Not exact matches
Bed bonding results in more independent
children: Generally speaking, research around secure and insecure attachments show that
children that are securely attached to their parents become independent more easily and those that are insecurely attached end up being
anxious or
overly dependent.
But some
children are
overly anxious and deal with a great amount of stress because of it.
Children often get lost and
overly anxious if you spend too much time trying to soften the blow.
Although some people consider it a «nervous habit» — a category that includes thumb sucking, nail biting, hair twisting, and tooth grinding — nose picking isn't necessarily a sign that your
child is
overly anxious.
If you've tried every method and your
child still seems
overly anxious, or has other troubling behaviors like pulling out his hair, picking at his skin or not sleeping well, you should consult your
child's pediatrician for assistance so you can get him the help he needs.
Parents of resistant
children may be
overly anxious and can be overprotective and interfering at times.
I have had to counsel people in a variety of stressful situations: spousal abuse;
children who were abusive to the dog; angry people;
anxious people; wimpy people;
overly tough people, and so on.
Parents and carers may also unintentionally contribute to a
child's anxiety by modelling
anxious behaviour themselves; being
overly controlling or intrusive (which can affect a
child's sense of autonomy and the development of coping skills); or by tolerating or encouraging escape and avoidance behaviours in the
child.
It's important not to become
overly anxious if your
child expresses a wish that you and their other parent were back together again.
In the moment, while the
child is interacting with the unpredictable and emotionally dangerous narcissistic / (borderline) parent, the primary motivation of the
child is to keep the narcissistic / (borderline) parent in a regulated emotional state and so avoid the parent's collapse into hostile - angry - rejecting,
overly sad and depressed, or hyper -
anxious emotional displays.
The more sensitive
child is likely to be emotionally crushed by his parents» strict, harsh approach, and will become
overly compliant,
anxious and develop a low sense of self - worth.