (that
child needs more
discipline) to the tragic death of an infant (confirmation that God had better things in store for them, in another world).
Schools were run «in a severe, regimented manner that imposed unreasonable and oppressive
discipline on children and even
on staff»...
It strikes me as a dangerous exaggeration that may seem to justify a differentiation in the pedagogies and the social policies that are enacted or applied within such neighborhoods, with greater emphasis
on rigid
discipline than
on the informality and intellectual expansiveness that are familiar in the better schools that educate the
children of rich people.
Parents are urged to develop an atmosphere of mutual respect; to communicate
on levels of fun and recreation as well as
on discipline and advice; to allow a
child to learn «through natural consequences» — that is, by experiencing what happens when he dawdles in the morning and is permitted to experience the unpleasantness and embarrassment of being late to school; to encourage the
child and spend time with him playing and learning (positively) rather than spending time lecturing and
disciplining (negatively), since the
child who is misbehaving is often merely craving attention and if he gets it in pleasant, constructive ways, he will not demand it in antisocial ways; to avoid trying to put the
child in a mold of what the parent thinks he should do and be, or what other people think he should do and be, rather than what his natural gifts and tendencies indicate; to take time to train the
child in basic skills — to bake a cake, pound a nail, sketch or write or play a melody — including those things the parents know and do well and are interested in.
However, if you are just beginning to institute training
on an already rebellious
child, who runs from
discipline and is too incoherent to listen, then use whatever force is necessary to bring him to bay.
I am (a) A victim of
child molestation (b) A r.ape victim trying to recover (c) A mental patient with paranoid delusions (d) A Christian The only
discipline known to often cause people to kill others they have never met and / or to commit suicide in its furtherance is: (a) Architecture; (b) Philosophy; (c) Archeology; or (d) Religion What is it that most differentiates science and all other intellectual
disciplines from religion: (a) Religion tells people not only what they should believe, but what they are morally obliged to believe
on pain of divine retribution, whereas science, economics, medicine etc. has no «sacred cows» in terms of doctrine and go where the evidence leads them; (b) Religion can make a statement, such as «there is a composite god comprised of God the Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit», and be totally immune from experimentation and challenge, whereas science can only make factual assertions when supported by considerable evidence; (c) Science and the scientific method is universal and consistent all over the World whereas religion is regional and a person's religious conviction, no matter how deeply held, is clearly nothing more than an accident of birth; or (d) All of the above.
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Rachel's blog covers so many different topics, from taking care of ourselves as mamas during the tough times, how to
discipline our
children the right way, lots and lots of helpful parenting advice and also guides
on how to live a more organized and happy home life without going crazy.
References: Dunn J, Cheng H, O'Connor TG & Bridges L (2004) «
Children's perspectives
on their relationships with their nonresident fathers: influences, outcomes and implications» Journal of
Child Psychology and Psychiatry and Allied
Disciplines 45 (3): 553 - 566
Instead of standing up to the
children, but seeing as this isn't about
discipline, let me move
on / I have 7 month old
child, and I let her cry sometimes, mainly because she likes being held ALL the time.
Discipline is a universal issue for parents, no matter how they decide to raise their
children, Krueger said, and attachment parenting focuses
on using positive
discipline to help kids learn the difference between right and wrong.
On one hand, I co-sleep exclusively with my now 14 month old daughter and believe in gentle discipline and am also looking into the option of homeschooling; on the other hand I also am a stickler for keeping my childrens vaccines current and using disposable diaper
On one hand, I co-sleep exclusively with my now 14 month old daughter and believe in gentle
discipline and am also looking into the option of homeschooling;
on the other hand I also am a stickler for keeping my childrens vaccines current and using disposable diaper
on the other hand I also am a stickler for keeping my
childrens vaccines current and using disposable diapers.
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discipline issues, major decisions for your
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on this blog.
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on everything from marriage improvement to
discipline to connecting with your
children, making it a great read for parents, especially those with multiple kids.
Help your
child feel appreciated and recognized, as positive
discipline is based
on the belief that all kids need to feel a deep sense of belonging.
Positive
discipline: This concept is based
on misbehavior as an opportunity for learning and engaging the
child to help come up with a solution.
The well meaning advice and thoughts of naysayers just don't bother me anymore... well, okay sometimes they do... like when they insinuate that my choices
on vaccines or positive
discipline border
on child abuse or neglect... then I have a few choice words to say.
When it comes to
discipline, parenting experts focus
on the things that change for parents when their
child begins adolescence.
When kids do something wrong, authoritative parents will
discipline by trying to guide and teach their kids, and modify what they expect from kids depending
on the situation and a
child's individual needs.
By encouraging those who still advocate corporal punishment to see the facts behind reasons parents today think corporal punishment works and breaking down those reasons to see why those reasons don't stand up to facts and examination, we can protect the most vulnerable members of society:
children, who should be taught how to behave correctly
on their own and develop the skills to regulate their own behavior so that they don't need to be constantly
disciplined and who should not be physically hurt so that they obey at that particular moment, without learning how to regulate themselves in the future.
A study published in
Child Development reports that yelling and harsh verbal
discipline has serious consequences
on kids.
If you find that you are needing too many time - outs, check out our tips
on how to how to
discipline children with calm, Zen, and love.
Global Summit
on Ending Corporate Punishment and Promoting Positive
Discipline Registrations are being accepted now for this June 2011 conference in Dallas, Texas, that will assemble, for the first time, an international group of leading policy makers, attorneys, educators,
children's rights activists, and researchers from multiple
disciplines (e.g., anthropology, criminology, history, medicine psychology, social work, and sociology) as well as other interested individuals who concur that corporal punishment of
children is an unsuitable and potentially damaging way to
discipline and teach
children.
Effective
discipline depends
on a loving, respectful relationship between adult and
child.
Here are few great
child discipline ideas to follow that I used
on a daily basis.
Occasionally friends or family would comment
on our parenting choices (co-sleeping, extended breastfeeding, positive
discipline) and I didn't have much to say except «I believe it's the best for my
child».
A wise wise woman
on - line told me when our daughter was only a few weeks old that breastfeeding is Mama's first
discipline she teaches her
child.
It does this by building
on the work of our many partners across services and
disciplines through a whole community approach to transform the skills of parents and the workforce of all those who come into the life of the
child.
Get the lowdown
on parenting basics like
discipline, homework help, and how to talk to your
child about tough subjects, like sex, tobacco, and alcohol.
Opened discussion between the spouses are encouraged in order to agree
on the best ways to
discipline the
children.
While most people (at least publicly) decry the use of spanking as a form of
child discipline, more people do spank their kids than they let
on.
The main goal of
discipline by AP is for
children to learn the literal consequences of bad decisions
on their own, as opposed to being slapped
on the butt... The only consequence that teaches them is that the action angers / disappoints the parent.
As for the recommendation to leave a
child in an abusive situation and work
on the abuser's sense of remorse at the same time — that is utter lunacy, irresponsible and unrealistic and if he actually did make such a suggestion in a professional capacity could be subject to
discipline or legal action.
Below are several suggestions
on discipline,
children, and dealing with tween
discipline, tween anger, tween back talk, and tween curfews.
At any point in our parenting journeys, we can reflect back
on our early days as mothers or fathers and glow in the knowledge of how much we have changed since that... first positive pregnancy test... or our oldest
child's birth... or a seemingly endless night of breastfeeding... or our struggle with learning how to do positive
discipline... or the first day of school... or our daughter's first basketball win... or our son's first crush... or our
child's high school graduation... or our daughter's wedding... or our son's first
child...
Positive
discipline and true PD - based facilities (be they childcare centers, co-op preschools, private preschools, what have you) will put considerable focus
on helping
children develop these skills.