Finally, you must attach the marital settlement agreement (a written agreement dividing your property and debts, resolving alimony, establishing child support, custody and visitation, and settling
any other issues in the marriage) as an exhibit to the petition.
You and your spouse must work through this and
any other issues in your marriage together if you have any hope of survival.
Couples with
other issues in the marriage, such as conflict, unresolved anger, or infidelity, will have a difficult time feeling close and loving.
Sexual struggles often come with
other issues in the marriage, such as infidelity, financial stress, low self - esteem, and more.
Not exact matches
Even when they had the White House (George W) and both Houses of Congress the GOP never even introduced, much less voted on, any bill banning abortion, allowing prayer
in school, banning gay
marriage or any
other of the wedge
issues they use to attract a certain mentally deranged segment of the population to their side by pretending to defend those things that are important to Christian conservatives.
(i) a woman's right to choose; (ii) teaching evolution
in school; (iii) medical immunization of teen girls against HPV; (iv) assisted suicide; (v) gay
marriage; (vi) my right to view art and theatre deemed «offensive,» «blasphemous» or «obscene» by theists (vii) basic $ ex education for older school children; (viii) treating drug abuse as principally a medical
issue; (xi) population control; (x) buying alcohol on a Sunday; (xi) use of condoms and
other contraceptives (xii) stem cell research.
Perhaps with enough people hammering the
issues of abortion and gay
marriage, Harris is right to direct her attention and effort to
other issues of mercy and justice, but the flavor of the book seems to downplay the importance of traditional
marriage, infant life, and the church's role
in mercy ministry.
I would take
issue with two
other items: 1) The LDS Church never «disavowed» plural
marriage in the sense of repudiating it.
The sky is not falling because
other people live their lives differently from you and have joined their lives
in marriage... Spend your time, energy and emotions on a topic that really matters - like world hunger, the pursuit of justice
in the world, violence against women, natural disaster relief - these are
issues that need your attention..
What about
other, shall I call them «soft
issues» or non-core
issues like, family counseling, youth ministry, childrens's ministry, community upliftment,
marriage support, involvement
in local cahllenges facing our community, being the moral compass
in our city, etc etc..
County clerks who cite their Christian values when refusing to
issue marriage licenses to same - sex couples don't also refuse licenses to cohabitating couples, or divorcees, or interfaith couples (also frowned upon
in conservative Christian circles), nor do the bakers and restaurant owners who refuse to serve LGBT people refuse to serve
other perceived «sinners.»
Santorum, et al., may be interested
in other issues besides abortion and
marriage equality, but for progressive, pro-equality Americans, he's just another evil anti-gay jihadist from the Religions «Right.»
I also was aware of the hypocrisy of how «gay» sin, or «non-virgin» sin, or
other «moral»
issues, were regarded far far differently than sins of omission, white lies, tax fudging, white collar crime
in general (who is more sinful, the girl that has sex before
marriage, or the CEO that knows his company is lax on pollution standards that affect the health of hundreds / thousands of people and animals that live nearby)
Many
other modern interpreters of
marriage have made the same mistake, and so have many people
in American churches, who are tempted to join with Coontz and insist that couples get married for reasons of love alone, Economic, kinship and network
issues and even the desire to have children are sometimes seen as contaminations of the purity of marital love.
One major fault
in the espoused parallel relationships between Christian Privilege and
other systems of systemic inequality that disproportionately impact racial minorities, women and the LGBTQ + community is that religious preference is scarcely, if ever, legal to request as a means of legitimizing documentation for state
issued IDs, legal documents,
marriage certificates, employment applications, etc..
(i) a woman's right to an abortion; (iii) medical immunization of teen girls (and boys) against HPV; (iv) assisted suicide; (vi) gay
marriage; (vii) my right to view art and theatre deemed «offensive,» «blasphemous» or «obscene» Catholics; (viii) basic $ ex education for older school children; (ix) treating drug abuse as principally a medical
issue; (x) population control; (xi) buying alcohol on a Sunday
in many places; (xii) use of condoms and
other contraceptives; (xiii) embryonic stem cell research; (xiv) little 10 year - old boys joining organizations such as the Boy Scouts of America, regardless of the religious views of their parents; and (xv) gays being allowed to serve openly
in the military.
Important
issues are indeed at stake, including the right of Christians and adherents of
other religions to uphold their vision of sexual integrity and
marriage even if they are
in the cultural minority.
However, generically speaking I continue to be surprised at how many times there are significant
issues in families and
marriages that involve, as one of the major components, if not THE major component, crisis brought about because people's perceived needs and rights (I call them their «wants») are not being met by
others.
On many points, decisions of Islamic religious courts have the force of national law (a touchy
issue when a dispute involves a Muslim and a non-Muslim, or when one spouse
in an existing
marriage converts to Islam and makes the
other members of the family subject to Shari'a determinations on matters such as child custody).
As
in some
marriages, the argument isn't always about the topic at hand but rather about a deep seated anger over some
other issue.
Here are some details about that November 2004 ballot proposal: 1) there was already
in place a Utah law strictly banning same - sex
marriage, which I fully supported; 2) all three candidates for the office of attorney general of Utah (the chief law - enforcement officer
in the state) opposed the amendment, including the LDS (Mormon) Republican incumbent, Mark Shurtleff, mostly because they considered it a poorly drafted amendment; 3) I refused to endorse the amendment, but I did not urge people to vote «no»; 4) the leadership of the LDS Church, which has a record for being as strongly opposed to same - sex
marriage as the Catholic Church, did not
issue a statement urging its members to vote one way or the
other; 5) inasmuch as two thirds of Utahans belong to the LDS Church, this means that the leadership of at least 80 percent of Utah churchgoers did not urge a «yes» vote on the amendment.
But what I detect
in it is the work of someone who was never all that interested
in investigating the arguments on either side of the same - sex
marriage debate; whose scant interest
in it has now been fully exhausted, both intellectually and morally; and whose present conclusions hover
in mid-air without anything to support them
other than a wistful regret that he has lost a hoedown partner
in a gay man who has come fairly unglued over the
issue.
And much though not all of First Things» work has been
in the service of a religiously informed «public philosophy,» seeking to find a common language for perennial truths about
marriage, life, freedom, and
other issues in the public square.
Whichever is right» whether
marriage is or is not a purely private matter
in which the state has no abiding interest» the deeper and more immediate danger of the
marriage issue for Christians is its potential use by gay activists to undermine the autonomy of the Church and
other religious entities.
Decisions had to be made from time to time as to where or when services of the church would be held; the church needed to be told of the impending visit of an apostle, or of some prophet or teacher from abroad; a question has been raised as to the good faith of one of these visitors, and there must be some discussion of the point and a decision on it; a fellow Christian from another church is on a journey and needs hospitality; a member of the local congregation planning to visit a church abroad needs a letter of introduction to that church, which someone must be authorized to provide; a serious dispute about property rights or some
other legal matter has arisen between two of the brothers and the church must name someone to help them settle the
issue or must
in some
other way deal with it; a new local magistrate has begun to prosecute Christians for violating the law against unlicensed assembly, and consideration must be given to ways and means of meeting this crisis; charges have been brought against one of the members by another member, and these must be investigated and perhaps some disciplinary action taken; one of the members has died, and the church is called on for some special action
in behalf of his family
in the emergency; differences of opinion exist
in the church on certain questions of morals or belief (such as
marriage and divorce, or the resurrection), differences which local prophets and teachers are apparently unable to compose, and a letter must be written to the apostle — who will write this letter and what exactly will it say?
In other cases, deep, divisive
issues that present a danger to your
marriage need to be handled.
While the authors note that the recession is a huge
issue, there are
other, more disturbing social trends facing men, including the rise of men having children outside of
marriage, the increase
in men having children with numerous women and the growing numbers of divorced fathers.
The organization has also championed — endorsing and raising money for — the handful of Assembly Republicans who joined the Democrats
in voting «yes» to pass the
marriage bill on the
other side of the Capitol, protecting these lawmakers on a potentially difficult
issue (and one that, as it turned out, didn't lead to anyone's ouster, but did contribute to Assemblywoman Dede Scozzafava getting pushed out of the NY - 23 special election by conservatives who argued she was too moderate).
As for the
other two measures — gay
marriage and ethics — it's unclear how those
issues will fare
in the Senate.
More importantly, while virtually no libertarian I'm aware of supports prohibition of gay
marriage (e.g., if they can't get their preferred outcome, they prefer DNC's approach over GOP's), many of them simply view it as an
issue to small
in importance compared to
other ones when choosing between DNC or GOP.
The
other day we told you how a few county clerks
in Kentucky stopped
issuing marriage licenses to all couples to avoid
issuing them to same - sex couples.
Gillibrand, who used to work for Gov. Andrew Cuomo at HUD, is not at the Capitol today, but members of her staff are joining with Miss New York Claire Buffie and
other gay
marriage advocates
in lobbying senators on this
issue.
She also promised she will work
in support of the regional minister and
other traditional authorities
in the region to ensure
issues affecting women such as adolescent girl
marriages are dealt with therefore they should «be patience and have confidence
in the government.»
In May 2008, Paterson issued a directive requiring all state agencies to recognize same - sex marriages performed in other jurisdictions for purposes of public benefit
In May 2008, Paterson
issued a directive requiring all state agencies to recognize same - sex
marriages performed
in other jurisdictions for purposes of public benefit
in other jurisdictions for purposes of public benefits.
The crucial when and how details on the renegotiations — and the referendum is dependent on the Conservatives being
in power after the next general election − will not begin for some time and he can focus on the economy, the Maghreb terrorist threat, gay
marriage and
other issues requiring his attention.
Other high - up races are
in states that have had a similar history with the
issue — Hawaii, where the first court ruling legalizing gay
marriage came down
in 1993, and Iowa, where a judge ruled gay
marriage legal last year.
He added that she has «straight As» from the National Rifle Association and voted against Democratic Gov. David Paterson's «bloated» budget this year (Burns conceded there were
other issues on which the Republican has problems with conservatives
in her party: she is pro-abortion, voted for gay
marriage and, while not endorsing the controversial «card check» provision
in the Employee Free Choice Act, she does support «reform
in workers» ability to organize» — a stand not too different from that of AFL - CIO President Rich Trumka when he said he could support EFCA without card check).
And the LGBT community, while obviously appreciative of achieving a major victory like same - sex
marriage in one of the largest states
in the county, still has
other issues it would like to see approved that Senate Republicans likely wouldn't immediately bring to a vote.
On
other issues, their views are more divergent, however, such as New York's status as a «sanctuary city» and some social
issues — Malliotakis voted against same - sex
marriage in the Assembly
in 2011, for example.
Separately, Vlasto told me the
other books are about how New York legalized same - sex
marriage, which was a watershed moment
in the national debate on that
issue, and Cuomo's term as New York attorney general.
Lawmakers
in both chambers had been deferring to Mr. Cuomo, who has made legalizing same - sex
marriage a top priority and this week began a statewide tour to bolster support for that and
other issues, to introduce his own bill.
On the
other side of questions such as abortion and same - sex
marriage, the governor lists numerous meetings with officials
in the Catholic Church, with whom he has allied on the
issue of an education tax credit.
Last week, Governor Cuomo announced that he and his senior staff would tour the state
in order to speak directly to the people of New York about, among
other issues, creating a property tax cap, cleaning up Albany by passing ethics reform and passing a
marriage equality bill.
NOW, the largest organization of feminist grassroots activists
in the United States, was founded
in 1966 and has hundreds of chapters
in all 50 states and Washington, D.C. NOW - NY and NOW - NYC, the New York City chapter, have advocated on a number of
issues affecting girls and women, including sexual assault, sexual harassment, domestic violence and child
marriage —
issues it has worked on with Cuomo and
other elected officials.
In the true essence of Albany, politicians in this nearly 400 - year - old city bargained and bickered over a host of seemingly unconnected issues as gay couples and other states watched closely for indications about which way the national debate is evolving over using the word «marriage» to describe the union between people of the same se
In the true essence of Albany, politicians
in this nearly 400 - year - old city bargained and bickered over a host of seemingly unconnected issues as gay couples and other states watched closely for indications about which way the national debate is evolving over using the word «marriage» to describe the union between people of the same se
in this nearly 400 - year - old city bargained and bickered over a host of seemingly unconnected
issues as gay couples and
other states watched closely for indications about which way the national debate is evolving over using the word «
marriage» to describe the union between people of the same sex.
Cuomo has also craftily stirred
other major
issues, including legislative redistricting and gay
marriage, into the mix periodically —
in part because he wants them resolved, but also as bargaining chips or signal - senders to constituencies.
He will never relent
in his vociferous fight for equality and justice —
in marriage, housing, jobs and
other critical
issues.
Relationship experts and proponents of the benefits of longterm
marriage, myself included, believe that there's basically only one reason: an unworkable and obvious red - flag
issue in the relationship that hasn't responded to counseling or
other forms of intervention.
If a
marriage is suffering from an untenable red - flag
issue, then the underlying mindset of conscious uncoupling — which basically means tending to your own grief and
other uncomfortable feelings so that you don't project them onto your partner
in the form of retaliatory anger and longterm resentment — is a gentle and responsible way to dissolve a
marriage.
Everyone knows that one of the most contentious
issues in many
marriages is wife and mother
in law relationships and as Christians wives and mothers -
in - laws, we should do everything possible to meet each
other where we are at to make life and the family home peaceful — after all — which mother
in law will have your perfect ideals, and which wife will have your exacting child - rearing standards?