Sentences with phrase «other about guilt»

If we women weren't talking to each other about guilt and counting calories and the gym and dieting, what would we spend that intellectual energy on?

Not exact matches

But, relaxing in the sun, Bannon had some time to reflect and come up with a new and healthier model for thinking about vacations — one other guilt - ridden business owners might benefit from.

You can also talk to them about the effect their comments are having, since guilt trippers often don't realize how they're affecting others.

People balked at the comparison of gluttony to homosexuality... and I guess my question was why is one so charged with guilt and emotion while the other we don't really care so much about.

Guilt by association isn't about being responsible for your transgressions, it's about being guilty for other's transgressions.

And yet over the course of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers of people struggle with fear, guilt, shame, and all sorts of terrible thoughts about God and others, and as I have learned more, I find that many of these feelings come from a faulty view of God.

If you have other children, they should also have opportunities to talk or play through their feelings — jealousy about special treatment of him, nonrational guilt about being unhandicapped, a sense of family stigma.

That makes it seem to me that their need to convert others is a guilt factor, because they think that they do nt want someone to go to h.ell when they could have done something about it.

Not long ago I corresponded with him about his intent in using the phrase, and was confirmed in my judgment that he only meant to say that ministers should be as ready of access to persons burdened with guilt and other negative feelings as are Roman Catholic priests.

What does it matter when we die what is important is what we do with our life now.The struggles people find themselves is because of living a sinful lifestyle you cant play with fire and not get burnt there are consequences.Jesus wants to bring forgiveness and healing and remove the guilt and shame that you are feeling.Ive have been there i was just as guilty i do nt believe theres a big screen that replays our life if it is it, it will be about what we have done for God as our sins are covered under the blood of Jesus.The judgement for christians is that we must give an account of what we did for Jesus while we were here did we make the most of opportunities given to tell others to reach out others with his love.Mat 25:14 - 30 the Parable of the talents talks about judgement and for me it is all about what we do for Jesus the ones who are faithfull in the small things are set over much.The one who did nt use his talent that God gave him was punished for his lack of faith.So for those who are struggling with sin and life Jesus loves you and has a plan for your life just trust him to help you and he will.To be fair its wont be easy you will have to make some hard choices but he promises to help you through its all about choosing him over choosing what we think best because he knows whats best for us.Its important the choice you make as it will impact your life for eternity.brentnz

Such efforts give the lie to what is accurately described as the racist slander that black Americans are incorrigibly incapable of facing the truth about their situation, are perpetually parasitic on the larger society, and have no other strategy than to exploit white guilt in order to continue the free ride that blacks are getting on the wagon that others pull (to use Senator Phil Gramm's ugly image).

I think many of us are so programmed by the church to feel guilt constantly about our very being, that we have trouble having the dignity of saying, «Yes, I am worth being treated well by others.»

Unlike the Christian god that wouldn't ever change his mind or doctrine... except for cursing the world for eating an apple... except for telling Abraham to sacrifice his son, but then stopping him... and except for killing nearly all life on Earth and then because of the guilt says I'll never to do that ever again - in exactly that way... and except for deciding that 2 of himself (Father and Spirit) weren't enough any more, and creating / fathering / spiriting as Son... and except for forgiving all sin, when «In the beginning» he had cursed the universe for the eating of an apple, by having his creation torture and kill his only begotten Son... and except for having to repeat himself about the unchanging eternal rules, to Abraham, Moses, Jesus, Saul / Paul, Mohammed, Joseph Smith, Bahá «u «lláh, David Koresh, and a whole host of others... and except for... and except for...

Yet it was these sorts of people who brought themselves to Jesus; split, contradicting themselves, disgusted and despairing about themselves, hateful of themselves, hostile towards everybody else, afraid of life, burdened with guilt feelings, accusing and excusing themselves, fleeing from others into loneliness, fleeing from themselves.

It seems that for my Western Christian friends, if missionaries did not justify by their field labors the guilt the West carries about the mischief of the white race in the rest of the world, then other missionaries would have to be invented to justify that guilt.

We have become way too much eyeball people as Christians assume that those who don't live according to the way they do they are unsaved, we have created this judgemental relationship which hurts peoples fellowship with God, there are no litmus tests for people that believe in Jesus, which is why we are called to not judge others, and people use James 2:14, and 1 John's verse of those who practices righteousness are righteous even though I think it's talking about earthly righteousness toward people that we as Christians should show because there is a lost world out there that needs are help and these doctrines of guilt, condemnation, anger, and judgement aren't helping in fact they are doing the opposite, just like how in James it's justification towards man.

So, when a crime is committed, we want to know about the guilt or innocence of the individual, not someone's racial group, religion, or other characteristic.

I was thinking about it the other day, and I think Jesus really is a great thing, because it allows people to psychologically take pressure, grief or guilt and remove the effects of anxiety and pressure that those feelings create.

Now the sources mentioned above — plus the Wall Street Journal, Associated Press, USA Today, and others — have looked into the facts and found that the crisis was made up by folks who parlayed white guilt about racism into a very profitable thing.

Fear and guilt keep us from being honest and from opening up to others about our struggles.

AA, religion, christ himself, science satanisim, math, medicine or whatever it is you choose to turn to try to get out of pain, remorse, guilt, anger, selfishness, legal problems, drug / alcohol abuse, financial ruin or any other negative result producing situation that you have brought upon yourself if it changes you for the betterand helps others feel better about you or themselves who cares what, who, or how someones higher power works!!!

Who wants to know about the envy or angry or guilt and possible repentance after each new announcement of some other woman's pregnancy?

As a day, and no more, it reminds us first to protect ourselves from AIDS, and from communing too closely with others in the process, while at the same time it assuages our guilt at being one of the lucky ones by encouraging us to «remember» the saints of AIDS, about whom we know almost nothing but that they had it.

By wagering that God is dead, we bet that the awesome and alien power of an infinitely distant and wholly other is finally created by our own guilt and resentment, by our refusal of the life and energy about and within us.

We are all unique individuals, yet we get slammed time after time for caring about ourselves (guilt guilt guilt) when we're told we should be caring about others.

I have written in this space about «Grasping for Gold» (November 1998), especially in the case of lawyers exploiting the Holocaust, and have commended Abe Foxman of the Anti-Defamation League and others who protest the unseemliness of those who play the guilt game for their own enrichment, with little or no benefit to those who suffered the crimes for which restitution is demanded.

On the social level the contemplative easily intuits the roots of war: fear of self and others that springs from inability to trust God; the unrecognized self - hatred that we project onto others; the illusory view that our political ideals are purer than our opponents», and the accompanying moral paralysis that stems from an exaggerated sense of guilt about holding this illusion.

And I have zero guilt about getting others hooked!

Life as a parent is difficult enough, without other people who chose to parent in a different way, making comments designed to arouse guilt about the choices we make as parents.

Whatever you're feeling guilty about, I encourage you to take a moment or two of quiet today to process what parts of the guilt could be helpful - to fuel new decisions, motivate new actions, or help others - and to filter out what parts of the guilt are unnecessary self - criticism and unhelpful repeated thoughts.

Oh yes, we working moms have CRAZY amounts of guilt about leaving our kids each day for our jobs, and constantly re-assess if it is worth it, whether that is for a few hours each week or full - time - plus and whether it is working from our home office or traveling to the other side of the world.

Thanks for saying what so many of us feel too guilty to blog about and thus lighten the guilt for each other.

While one in four mothers have PPD, many women are crippled with guilt about these feelings and try hard to hide what they are experiencing from others.

I actually wrote a very similar post yesterday about this exact pressure from others and the guilt I sometimes (temporarily) feel when I'd much rather spend the night in with my kid, whose company I very much enjoy.

But, guilt still crept in about whether or not I was deserving of this pregnancy and this baby since my other baby died.

Try to let go of the guilt about not breast - feeding, even when others make judgmental and critical comments about it.

«Women who breastfeed feel stressed about neglecting the rest of the family and other obligations, whereas women who do not breastfeed feel a sense of guilt about feeding their child something sub-optimal.

I don't know how other adoptive parents feel about their relationships with their children's birth families, but I feel mom guilt.

I recommend it whenever someone starts talking about mom guilt or comparing themselves to other parents.

for those having guilt about not breastfeeding, i highly reccommend «the ultimate breastfeeding book of answers» by jack newman, MD and Teresa pitman... yes, there are valid reasons not to breastfeed exclusively, but there are solutions other than formula!

I'm not talking about guilt here (though wishing guilt on people is just nasty) but rather intentionally belittling, mocking, and dismissing others in order to induce shame and build a false sense of superiority.

Every mom I talk to talks about how hard it is, shares their troubles, many also had mastitis or other issues and admits how hard it is and that its part of the mom guilt.

Feelings of despair / hopelessness Crying, tearfulness Anger & irritability Sleep disturbances (too much / little) Loss of energy & interest Physical symptoms (clumsiness, slowed speech, etc.) Suicidal thoughts Frightening thoughts about self or baby or other family members Weight loss or gain Feelings of guilt, shame, inadequacy Hypochondria; excessive worries Mania (part of bipolar disorders)

«He has offered his uncensored views about Mr. Silver's guilt, his character, and the severity of his crimes — always in inflammatory, over-the-top language that targets not just Mr. Silver but the entire New York state government,» lawyers Steven Molo, Joel Cohen and others wrote in a filing Tuesday.

«The U.S. Attorney's comments are impossible to construe as anything other than opinions about Mr. Silver's guilt,» the motion filed by Mr. Silver's attorneys, Joel Cohen and Steven Molo, argued.

Body shame is so prevalent in our culture, you might frequently find yourself caught up in other people's body drama — such as a conversation about your sister's failing efforts to stay on Whole30 or your coworker's guilt about gaining a few pounds.

Women typically experience more guilt than men, for the obvious reason: We tend to be more empathetic, so we're more concerned about how our actions affect others.

The problem I am having is I feel guilt about dating so soon after the passing of my significant other.

The film is full of clunky dialogue with cardboard characters explaining stuff to each other about Palestine, the Holocaust and German guilt.

And I am happy about a piece of absolute trash that's less guilt - inducing for me than other pieces of trash I have enjoyed.