It really helped us realize the real - world implications for how we read each other's texts, and how
vulnerable we feel when others are interpreting our scriptures in certain ways.
They become tear-less and fearless, as they lose their caring and other
vulnerable feelings altogether.
A deeper attachment was the answer to ensuring a healthy alarm system and preserving my children's ability to experience all of
their vulnerable feelings, so they could develop meaningful and deep relationships as well as develop their individuality and the traits that characterize maturity.
When children can express
their vulnerable feelings to a parent and see over time that they can have independent relationships with both parents, they can recover and grow through this experience.
These are
vulnerable feelings that need to come out if the child is to recover from this loss and continue to develop in a healthy way.
I'm learned that I'm clearly not alone in quickly getting over
the vulnerable feelings of early motherhood.
Trust me, I remember with both pregnancies how
vulnerable I felt about my looks, because like you I was always pretty in shape and to let go and give into my body growing and changing was pretty emotional for me, as well as not sleeping well, nausea and just being plain hormonal.
Very uncomfortable and
vulnerable feeling.
You may feel as if no one understands how
vulnerable you feel.
Nancy facilitates couples to get in touch with what underlies their reactions, so that
vulnerable feelings can be expressed in a way that gets an attuned response from their partner.
They then need help accessing those more
vulnerable feelings underneath it all and speaking to each other about the deeper emotions at play.
In a single session, she helps them conceptualize their conflicts in attachment terms, gain an understanding of their negative cycle and begin to reveal some of
the vulnerable feelings that underlie their explosive anger.
Dr. Hick is passionate about her work and feels honored to be a part of each client's journey, knowing how hard and
vulnerable it feels to take the first step to get help.
And then we help them to find and share their more
vulnerable feelings, creating a positive and affirming cycle...
In sessions, couples get help to reconnect with these more
vulnerable feelings, and learn how to use them to connect with their partner instead of protecting against them by pushing their partner away.
See if you can practice talking about your more
vulnerable feelings with each other.
My emphasis is to facilitate a therapeutic relationship where
vulnerable feelings can be safely expressed.
The better question to ask when it comes to boys (and girls too), is whether they have a «soft heart» and can express
their vulnerable feelings?
Suppose, however, a partner doesn't want at the moment to look at
their vulnerable feelings.
Johnson uses the therapist as a «secure base» and encourages them to build a secure container in which the anxiously or avoidantly attached partner can take the risk of expressing
vulnerable feelings and needs.
It's important to understand that anger is often a red herring which covers up more
vulnerable feelings such as embarrassment, sadness, and hopelessness.
In order for people, especially children, to communicate
vulnerable feelings, they have to feel safe.
You will also feel more
vulnerable feelings like, «I really miss you.»
You'll also be able to talk about your tender,
vulnerable feelings underneath that will actually make it better.
In this way they can quickly turn a fight into a two - way conversation, and acknowledge the more
vulnerable feelings that were missing from the first interaction.
As you share more of
those vulnerable feelings, your partner's brain also will begin to have a deeper understanding of you and their brain will also create new neural pathways.
For example, you will likely uncover and share
vulnerable feelings that you may not usually talk about.
When you work at sharing
your vulnerable feelings, it will bring you and your fiancé closer.
Nancy facilitates couples to get in touch with what underlies their reactions, so that
vulnerable feelings can be expressed in a way that gets an attuned response from their partner.
It's about
the vulnerable feelings beneath, and the hurtful process involved in defending against expressing them.
The person discloses his or her more
vulnerable feelings such as fear, shame, desire and wonder in addition to less
vulnerable feelings such as anger and frustration.
But it isn't easy for us humans to access these more
vulnerable feelings and courageously express them and be open to what happens.
Yet, what's behind the parentheses are
vulnerable feelings that unlock what the argument is really about, unbeknownst to each partner.
We also learn to create an environment where it becomes safe to expose the more
vulnerable feelings that often are difficult to see beneath tendencies to get angry or to pull away and disengage.
Kids learn how to be safe with
their vulnerable feelings within a parenting environment.
Expressing the more
vulnerable feelings will invite your partner to connect with you.
Before requesting acts of love, we need to be comfortable communicating openly with our partner about
our vulnerable feelings: our love, our fears, our hopes, and what we need emotionally.
In psychodynamic therapy approaches, people who resort to violence in order to hide deeper emotions are encouraged to become conscious of the more
vulnerable feelings that may underlie their aggression.
I most enjoying witnessing couples move from anger and defensiveness to revealing
vulnerable feelings that create a renewed connection.
Look to name
the vulnerable feelings underneath your frustration or disappointment, and share them.
We call these moments of open, tender sharing «softenings,» because we saw partners not only begin to express their more
vulnerable feelings but also be more loving (softer) in their responses to their partners.
It takes courage to show someone
our vulnerable feelings and needs in a soft way (not a critical way).
Now, each person makes themselves available to learn more about their partner's deeper, more
vulnerable feelings.
Defensiveness keeps you from looking within and touching the white - hot pain of
your vulnerable feelings.
Don't underestimate the destructive power of
vulnerable feelings, body image issues and negative self - talk on your sexual experience.
I notice that I'm very good at hiding, and am often not even aware of, my more
vulnerable feelings.
First, as we grow closer to someone, and our lives become more connected,
our vulnerable feelings increase.
But disconnected from
his vulnerable feelings of victimhood, he will not have the opportunity to address the pain of his home life.
Learn the most
vulnerable feeling way to disclose your vulnerability in your relaitonship.
Trust in a relationship can be strengthened when partners share their insecurities, discuss
any vulnerable feelings they may have, and have open discussions about close friendships with people whom the other partner might perceive as a threat.