Sentences with phrase «on shame and guilt»

Would not such a reading confirm their suspicion that Christianity thrives on shame and guilt?

Not exact matches

Without the guilt and shame and fear we wouldn't want Him to work on us.»

I now believe it does a tremendous disservice to honorable people who are faithful believers to place on them the additional burden of guilt, shame and magnified suffering that comes from the kind of doctrine that promotes (sells) prayer as a magic talisman which will somehow change God's mind, alter physical circumstance, and fix intractable problems — if only the one praying has enough faith or asks in the right way or lives a holy enough life or professes Jesus enough or waits patiently or never gives up or any of a hundred different gotchas that can be called upon to justify the lack of an affirmative answer.

But Justin explains that this is unhealthy, and places terrible burdens of shame and guilt on a child.

The fact is that when you remove the invented deities who some claim have made rules as to our s e x ual activity, the stigma and guilt and shame drop away and we can get on to the very rewarding job of living and being good to one another.

Does that call the Latin / Western Church's emphasis on guilt and justification rather than shame and psychological / spiritual healing into question?

Not related, but a nice article on the difference between our guilt - culture and the honor / shame culture of the Scriptures.

No you wouldn't because you know that he was on a mission to undermine the principalities and the authorities that silenced the voice of the people, limited their freedoms, and burdened their shoulders with shame, guilt and fear.

Others, often victims of battering or marital rape, tell of partners insisting on trying some practice discovered in porn wares (10 per cent of such victims in one study) These women report suicide attempts, nightmares, fears, anxieties, shame and guilt — reactions which resemble rape trauma syndrome.

Why would I lay shame, guilt, and fear on her?

If they were, they would do it secretly since the teaching is based on guilt and shame, then again educating how good sex can promote a healthy marriage is out of the question... vicious cycle it is...

Because this shame or guilt sometimes definitely creeps up on me and is really not a healthy relationship to food.

I suspect people feel so much guilt and shame because all of the burden of parenting (from decision - making to action) is on their shoulders alone.

If parents had more people to turn to in order to help make decisions (relying on others» experience, expertise and yes, opinions) and these people could also be counted upon to help when decisions / thoughts turn to action... well, I think everyone would be better off and there would be less bad feelings, guilt and shame.

As «second victims» not only do we suffer intense emotional trauma and vulnerability, but depending on the circumstances, nurses can also suffer shame, guilt, anger, embarrassment, humiliation, isolation, depression, and loss of confidence.

We take on the blame, guilt, and shame that really belong to the drinker.

The guilt and shame about not being able to breastfeed my babies and having to rely on formula turned me into this obsessive, that was so wound up and wrapped up with breastfeeding that I couldnt see what was really important.

From that moment on I gave her bottles and felt a shame and guilt that I couldn't feed my baby and that I was starving her.

A woman who is treated with a sense of respect and dignity and whose choices are honored will not only labor well but will be far less likely to look back on her birthing experience with a sense of guilt, shame, failure and deep emotional pain.

There are also controversies and ethical considerations surrounding the means used by public campaigns which attempt to increase breastfeeding rates, relating to pressure put on women, and potential feeling of guilt and shame of women who fail to breastfeed; and social condemnation of women who use formula.

The guilt and shame threaten to overwhelm us driving us to abandon the relationship and instead relying on controlling our child's behavior in hopes it will end the suffering.

And as I mom shame myself from the past about the present and incur the mom guilt that follows, another thought dawns on me: as a second - time mom, with all the benefit of my great wisdom (that's a joke, by the way), I also judge first - time mom And as I mom shame myself from the past about the present and incur the mom guilt that follows, another thought dawns on me: as a second - time mom, with all the benefit of my great wisdom (that's a joke, by the way), I also judge first - time mom and incur the mom guilt that follows, another thought dawns on me: as a second - time mom, with all the benefit of my great wisdom (that's a joke, by the way), I also judge first - time mom me.

But behind the shame and guilt, I was surprised at how freeing not relying on breastfeeding felt.

I'm not talking about guilt here (though wishing guilt on people is just nasty) but rather intentionally belittling, mocking, and dismissing others in order to induce shame and build a false sense of superiority.

«We examined the emotions of guilt and shame and found that when consumers feel guilty, they tend to focus on concrete details at the expense of the bigger picture.

But underneath all the shame and guilt, I couldn't shake the feeling that there was something more - something deeper going on.

When your body whispers, «Hey, I'm done,» listen to her rather than let Molly mozey on in with the guilt and shame that keeps you eating.

Your joy lets you know that you are on the right track, and your anger, anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, numbness, or emptiness let you know that you are out of alignment with why you are on the planet.

Read the following words, and take note on how they feel in your body: anger, jealousy, hate, frustration, fear, shame, stress, sadness, guilt, desperation, failure.

I truly believe that the guilt and shame feelings we place on ourselves when we eat foods that aren't on our plan or when we've eaten too much, are even more harmful in and damaging to our bodies than the actual food itself.

This allows us to feel more satiated as a result and prevent us from mindless snacking or eating later on, which tends to lead to feelings of guilt and shame.

This too does a number on us psychologically, first by creating restriction by only granting ourselves half and then inducing guilt or shame when we go back for the other half.

-- Dr. Edward Bach Keywords: Guilt, self - reproach, humble, apologetic, shame, unworthy, undeserving Human indication: When you feel guilt and self - reproach, not necessarily based on any actual wrong - doing but destroys the possibility of joy in liGuilt, self - reproach, humble, apologetic, shame, unworthy, undeserving Human indication: When you feel guilt and self - reproach, not necessarily based on any actual wrong - doing but destroys the possibility of joy in liguilt and self - reproach, not necessarily based on any actual wrong - doing but destroys the possibility of joy in living.

They don't know because they've never trusted their bodies to bring them to that point and as a result, they always feel hungry throughout the day which makes them think about food 24/7 and graze on food all day, which can lead to feelings of guilt and shame.

If you find resistance in loving yourself and your body unconditionally and / or if you find yourself getting into the self beat up mode, then it is an indication that you need to work on clearing toxic emotions such as guilt, shame, self - blame, regret, self - rejection and self - loathing.

I'll teach you how to break the barriers on achieving the health you never thought you could, feel confident in your own skin, drop the guilt - shame cycle with food and kick the confusion on what to eat.

So now that you understand how anxiety and depression is the link between PCOS and low self - esteem; and that we also have to face plenty of external barriers to feeling good about ourselves, you should now be free from any guilt or shame concerning your self - image and be ready to get on top of it.

The shame and guilt will not do you any favors, in fact, they make it much harder to get back on track.»

«The solution to this is not to pile on more shame and guilt,» she wrote.

For people who were brought up in a very conservative, Catholic environment it's possible that they have some shame and guilt around sex & their bodies — not to mention, a different attitude than you on casual sex.Image via MyDearValentin on Flickr.

Why go through the guilt, shame and rejection with non-herpes people when thousands of people in your own area who have herpes are available and share your outlook on dating?

Jonny Lee Miller's Holmes and Lucy Liu's Joan Watson forge a deep friendship built respectively on terminal guilt and intransigent shame.

It also touches on the themes of remembrance and reminders, guilt, resentment and forgiveness, shame and coercion.

Amy Raye carries the guilt and shame of addictive behavior that started when she was a teen growing up on her grandparent's farm; her emotional terrain is as rough and ragged as the pits and cliffs of the landscape she is lost in.

I recently found myself on Oprah.com listening to Dr. Brené Brown explain the difference between guilt and shame.

Those of you who follow this blog daily probably have gathered already that I'm going to follow up on two recent thought - provoking posts, one by Tom Bentley («Shatter Your Characters») on using shame and guilt to -LSB-...]

Recent conversations about the proposed sculpture of a freedman originally planned to be placed near the City - County Building in Indianapolis reflect an unhealthy pattern of dealing with this critical aspect of our history that needs to be broken; a pattern that focuses on feelings of guilt, shame and apathy.

For the pagans, honor and pride were valued, but for the Christians it is meekness and humility; for the pagans it was public shame, for Christians, private guilt; for pagans there was a celebration of hierarchy, with superior and inferior people, but for Christians there is egalitarianism; and for pagans there was more emphasis on justice, while for Christians there is emphasis on mercy (turning the other cheek).

Built on fearmongering, apocalyptic forecasts, doom and gloom, sin, guilt, shame, penance, tithing (carbon taxes), blind -LSB-...]

One of the most compelling things about Phil Jones and his performance in this spectacle is that he allows the shame of his guilt over the overegged certainty to show on his face and he reveals it in his words, too, but subtly.