I think you have probably caused more damage to
other marriages going public with this.
Not exact matches
«One of the greatest gifts one can give a
marriage is the recognition and acceptance that there are times when you're
going to get it wrong... When you will lose the work - life balance; when you will share too little or too much; when you will lean too heavily while it was [the
other person] who needed the rest.
We get to choose that we're
going to expect the
marriages to do [some] sorts of things, but not [some]
other sorts of things.
Most of us
go into
marriage, or cohabitation, without much of a strategy
other than an «I love you and I want to make it work» so it is not long before the issue of money rears its ugly head.
Asness, who
goes by Cliff, has also supported gay
marriage among many
other causes.
Or are you
going to tell us you agree with God that
marriage should be FORCED on some people who may hate each
other?
Some may have chosen a life of difficulty and waywardness to help
others seek more clearly - as some who
go through painful divorces allow
others to see how working at
marriage is prefereable.
While
going to counseling is one form of
marriage maintenance, I'd like to offer some
other practical ways to invest and maintain your relationships on a yearly basis.
Yet there is little reason to believe that society is
going to be more tolerant of truth as regards
marriage, and less tolerant of truth as regards
other issues, such as concern for the poor.
The
other day, at a small group I attended, someone expressed concern for me because there is a lot of stuff
going on in our community right now: illnesses, the threat of death,
marriages in serious trouble, depression... the kind of things that take time to deal with.
However, there have been
other times where I've had to leave and
go into the toilet because I'm crying and asking questions — trying to be happy for the person but still questioning why my
marriage didn't work and why this couldn't happen for me.
If you do not want
other nations out number you in your land, it is either you should not allow immigration or make new laws as to Divorce and
Marriages beside taking into consideration allowing polygamy if permited by the first female partner whether she is well giving birth or sick unable to give birth... You can not
go on wiping reducing nations every time they exceed your populations??!
It may
go the
other way more, incompatible people look for compatibility outside the
marriage.
One of the essential functions of a good
marriage is for the partners to provide encouragement and support to each
other as they
go through anxiety - producing periods of crisis — pregnancy, illness, children growing up and leaving home, deaths of parents, husband's retirement.
We don't have to think that there was a golden age of
marriage (as the
marriage movement is sometimes thought to believe in) to see that something significant has
gone on in how men and women relate to each
other.
As far as attending the
marriage ceremony of gay people i have two points of view the first is that that is there choice to live how they want to but to me that is clearly not Gods best and sin is sin and needs to be repented of but that is my standard not theres.As far as divorced people remarrying why shouldnt they if they have repented of there past God forgives them not condemns them.As he said to the women caught in adultery do they condemn you and she answers no and he says and neither do i.
Go and sin no more.This was not just for the women causght in adultery this lesson was for every one of us he was addressing our sin publically for all have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God that being his son Jesus Christ he is telling us that we must make the same decision to
go and sin no more to repent in our hearts and the only way to do that is to give our hearts and lives totally to Jesus Christ
other wise we are no better than the hypocrites in JESUS day.brentnz
To marry someone, then
go outside of that
marriage is to sabotage it, and is to impose what you want over what the
other party was lead to believe, that they actually Had a
marriage.
We have each
other, so how are we
going to do this
marriage so we're both happy?»
I have a wonderful husband who forgave me and we love each
other and our
marriage has
gone from strength to strength, at the time i committed adultery i felt strongly that devil was controlling my behaviour it was such a powerful force and yet at the moment i was ending the affair the Holy Spirit was overpowering and brought me back to my husband and we celebrated our 25 th wedding anniversary last year, i have always loved my husband and didn't ever consider adultery and yet my ex came back into my life and i was weak, but now i am strong and so in love with my husband and know i am forgiven.
Another preacher preaching what ever
goes is ok with Christianity... If your
going to preach Christianity based on the Bible, then you might as well forget gay
marriages are ok... If you want to twist it around then thats up to you... Paul said, «The Berens were of noble charachter because they didn't believe what they heard, but they took what they heard and confirmed it with the Bible... So its like the Yen or Yang... Its either Gods church or Satans Church... Can't be any
other way... Do I hate gays, no... I have some very close friends that I have had for over 30 years that are gay, but I think they will be accountable for their life styles... Thats the thing about Christianity, we are held accountable, its not an everything
goes belief... Its rules we have to follow... And rules we will be held accountable... So maybe this preacher needs to start a dfferent faith or religion... One where there are no rules and where its people are not accountable for their actions...
To Ken Margo: I am totally agree with you about this evil thing
going around the earth... this evil minded people is there everywhere regardless of faith... that was not what i was trying to say... my point was to be able to recognize the One True God who is Unseen and who has no partners as He is not in need of any partners but we the creation is in need of Him... thats all... I wish I could do something to stop all these taking place around the earth... I think we human fear the fed laws more than we fear the laws of our Creator, for example not to associate any partner with Him, taking the life of
others, drug dealing, human trafficking, believing in hereafter and so on... I remember a story that I was talking with one of my friends... I was telling him look we all obey the law of the land so much like for example when we drive and no one moves even an inch when there is a school bus stop to pick / drop kids as it is a fed laws but when it comes to the laws of our Creator, we don't care... like having physical relationship outside of
marriage and many more... then he said something nice... he said that its because we see the consequence of breaking the law of the land but we do not see the punishment of hereafter even though it is mentioned very details in Quran, it even gives pictures of hereafter....
The 1MM uses the formula to let you build on whatever you have
going for you in your
marriage (or
other close relationship).
I lean towards the third view... but I admit it is the most difficult of the three views... Christ's priorities appear to be «love in motion» flowing in almost unpredictable directions as dictated by the greatest need: — He heals a slave rather than rebukes slavery; — He heals a man at a pool, then leads the man to belief, then says «cease from sinning»; — He heals many
others and says «
go and sin no more» to but a few; — He shares money with the poor but establishes no long - term aid; — He touches lepers; He converses with seeking Pharisees; He debates with
other Pharisees; He lives with Samaritan outcasts for two days; — He acknowledges the five «
marriages» of the Samaritan woman as «
marriages»... and then remarks about her current co-habitation... but then moves to higher priorities; — He seems so very focused on internal holiness and not on external holiness; — He violates the Sabbath; He says He is Lord of the Sabbath; He even says that the Sabbath was created to assist man, rather than man created to serve the Sabbath... thus turning the entire concept of the Law into one of assistance rather than being chained to obedience; — He insists on impartiality in the way we bless
others, even if we call them «evil» or «good».
Israel was thus vowed to God in poverty, chastity and obedience: in the denial of empire and power, in the purity of her
marriage covenant that did not permit her to
go after any
other religion, and in the fidelity of her worship by an unwavering revealed Faith.
What I'm saying in all this is that even though we
go through times of strain in our
marriage because of deconstruction, we behave as though it is transitory, a passing storm, and that we will weather it and come out of the
other side better and stronger.
Of course, there are no guarantees on that front and I don't think you should ever
go into
marriage hoping to change the
other person.
And in terms of se - xual problems, it is easy to understand why Rachel might have questioned whether she was attractive enough for her husband if he was turning elsewhere for his pleasure in light of the fact that they were both taught that the only pleasure they are
going to have after
marriage is from each
other.
Even well - mated partners in
marriage know that if they look upon each
other as «someone who can provide me with the setting I need for beauty,» something
goes wrong and sex becomes «routine.»
If you're
going to convert just for the sake of
marriage, why not just
go for convenience all the way and convert to whatever your significant
other practices.
As Sarah put it in a couples» sharing group, «Before the children came, we had something
going; but then we both got so wrapped up in
other things we didn't work at our
marriage, at least not very often.»
Uncle Joe may have
gone to church faithfully every Sunday, marched against gay
marriage and did all the
other things people are supposed to do within his Christian community, but he could have secretly been a serial killer, or just
going through the motions of keeping up appearances.
If you are
going to argue that gay
marriage somehow damages
other individuals you need to make your case.
If you're as selfie - obsessed as so many
others seem to be, you might be aware of Chris and Shannon Neuman, the Canadian couple whose smiling selfie outside the court house, where they were about to end their 11 - year
marriage,
went viral.
The problem with throwing out the lifelong bit is that one person may want to leave and
go for a different
marriage while the
other one wants to keep what they have.
If you are
going to tell your spouse you want a divorce, say so politely and directly (and only after attempting to repair the
marriage with counseling and
other techniques).
But please don't look upon
others as «happy couples or even single parents» — we really never know what
goes on within a
marriage or relationship despite how happy they look.
Most just wish it would
go away, and
others — like myself — wonder what the high percentages of infidelity say about the institution of
marriage.
The beta
marriage idea caused a kerfuffle at Jezebel, Salon, Fox News and a gazillion
other media outlets, some of which began wringing their hands over the idea that young people may not be committed to
go the distance.
I am very thankful I
went to see somebody and reading
other blogs posted on this website, women tend to want to repair their
marriage or are more aware of the problems, so I guess my actions were what typically women do.
Children feel secure when they know that Mom and Dad love each
other — particularly in today's world, where 50 percent of
marriages end in divorce; half of your children's friends have
gone, or are
going through a divorce; or maybe it's your kids who have survived a divorce and are now living in a new family arrangement.
By the time their youngest
went off to college, after 20 - plus years of
marriage, the couple were barely talking to each
other.
While studies have shown that low - income women value
marriage and have more traditional views about
marriage and divorce than
others, they don't want to get hitched to a man who is
going to drag them down.
Others think the covenant
marriage doesn't
go far enough and have proposed stricter divorce laws.
Sure, it's hard to leave them sometimes and we miss them when we're
gone, but it does wonders for our
marriage to have a day or two of uninterrupted quality time when we have nothing to worry about but each
other.
Basically, like every
other generation, millennials are
going to approach
marriage with their unique goals and expectations in mind.
The Tates, who
went with their own version of «uncoupling,» believed this was a way to break up their
marriage without animosity, but it required an unconventional approach — Clark and Valerie still live together in the same house, with separate bedrooms, and maintain joint assets, but have an open
marriage, meaning they date
other people.
Lots of us
go to
marriage counseling secretly believing we're just there to be supportive while the counselor fixes the
other person's shortcomings.
Instead, we
went through
marriage counseling and fought our way back to each
other.
Like
other religious opponents of same - sex
marriage, he
goes on to argue that civil partnership is «in every respect in ethical terms an honourable contract of a committed relationship».
«I know there's a lot
going on with the gay
marriage thing and the rent control thing and all the
other things that are
going on in the state.