Not exact matches
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to
breastfeed» when all around me are images
of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty», women getting «the look» for nursing in public, or feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure
out there is NOT to
breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go
out alone sometime...)
And it was given
out by the Kansas
Breastfeeding Coalition, so they are a local breastfeeding coalition; a lot of citi
Breastfeeding Coalition,
so they are a local
breastfeeding coalition; a lot of citi
breastfeeding coalition; a lot
of cities have that.
Maybe they just don't want to scare us
out of breastfeeding:D Anyway, I stuck it
out because it was
so important to me that my kids got breastmilk.
A consultant can help you figure
out the best bottle to use for a
breastfed baby,
so you can continue
breastfeeding outside
of work hours.
I'm still
breastfeeding for my girls and as far as nursing in public is concerned I mean I had my babies like boom boom boom right,
so there wasn't a lot
of getting
out of the house.
Knowing all this information was
out there, I couldn't believe there was anyone who didn't
breastfeed these days, other than uneducated teenage moms, those with uncompromising work situations, or those unfortunate women who were physically unable to do
so (and according to what I had read on the La Leche League website, there were very few
of these women
out there - far fewer than the formula lobby and misinformed doctors would have us believe).
You can also talk to your doctor to find
out if some
of the post-birth medical procedures can be slightly delayed
so you and your baby can get to know each other through skin - to - skin contact during that first
breastfeeding experience.
Then I'm okay with them having get before you know as long as they take like a form
of breastfeeding class or you know she knows the lactation consultant or the peer counsellor if you're on the WIC program
so that they'll know that just because you have the baby in your arms, you don't need to be using the pump you know right
out the gate day one if there is no other issues and you know involved.
This ended up being a double - edged sword because sometimes the best sources for
breastfeeding info are also the places where very militant anti-formula folks hang
out,
so I ended up absorbing a lot
of negative messaging.
Because breastmilk is
so easily absorbed by the body and not full
of «waste», it can be normal for exclusively
breastfed babies to go days or even a few weeks with
out pooping.
So, yes to a certain extent I feel like I missed
out on some things with my oldest child during those first few months
breastfeeding and he played a lot
of angry birds.
The idea
of making any final decision on when to stop
breastfeeding stresses me
out,
so I haven't made any hard and fast rules about when we will stop.
In 3 months
of breastfeeding I had mastitis that wouldn't go away after one antibiotic
so I had to have an US to rule
out an abscess.
Be sure to seek
out the support and information you need
so that you are able to reach your
breastfeeding goals, even in the face
of negativity and criticism.
However, I was always intending to combination feed then give up
breastfeeding and switch to formula after a few months as I wanted some freedom.It was my choice to
breastfeed, to give up having drinks, to do the night feeds, to get my breasts
out in public and everything else you mention above (I didn't watch what I ate, if I listened to the HV about giving up dairy and greens and everything else, then I would have felt like crap) I made that decision and by the sounds
of it
so did you.
Being the fact that I was a new mom, I had no idea
of how it was or wasn't supposed to feel
so I thought I should just «tough
out» the pain I was experiencing from
breastfeeding no matter how bad it got, and assumed that I was doing what I was supposed to be in the way I should be doing it.
So, with that in mind, here are a few
breastfeeding plans that went
out the window, in favor
of something even better:
Another woman before her told me she didn't talk about her
breastfeeding journey except around a few key friends because it was
so discouraging and difficult she didn't want anyone else to feel sorry for her or not try
breastfeeding out of fear that they would have a similar experience.
Think about the images that we see
of breastfeeding — almost always
out the top
of the shirt / buttoning down — this gives the impression to non-mothers and pregnant women that that's the only way to get boob
out of clothing
so they think they need to FLASH EVERYONE every time they go to feed the baby.
In 4 + years as a
breastfeeding mother I have NEVER come
out the top
of a shirt to feed a baby in public and rarely even do
so at home because their nails go from clipped to SHARP in the blink
of an eye and I want to protect my skin with a layer
of fabric!).
So here's what you need to hear that maybe no one else is going to tell you if you decide, for any reason, that formula feeding is the way to go for you: It's OK if you can't seem to get
breastfeeding down to a science like some
of those superhero moms
out there.
Although we set
out to
breastfeed, appreciating all
of the benefits
of doing
so, sometimes a little loving support and lactation expertise is needed to be successful
breastfeeding.
But like
so many other alleged benefits
of breastfeeding,
breastfeeding - aided weight loss turns
out to be vastly overblown.
But as Courtney Jung points
out in her book Lactivism, while 79 percent
of American mothers initiate
breastfeeding, only 49 percent are still doing
so at six months, the length
of time recommended by the American Academy
of Pediatrics.
ROCHELLE MCLEAN: It's not as common but it can sometimes, usually it's more like I said related to latch and things like that
so typically you see that kind
of behavior more at the beginning
of breastfeeding as you ruling
out latch issues and things like that.
So she was
out in public with her eight week old son and it says that she was at a cafe and she happened to be
breastfeeding her baby and it says an elderly women, in not sure if it actually lists her name or sorry her age, but anyway this elderly women comes up to her and honestly the mom was like «oh no, she's going to tell me to cover up, she's going to be like, be mean about this or you know or how dare I be, you know doing this in public kind
of thing» and the only thing the elderly wanted to do was to help the mom be able to eat.
The idea
of on demand lactation consultants who come to you is not only genius, but
so necessary in a culture that is grossly uneducated in
breastfeeding and
so much misinformation
out there.
When it comes to the nutrition for your baby,
breastfeeding is kinda unbeatable (although obviously formula is perfectly fine and nutritious too, but it doesn't come
out of a boob,
so we have to take off a least a few ~ Cool Points ~ because... boobs.)
I have a 6 and a half week old that is
breastfed and she refuses to go to sleep at night, without me right beside her or being latched on... I try to unlatch her when I think she has fallen asleep but this wakes her up... also if I try to get
out of the bed to spend time with my boyfriend before I'm ready to go to sleep she also wakes up shortly after I've left... This is getting quite tiresome and I've tried every different shape and name
of pacifier and she will not take them, I also tried to get her to take her bottle before bed
so I would know she ate a full 5 ounces and sleep most
of the night but she won't take them anymore either.
It turns
out that at around 6 months, a healthy
breastfed baby's iron levels drop
so low that outside sources
of iron are necessary.
Her name is Cadence and we did do a hospital birth which was an incredible experience at the hospital that I was able to deliver at here in Nashville, Tennessee, and just kind
of figuring everything
out,
breastfeeding wise, but we're doing pretty good
so far.
When I'm
out and about, a lot
of moms do a double take when they see other moms
breastfeeding, I feel like if they saw images like this when they're
out and about it wouldn't make it
so weird or taboo.
I was
breastfeed as a baby and not for extremely long I think for like four months but my mom was always very pro
breastfeeding but now when I see her, because like I said I'm still feeding my twins imp still
breastfeeding my twins and
so she kind
of gives me that «Are you done yet» kind
of look like really you got to whip those
out and it's not that she is modest, she is not modest or anything like that.
Once he got a little bit older to figure
out how could I continue to
breastfeed a very busy male child when I had another child
so again baby wearing definitely helped in those situations and now that I have my third child and I'm home schooling and everything the support
of my sons father he is super supportive, he is like «ok well while you are nursing I will talk to the children for a minute» or you know, I'll tie him on and he will nurse while I'm teaching my elder two children
so the more children I have the more complicated it becomes.
Top tip Invariably and unpredictably, even the best laid plans can be hijacked by the needs
of a new or
breastfeeding baby,
so don't be too disheartened if things don't pan
out as expected.
If
so, you'll be pleased to hear that
breastfeeding twins is perfectly plausible and there's plenty
of support
out there for mums
of multiples.
There are
so many aspects
of breastfeeding that are completely
out of a mother's control.
I've been
breastfeeding for a combined total
of over three years now, and I've just worked
out that I've had six different breast pumps in that time — because three
of them broke —
so have used several different ones.
i have a similar problem or situation with my baby girl she wont drink
out of a bottle and she is a
breastfed baby i tried those breast flow bottles by first year and my baby just laughed at me
so i have abandoned the thought
of a bottle and i have tried for the cup and the transition ones by gerber with the triangler shape is the ones she likes
so far she will drink a little from there at least
Invariably and unpredictably, even the best laid plans can be hijacked by the needs
of a new or
breastfeeding baby,
so don't be too disheartened if things don't pan
out as expected.
I have heard this also a child developing a sweet tooth if given juice, but my daughter has been exclusively
breastfed for 7 months now and I'm pretty positive that breastmilk is sweet because 1) I have tasted my breastmilk
out of curiosity and 2) it is just plain fact that it's sweet
so i agree with the fact that salt ingeneral isn't the best but I «salt tooth» really?
I never mind having my stomach hanging
out while I
breastfeed, but I will also be trying to keep track
of my luggage, children and passports
so the last thing I need to think about is if my top is positioned well and covering as much as possible...
Will they give you time to
breastfeed in the exam room if you
so choose and not rush you
out of the office?
This is prevented by
breastfeeding frequently and increasing their milk intake
so your baby can flush it
out of their system efficiently and effectively.
Ask about someone bringing you your baby
so you can
breastfeed, and be sure to let your employer what you need
so they can help you figure
out the best course
of action.
I started
out, like
so many new and expecting moms, with very little knowledge
of breastfeeding.
That gathering
of equipment is
so much a part
of pregnancy (at least here) that it feels like
breastfeeding is disadvantaged exactly because it doesn't need any «stuff» - the stuff can be the beginning
of the conversation (as formula companies have well figured
out).
After having to undergo an emergency c - section I was completely
out of it for the entire first night
so my daughter stayed in the nursery and yes they did give her a small amount
of formula but afterwards they did everything in their power to get my daughter to
breastfeed (she had latching issues).
Pretend nursing doesn't sexualize young girls, and it's utter nonsense to suggest that a little girl might enjoy
breastfeeding her pretend doll
so much that she would go
out and intentionally get pregnant
so she can have a baby
of her own.
Many moms have to work to help keep a roof over the kids head, which I think is way more important than
breastfeeding vs formula feeding,
so even if they pump their babies are still being fed
out of bottles by someone else.