For more benefits and some practical how - to advice, see our article
on early bedtimes for baby.
Mindell and Weissbluth agree
on early bedtimes and establishing a peaceful transition time before bed (for reading, cuddling, singing, bathing, prayer and similar activities).
Not exactly the ideal life for two kids with PTSD, who thrive
on early bedtimes and routine.
I insisted
on an early bedtime which was followed by a bath and milk - breast until 18 months and now organic goat's milk.
In fact, the recommendation to deal with 4 month sleep regression is to concentrate
on earlier bedtime for your baby.
Not exact matches
My little Kit has an
early bedtime and needs his dinner at around 5:30 or 6 — just as my husband gets home from work and about 20 minutes before Timothy needs to leave for whatever it is he has
on that day.
Bedtime is funny because
on the one hand I know I should be going to bed
earlier but
on the other I'm never tired in the evening and am extremely productive during these hours.
Limit evening activities
on school - nights and begin
bedtime routines a bit
earlier than usual to allow for setbacks.
It gets dinner
on the table
earlier (and therefore keeps
bedtime reasonable), and gives us all more stress - free time together as a family in the evenings.
By the time you're en route, baby may or may not doze off, but depending
on your destination, you're pretty much guaranteed a healthy nap after lunch AND an
early bedtime.
I would say I was relatively flexible with her, because I was desperate to find what was best for her but still kept it pretty scheduled (for example: experimenting with changing wake times or
bedtimes, tweaking the
bedtime routine, adding / removing dream feeds and cluster feeds, etc.) She started sleeping longer stretches pretty
early and at 3 months I could count
on getting a 6 - 7 hour stretch, but every once in a while she'd go 8 - 10 hours without a feeding.
Consistently making swaddling part of your
bedtime and / or naptime ritual
early on will help create the association that once the swaddle is
on, it's time for sleep.
And the idea of letting kids catch up
on sleep
on weekends doesn't work because some kids wake up
early anyway (as many bleary - eyed parents will attest), or they sleep in really late and then are even less likely to be sleepy at an
early bedtime during the school week.
When it comes to sleep, the biggest challenge for school - age children and their parents is the demands
on a child's time that will make
early bedtime routines difficult to manage, especially in today's 24 - 7 wired and fast - paced world.
Before
bedtime on Christmas Eve, we leave a mince pie, carrot and drink out for Santa and have an
early night, ready for the excitement of the next day.
Despite our best efforts to keep him
on a schedule of an
early bedtime and naps every 3 hours, our days were inconsistent.
To shift the timing of your toddler's nap, first look at your log and see if it's reasonable to expect them to go to sleep
earlier or later based
on their current
bedtime and wake time.
For tips
on getting him to get to sleep
earlier at night, see this article
on bedtime problems in children.
Even at nearly 2 years old, it's not a perfect situation — she still sometimes cries at
bedtime, she still sometimes wakes up in the middle of the night, and she still sometimes wakes up too
early and won't go back to sleep unless I lie down with her
on a mattress in her room.
For preschoolers who
on average need 12 hours of sleep in a 24 - hour period, you can increase that to 12 hours and 15 minutes or 12 hours and 30 minutes by moving your
bedtime 15 minutes
earlier.
Try bringing their
bedtime a bit
earlier, and make sure they have a 30 - minute wind - down period (not in a room where the TV is
on) before
bedtime.
In fact, a regular
bedtime, especially an
early one, was found to have the most significant positive developmental effects
on children 4 years of age.
Although
bedtimes change depending
on age and family routines, many have strong feelings about how
early or late toddlers and preschoolers should actually be going to bed.
Yet many parents don't agree
on what time is the «right» time to make
bedtime, and these differing opinions across households often leave moms or dads feeling insecure that their kiddos are going to bed too
early or late.
On one hand, I'm excited to have the children learning and back to a regular routine and
earlier bedtimes.
If you didn't make a gradual adjustment to your child's
bedtime, you might try to wake him up an hour
earlier on the day before daylight saving time begins.
Given the fact that time together for so many households starts at around 6 or 7 o'clock or even later in the evening
on a school night, it can be tough to set an
early bedtime.
Establishing a
bedtime routine for your baby
early on has many, many advantages.
On Monday, March 4, 2013, start waking your child 15 minutes
earlier, and moving their entire schedule (meals, naps, and
bedtime) 15 minutes
earlier than normal.
When it comes to toddlers,
bedtime battles,
early risers and hourly visits through the night can be tough
on any parent!
Fact: This is not true; try to ensure your baby adapts to a routine at
bedtime as
early on as possible (from about 3 - 4 months old) so that they learn the difference between night and day and sleep well at night; getting into a routine in the evening will make a huge difference to you and the relationship between you and your partner.
Fact: This can be the case if your child has nap late in the afternoon but it should not affect your child if they have nap in the morning or
early on in the afternoon; keeping your child awake can be counter-productive because they will probably play up at
bedtime because they are over-tired.
Wake your child up 30 minutes
early on the day of the time change, so as not to rob them of too much nightsleep, but also not to let them sleep in too much resulting in a way - too - late
bedtime.
If you're really keen
on keeping your child
on the same schedule, you can wake them 1 hour
early on the day of the time change so as not to see any lasting effects from the time shift (however if your child has a very strong internal clock, you may find them still not able to fall asleep until their «usual»
bedtime).
This has been going
on for a few days... a few days ago we also changed her
bedtime to an
earlier time as I could tell evening naps weren't working for her as she'd be extra fussy and even went into a «night sleep» when I put her in her wrap at around 6 / 7ish.
But you can begin
on a
bedtime routine as
early as six weeks.
This can be tough for families that eat
on the later side (or have toddlers with super
early bedtimes), but it does help.
Moving his
bedtime up by one hour
earlier seemed to help immensely, as did putting a light - up / musical toy that he could turn
on himself (without standing or sitting up, like something attached to the crib slats).
If this reading time takes
on a life of its own (too long for
bedtime or too much excitement), you may want to move it to
earlier in the evening in the living room and then shorten the
bedtime routine.
On these days, it's all a mom can do to trudge along, putting one exhausted foot in front of the other and praying
bedtime comes
early.
Often
bedtime on school nights is
earlier.
On those days, they will be cranky little pains - in - the - butt who will need an
earlier bedtime to make up for it, or at least to give you a break from their (self - inflicted) misery.
I even TRIED an insanely, ridiculously
early bedtime for a week or two, but 1) it put a huge burden
on the rest of family, since we couldn't go anywhere or do anything, and 2) eventually the 5/6 pm «
bedtime» turned into more of a super-late nap, and Ike would wake up at 11 pm and then be COMPLETELY AWAKE FOR HOURS.
Otherwise, he might be so rested around 4 that you can just keep your activities nice and mellow,
earlier bedtime routime, and
early bedtime, then possibly a dream feed later
on.
This is because all of the stolen moments that hubby and I count
on to get us through the day (nap time, computer time while boys are at school and baby plays quietly in baby - proofed area,
early bedtime for kids, hot bath and wine after kids go to bed) never happen because there is a flurry of fun activities that keep us from sticking to our schedule.
You may wish to get a headstart
on this transition by waking your child an hour
early on Saturday morning and proceeding with naps and
bedtime on hour
earlier than usual (remember, the clocks haven't been changed yet).
See this post for ideas
on that: Time Change Strategies: http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/02/time-change-strategies.html But don't be affraid to try to have an
earlier bedtime.
Once she has been fed at 7 pm (or
earlier depending
on how things go) we follow her
bedtime routine and she goes down for the night.
The monitoring comes more from knowing what's going
on, making sure that there's nothing he can pull into bed or onto himself, as well as trying to have a stable, and possibly
earlier bedtime.
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On days when a nap occurs
early in the day, move
bedtime earlier by 30 minutes to an hour to minimize the length of time between nap and
bedtime.