Not exact matches
Since my brain is always focused
on butter and sugar, I wanted to give the new, soon to be very sleep deprived, second - time parents a special treat while they spent some time
in the
hospital with their new bundle of joy (and something to feed the visiting guests who
have come to Ooo and Ahh over the cute
baby toes).
We even
had a note
on her bassinet
in the
hospital saying, «I'm a breastfed
baby.
Education during pregnancy rarely
has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (
on both mom &
baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam up about it while quietly giving the
baby the
hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just
in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn
in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
An Oak Park doctor
has started accepting donations of breast milk, largely for use by intensive care units
in hospitals that treat premature
babies whose mothers can't provide the milk
on their own.
Even the CDC,
on a webpage explaining its 2010 Breastfeeding Report Card project, emphasizes that
in our country, «too few
hospitals participate
in the global program to recognize best practices
in supporting breastfeeding mothers and
babies, known as the
Baby - Friendly
Hospital Initiative,» an initiative that puts heavy controls
on the use of formula
in institutional settings - even if the parents
have expressed no intention to breastfeed.
As to whether home births are «safe» for people who don't
have the royal obstetrician
on call, the UK's National Child Trust states that for women
having a second or subsequent
baby, home birth is «as safe as» delivering
in a
hospital, and also offers «other benefits for the mother.»
About a Boy was the movie I watched
in the
hospital (
on DVD) before
having my rookie
baby.
When my
baby and I
had latch issues, and my milk hadn't come
in as quickly as I imagined (based
on all those lovely pregnancy book descriptions), the
hospital nurse said get a pump, quick!
while being coerced to push even though I wanted to breath the
babies down, I didn't get to see them at all for 15 hours after they were born because the
hospital staff didn't get their act together, not because it was medically necessary, etc., so much so that the head of OB (my office doc) later admitted they
had me
on suicide watch because what happened was so different than my birth plan... I wasn't stuck
on exact details, especially because twins throw a loop
in all of it, but it was nothing like I
had hoped for, at all.
That was my experience
in hospital in Australia with my last
baby — although my little boy was delivered by two midwives and not an OB (he
had examined me when i came
in for the induction and been consulted
on a couple things throughout the labour).
My wife and I
had our first 2
in a
hospital and it almost killed them because of the drugs they forced
on my wife the last 2 were born at home
in a pool the 1st homebirth we
had a midwife present the 2nd one the midwife was an hour and a half late so I delivered our daughter by myself it was awsome and now my wife is PG with our 5th
baby we
have the same midwife who was late to our last birth and we already know she is not going to be here ontime mostly because she lives 2 hours away from where we live and we are ok with this.
My name is Andrea (however, I am not the one
on topic), and I
had a home birth that ended
in a non-emergency transfer and ultimtely a C / S, healthy
baby, healthy me,
hospital - licensed CNM, Canada.
Generally,
hospitals don't do investigations
on the death of trisomy
babies, yet more than 20
babies are considered to
have died PREVENTABLE deaths
in this single particular
hospital under midwife - led care.
• 8 out of 10 people (80 %) think fathers should feel as able as mothers to ask for flexible working • 8 out of 10 women (80 %) and more than 6 out of 10 men (62 %) agree that fathers are as good as mothers at caring for children • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 42 % strongly, that society values a child's relationship with its mother more than it values a child's relationship with its father • Almost 6 out of 10 (59 %) agree with the statement that society assumes mothers are good for children, fathers
have to prove it • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 50 % strongly, that there should be a zero tolerance approach if fathers do not take
on their parenting responsibilities • Almost 7 out of 10 (67 %) agree that dads should be encouraged to spend time
in school reading with their child • 7 out of 10 (70 %) agree, 50 % strongly, that dads should be able to stay overnight with their partner
in hospital when their
baby is born.
To identify dads and
have them pay child support, the US
has pioneered a policy of «paternity establishment»
in hospitals: officials approach unmarried fathers
on maternity wards, and «encourage» them to put their names put
on their
babies» birth certificates.
The report Preventing Disease and Saving Resources from UNICEF UK quantifies the extra illness
in babies who are fed
on formula — and expense to the National Health Service (NHS)--
in an industrialised and wealthy country: `... moderate increases
in breastfeeding
would translate into cost savings for the NHS of # 40 million and tens of thousands of fewer
hospital admissions and GP consultations.»
In addition, at this time, the
Baby - Friendly
Hospital Initiative
has produced no data
on the safety of newborn fasting and weight loss caused by exclusive colostrum feeding and what degree of weight loss protects a child from brain - threatening complications like hyperbilirubinemia, hypernatremic dehydration and hypoglycemia.
Research based
on the death rates of mothers and
babies during labour and death or poor outcomes for
babies in the first month after birth, and how those rates
have changed over the last 200 years, since 1)
Hospitals, 2) milk substitutes
Things like if you want your partner to cut the umbilical cord or if you want to delay cord clamping, if you plan
on doing anything with your
baby's cord blood, if you want to hold the
baby immediately after they are born or after they are cleaned up, if you want their little footprints
in a special book, if you want skin - to - skin with you or your partner, if you want to try and breastfeed immediately after delivery or
have a lactation consultant come (helpful especially for first - time moms), if you
'd like your
baby to stay
in your room as long as possible or get taken to the nursery (if your
hospital has one) to be evaluated, and if you want your partner to go with your
baby if they need any special care outside of the delivery room.
I also spent a lot of time looking at
baby pose ideas, and even though we
had pictures taken
in the
hospital, I took some at home based
on the pictures I saw online.
Learn how to latch your
baby on properly either by taking a breastfeeding class or reading up
on the subject before you
have your
baby, or from your nurse, doctor, or lactation consultant while you're
in the
hospital.
I
have been around the cloth diapering block and one of the fun things I
've done
on my journey is cloth diaper 3
babies from birth
in the
hospital!
If you
have a
hospital based midwife, she may suction your
baby at this point if indicated (i.e. your
baby has merconium
on its head or there was significant merconium
in your amniotic fluid).
It may be safe to
have a home birth but the way you are making it sound is as if it is just as safe to
have a home birth as it
would be
in a
hospital but that is just a silly thought because your home doesn't
have all the medical equipment and surgeons
on hand to care for you or your
baby if something were to happen that needed immediate attention.
For example Cytotec (Misoprostol) is used quite often now for induction
in hospitals however there
has been no scientific research done
on this drug and its effects
on mothers /
babies to show it is safe for use.
Because I didn't hear about it when I was pregnant and
had my
babies, and if it's been around for a while obviously the
hospitals that I gave birth
in never made any mention of it, so I'm assuming they weren't
baby - friendly back then, but after I gave birth I knew that a lactation consultant was going to go
on to the, come into the room, well actually at the first child you already know the rounds, you know, what's going to happen, you know, how long you're going to be there, all that stuff.
Every
hospital has their own policy
on whether or not they will allow you to bring
baby A, who was recently discharged with you, to spend time with
baby B
in the NICU.
AFRICAN MOON: So I'll start off by saying I
had my third child at home, so I think that sort of talks a little bit about my experiences
in the
hospital, but I, you know, I want to say that I think the word
baby - friendly is sort of a chicken statement, like I really want to voice that because they want for
hospitals to focus
on breastfeeding so why are we so afraid to say that?
Mother of one 8 - month - old Playards - YES Bassinet - NO (used the pack - n - play) Swaddle Blankets - YES (Aden + Anais) Crib - YES SnuggleU -
HAVE N'T USED Rocking chair / glider - NO Activity gym - YES Bouncer - YES Bumbo - YES (I didn't have one, but I have tried it and would get one on sale for my next baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
HAVE N'T USED Rocking chair / glider - NO Activity gym - YES Bouncer - YES Bumbo - YES (I didn't
have one, but I have tried it and would get one on sale for my next baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
have one, but I
have tried it and would get one on sale for my next baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
have tried it and
would get one
on sale for my next
baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper -
HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz -
HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies -
HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept
in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still
have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
have the littered strategically around the house)
Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the
hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well)
Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water - YES
And so,
hospitals can be
in the process of becoming
baby - friendly for years, so just because a
hospital isn't, or birthing center, isn't
on this list, doesn't mean they're not taking steps to becoming, quote -
on - quote,
baby - friendly, it just means they haven't completed the process yet.
In other words, you
'd be
on the hook for your $ 15,000
hospital stay and your
baby's
hospital stay.
This means you must BF
on demand at the
hospital (so
have the
baby sleep
in your room), this means you MUST make sure no well - intentioned nurses give your
baby formula so you can rest or because they thought the
baby was hungry — the
baby won't be hungry enough to stimulate your production enough.
Well, as an Australian I can't speak for the NHS, nor was I attempting to, but I
have heard from a number of women
in the US who
have discussed mother and
baby friendly
hospitals that many of them are making a legitimate effort to try and appeal to women's needs, and of the three maternity units I
have been to within my state, they
have had beautiful birthing suites
on offer
in their family birthing centres.
I do think that you do what's best for you and your
baby and I know that Emily
would be fine
on formula, but I'm awfully glad I was persistent
in the
hospital.
If you are planning to use the milk
in an area where more than one
baby has milk stored (e.g.
hospital or day care) them remember to write you
baby's name
on it.
Just
had baby # 2
on Dec 23rd (all natural
in a
hospital with a midwife).
The best advice the lactation consultant at the
hospital gave me was that the second night was going to be a rough night for breast feeding as the
baby wants to help your milk supply come
in and will try to nurse all night long, even if you
have nothing there for them to nurse
on.
Let's see, While Ina May was
on her caravan to Tennessee she
had a preterm birth at 32 weeks and decided not to be
in a
hospital and the
baby died.
«As
has been pointed out to you, if a
baby gets 2 oz of formula
in the
hospital while waiting for milk to arrive and then only breast feeds for the next year, they will be counted
in the 70 % of those «
on formula.
I don't see it as midwives sitting
on their hands, refusing to help save
babies; rather, that they do their best, and usually are more effective than a completely untrained person
would be
in that situation, but that they do not
have the tools to save as many
babies as the doctors and nurses
in the
hospital would be able to.
But
on reflection, it strikes me as perfectly possible that a fair number of the most compromised
babies, who
would end up ill or disabled (for whatever reason) if born
in hospital will simply die if born at home.
A local
hospital is having an upcoming meeting on the «Baby - Friendly Hospital Initiative» (BFHI) that would promote exclusive breast - feeding while infants stayed in the hospital... check into that at your local ho
hospital is
having an upcoming meeting
on the «
Baby - Friendly
Hospital Initiative» (BFHI) that would promote exclusive breast - feeding while infants stayed in the hospital... check into that at your local ho
Hospital Initiative» (BFHI) that
would promote exclusive breast - feeding while infants stayed
in the
hospital... check into that at your local ho
hospital... check into that at your local
hospitals!
around midnight i began to question my decision to
have a home birth, & maria was getting tired... she called
in a second midwife for support & my doula arrived from another birth... i was afraid of the power - i hadn't felt it like this
in kayenn's birth... i was afraid that i
would come apart - even though i
had to - i know now that coming apart is a part of the process... someplace
in the middle of this birth i realized that i did not know how to do this - i was acting against the birth process - literally & emotionally... i
had a mental idea of what it should look, sound, smell, be like... after some hours maria checked me again, i
had been at 9 cm for 4 hours... she said to me, «some
babies can come through at 9 cm, but yours will not, sokhna... sokhna, you are going to
have to fight to bring this
baby out... go into the bathroom, get
in the shower & work it out... «so i did... i went
in the cold bathroom alone & remembered every cold detail of kayenn's birth... i wondered if i could get to the
hospital on time to
have an emergency c - section & i began to cry... & as i cried i
had to go to the bathroom - i sat
on the toilet & the rushes came down like nothing i can explain - but they didn't hurt - it was just POWER!
The FACT is... more women DO die
in hospital births (from things that could be prevented, or from unnecessary interventions) than
in home births, and that women were NOT «dying
in droves» from home births back
in the day... death during birth was fairly uncommon until women were forced into dirty birth centers with doctors knocking them out and delivering their
babies without being held to any sanitation standards because promiscuity was
on the rise and we
had to keep the «dirty women» separate from the rest of the
hospital.
This gave me an opportunity to observe a way
in which breastfeeding is undermined
in hospitals that I rarely see written about: the pervasive assumption that the
baby would be eating
on a fixed schedule.
Getting home after
having your
baby may seem the ideal once
baby has made an appearance, but hang
on, there are some benefits to staying
in hospital, here are 5 reasons to enjoy your time
in hospital.
Mothers and
babies are less likely to pick up infections
in their own home, the mother often
has a lower stress level, and she can receive one
on one care not possible
in a
hospital setting.
Additionally, The Farm receives infant resuscitation trainings from a local nurse, who also started an Angel Ambulance (like a NICU
on wheels) that
would come to The Farm (and other outlying areas)
in the rare case a
baby was
in need so she could be treated while en route to the nearest
hospital.
Then they
would have the time to really spend with their patients, address concerns, and take their time with «natural - ish cesareans» Reducing the overall number of women
in the
hospital giving birth (by
having a system that supports low risk, healthy moms birthing their
babies at home with trained professionals like CPM's and CNM's)
would allow moms who birthed through surgery to stay
in the
hospital longer and receive the one -
on - one medical care that they so very much deserve.
And then there are the stories of the premature
babies who needed to be held skin -
on - skin
in order to thrive, and who
have used the Moby Wrap and it worked so well for them that they were released early from the
hospital!