Sentences with phrase «own shame and guilt»

The horrible thing is... the rejection of homosexuality is what forces the gay person into shame and guilt... which results in suppression of their natural feelings... which results in unhealthy, sinful expressions of those feelings.

If god designed the system, then anything that happens is to his credit — be to his praise and glory or to his shame and guilt.

Most of «gay pride» is just a rebellion against a lifetime of shame and guilt forced upon the gay person since childhood.

Ignorance, fear, shame and guilt are the cornerstones of religion.

Shame and guilt is your weapon and you wield it as freely as any fundy preacher attempting to exert control by brow beating their congregation.

3 spirits are at work in mental illness fear shame and guilt.

Oh, it's great at the time; but when you think about it the next day at work, you feel shame and guilt, and an array of sadness.

... and, it's no one person or post or thing, and its not that I have all the answers, or that I live my beliefs the way that I aspire to... I just see lots of really great - hearted people tying themselves in knots, feeling shame and guilt and depression and anger... and at times it seems it is because they are trying to differentiate between seas and lakes and rivers and oceans... instead of just going for a swim.

Women suffer shame and guilt not just around sexual sin but around the sheer fact of living in a body.

I would not wish shame and guilt and humiliation and deep filthiness to be feelings I associate with sex, therefore, in love for my neighbour, I can not condone teachings that impart these feelings to our young people.

Just like governments can gather personal information about you, the police can invade your privacy, and CEOs can treat you like a number, so religious leaders can use fear, shame and guilt to manipulate you.

However, it does little to alleviate the terrible shame and guilt that so many of our gay brothers and sisters must struggle with every day.

But Justin explains that this is unhealthy, and places terrible burdens of shame and guilt on a child.

I couldn't deal with it... I became very angry and the amount of shame and guilt you feel when you are doing things that you know aren't healthy and you cant tell anybody, and it becomes for me a source of anger.»

I struggled with shame and guilt for many subsequent years.

Shame and guilt are the theme of the day.

FEAR, SHAME and GUILT and COVER IT ALL UP!!!

Unsatisfactory «affairs» and / or blatant promiscuity tend to increase the victim's sense of shame and guilt.

Funny thing though, those three things; fear, shame and guilt are the biggies eh that we each as human beings need to face one dayâ $ ¦

Just like governments can gather personal information about you, the police can invade your privacy, and CEOs can treat you like a number, so religious leaders can use fear, shame and guilt to manipulate...

By the way, we're living in a world in which shame and guilt no longer exist as long what you are after bring you pleasure and some satisfaction.

The shame and guilt can often be compounded when the abuse occurred in a church setting or was perpetrated by a church leader.

rn actors are not de.ified in the same way as sports and hollywo - od stars becuase of the underlying pur - itan ethic of shame and guilt regarding se - x in the USA.

The threat of shame and guilt keeps members in line.

Would not such a reading confirm their suspicion that Christianity thrives on shame and guilt?

Less shame and guilt and control.

If you are looking to lay the blame at someone's feet for his shame and guilt, try his religion.

Others, often victims of battering or marital rape, tell of partners insisting on trying some practice discovered in porn wares (10 per cent of such victims in one study) These women report suicide attempts, nightmares, fears, anxieties, shame and guilt — reactions which resemble rape trauma syndrome.

Disgust only leads to shame and guilt and fear.

«Just say no» doesn't work when it comes to s.ex — abstinence is an unrealistic ideal and when coupled with imposed shame and guilt for failure can be psychologically damaging.

Some use Christianity as a tool for manipulation, using fear, shame and guilt to control and influence others.

But it represented yet again an area where the healthy God given desires were twisted into a thing of shame and guilt by my church and distorted my view of God as loving at all.

Usually, I can tactfully avoid the requests / demands but occasionally (when they pull out the weapons of shame and guilt) I find myself wanting to pick up those «expectation» bars and begin building my own cage.

I think that it's a human instinct, a religious instinct, when we don't understand and really believe in grace and in the goodness of people to use fear, shame and guilt to motivate people to do good.

We, who are born in sin and who are accustomed to sin's constant presence within us, still feel shame and guilt when we sin.

What makes abortion «awful» is the shame and guilt caused by two heavily ideological notions that all women in the society still learn to some degree: (1) the association of fetus with «baby» and the aborting woman with «bad mother,» and (2) the assumption that sex for pleasure is «wrong» (for women) and that women who indulge in it have to pay a price.

Unless «we embrace the totality of life by accepting both creation and destruction as natural parts of the flow of life, we will continue to turn away from our power and be at the mercy of those who will use shame and guilt to control us.»

The need for controlling others is something we learn bit by bit ---- and a pastor with a high need to control others, will slowly confine and constrain you with bars of shame and guilt.

There are many Christians who carry shame and guilt because they have not yet received God's forgiveness even though he has forgiven them.

Plus there is still a lot of shame and guilt surrounding mental illness, although there's more awareness now than ever before.

So much of putting this issue together came down to doing the research and soul - searching to really understand the differences between shame and guilt, and shame as a normal emotion and when it crossed into unhealthy territory and the effects of that toxic shame and then the sheer enormity of effort that must take place for a person to heal from a shame - based self - image.»

From that moment on I gave her bottles and felt a shame and guilt that I couldn't feed my baby and that I was starving her.

At every stage in Liam's development I have been overcome with shame and guilt if there was any hiccup in him meeting his milestones.

In addition, thoughts of suicide and feelings of anger, shame and guilt are often present.

That's what you are most accustomed to but does a child or anyone for that matter; really have to experience pain, or shame and guilt to learn?

It's long past time to recognize this woman for what she is, a cult leaders whose empirical claims have no basis in fact, whose recommendations have caused countless preventable neonatal deaths, and who uses shame and guilt to discipline her followers.

Homebirth advocates, including Gaskin, wield shame and guilt as cudgels to discipline members.

In addition, thoughts of suicide and feelings of anger, rage, shame and guilt are often present.

As her usual coping skills diminish, and her feelings of shame and guilt abound, her depression deepens.

Silenced for decades by shame and guilt, we suffered alone with our grief, believing we were the only ones.