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Not exact matches
By loudly
owning her choices, Sandberg makes it a little safer for the rest
of us to declare that
parents working late into the night is killer on families (Mashable points to research «that
children are healthier, happier and better performing students when they eat with their families») and on personal productivity and health, making it a bit easier for those
of us with less lofty positions to take back our schedules and admit that we need to work saner hours.
I can't believe how many young people I know now, friends
of my
own children, kids who hang out at our
own house, who's hearts have been crushed beyond recognition and sometimes I wonder beyond repair... some
by their
parents, some
by other authorities, and some
by the church.
Not only have institutions
of higher education decisively rejected the role
of in loco parentis, but they are increasingly populated
by children whose
parents have abdicated their
own responsibility.
Reading The Giving Tree to our
children can thus inspire gratitude in us as
parents and can encourage us to repay our debts to our
own mothers (and fathers) in the only way we can —
by gladly spending our substance in the loving care
of our
own children.
(If you have been a
parent, you might be able to sense the pain
of having been put on the garbage to die
by your
own child.)
They say that
parents of young
children should not resent the gains made
by those over 60, but should simply insist that their
own interests be equally valued.
This writer has heard it suggested
by diocesan officials, and even sometimes
by teachers, that the vast majority
of parents are incapable
of giving sex education to their
own children, or are embarrassed, unwilling or too lazy to give it.
By God's
own teaching, his plan required that his creations, having free will, yet no appreciation
of hardship or adversary, must, like all
children do as they move from innocence to adulthood, think that they know better than there
parents and elders and break seemingly arbitrary rules.
This new family ideal takes an entire book to elaborate (with important questions still left unanswered), but can be briefly summarized as follows: it is the voluntary lifetime union
of a woman and a man who
parent their
own children in a relationship characterized
by love, justice and equal regard.
It's really a form
of child abuse perpertuated
by the
parents own ignorance and fear.
Discussions
of handling a
child's anger constructively should be accompanied
by small - group opportunities for the
parents to work through their
own feelings in this area (which is so vital to mental health).
I usually introduce the PAC approach in counseling or growth group sessions
by diagramming it on a sheet
of paper and giving an illustration or two
of the times I let my
own Parent and
Child take over unconstructively.
Like the moments
of intimacy at other times in the
child's life, the rare moments
of sharing with adolescent
children can also help the
parent to reopen and relive some
of his
own youth
by sharing in his
children's growth.
If the basic trust is strong in the
child, and if the
parents are secure in their
own relationship and not too threatened
by the
child's budding autonomy which at times makes him resist the demands
of the
parents, a new dimension
of parent -
child intimacy can develop.
Two weeks ago, I reported on a poll
by Scholastic demonstrating the importance
of parents reading aloud to their
children well past the age that
children can read on their
own.
Or, maybe you can recall times from your
own childhood when your
parents tried to guilt you into finishing your food
by asking you to «think
of the starving
children in China.»
• One study found fathers» acceptance
of their
child strongly influenced
by their
own parents» acceptance
of the
child (Waisbren, 1980).
By the way, if you find that you are having a hard time controlling your own temper, seek out support in the form of friends, other parents with same - age children, or by taking a parenting class at your local rec center or churc
By the way, if you find that you are having a hard time controlling your
own temper, seek out support in the form
of friends, other
parents with same - age
children, or
by taking a parenting class at your local rec center or churc
by taking a
parenting class at your local rec center or church.
Finally, they advise
parents to measure their levels
of parental pride
by asking whether their
own self - esteem depends on their
children's performance.
By encouraging those who still advocate corporal punishment to see the facts behind reasons
parents today think corporal punishment works and breaking down those reasons to see why those reasons don't stand up to facts and examination, we can protect the most vulnerable members
of society:
children, who should be taught how to behave correctly on their
own and develop the skills to regulate their
own behavior so that they don't need to be constantly disciplined and who should not be physically hurt so that they obey at that particular moment, without learning how to regulate themselves in the future.
Sometimes it's driven
by a
parent's desire to guide their
child's learning in the context
of their
own values.
The situation between these
children's
parents regarding their
own needs for satisfaction is simply not their burden to bear, and yet, if pursued, (
by removing them from their mother for many hours at a time, particularly overnight), the
children would be expected to lose their sense
of trust.
But with increasing dissatisfaction over the high - stakes testing currently consuming mainstream education; the growing recognition
of the many benefits a
child receives through experiences with art, movement, and nature; a concern over a reliance on technology
by younger and younger students; and the news that leaders in the high - tech industry are touting the lifelong benefits
of low - tech Waldorf schools in educating their
own children, more and more
parents and educators are taking a closer look at the Waldorf approach and what it has to offer.
By understanding a little more of what your child is learning as they move from kid to teen, and by questioning your own beliefs about what you expect, then this time in your parenting can be wonderfu
By understanding a little more
of what your
child is learning as they move from kid to teen, and
by questioning your own beliefs about what you expect, then this time in your parenting can be wonderfu
by questioning your
own beliefs about what you expect, then this time in your
parenting can be wonderful.
The public campaign invites concerned and interested
parents to get more information
by attending
parenting events, discussions, and conferences; offers group - based interventions for
parents with specific interests and concerns; and provides in - depth treatment for
parents who have
children with serious conduct problems or who have serious problems
of their
own.
The main goal
of discipline
by AP is for
children to learn the literal consequences
of bad decisions on their
own, as opposed to being slapped on the butt... The only consequence that teaches them is that the action angers / disappoints the
parent.
A new study
of parents of connected
children released today
by the Family Online Safety Institute (FOSI) found that
parents whose kids have their
own connected device or social media account are notably more optimistic about the benefits
of that technology than are those whose
children do not have them.
These benefits include but are not limited to the power
of the human touch and presence,
of being surrounded
by supportive people
of a family's
own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment
of home, feeling less inhibited in expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions
of comfort, being intimate with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired, expressing or practicing individual cultural, value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all
of which can lead to easier labors and births, not having to make a decision about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use
of the cascade
of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include
children (who are making their
own adjustments and are less challenged
by a lengthy absence
of their
parents and excessive interruptions
of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood
of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and birth experience.
This year her birthday fell on a school day, followed
by Girl Scouts which meant she was doing her
own thing all day and even forwent the annual tradition
of the Walk Around Sun at school — a Montessori thing stories and photos are shared
by the
parents which the
child walks around the sun one year for each year they have been on the planet.
Back during Adoption School, when being a mom was just a theoretical concept (
by the way, our agency was nothing like what's been described in this thread — it told us the benefits
of open adoption to the
child and said we would eventually form our
own relationships with first
parents, which it then left us to do), I did not embrace OA because the highly - paid social workers said it was proving to be better for the
child than shame and secrecy.
They say the short - term pain
of a few tears is far outweighed
by the long - term advantages: A
child who goes to sleep easily and happily on his
own, and
parents who can count on a good night's rest.
As
parents, many
of us have experienced getting our
own emotions triggered
by our
child's.
I got to be pretty good at brushing off the comments and ignoring the unwanted advice, but the more I looked into it, the more stories I heard about
parents of breastfed babies being hassled
by family members, strangers or even their
own doctors about the lack
of «adequate» weight gain, regardless
of the size
of the
parents or the health
of the
child.
In order to help the
child heal the split created
by the act
of adoption,
parents must — and CAN — resolve their
own fears to they can foster and honor openness whenever possible.
The first part
of this post was written
by guest contributor and
parenting coach, Dana Hirt, who consciously set out to protect her three young
children from the negative effects
of divorce and in doing so, had a «good» divorce which paved the way to her
own future happiness and the well - being
of her entire family.
Adoption is defined in the dictionary as «to take and rear (the
child of other
parents) as one's
own child, specifically
by a formal legal act.»
Drawing on stunning new findings in neurobiology and attachment research, they explain how interpersonal relationships directly impact the development
of the brain, and offer
parents a step -
by - step approach to forming a deeper understanding
of their
own life stories, which will help them raise compassionate and resilient
children.
Do your
own research
by talking to friends who have seen movies you are considering, and make good use
of the Internet: A handful
of sites offer reviews offer
parent - oriented reviews that detail what movies are about, what may be scary or disturbing to a
child, and other useful information.
Or it's possible that MILs, even if their
children are grown, still just feel the need to defend their
own parenting techniques
by convincing us
of their merits.
... «it is only when we fully accept ourselves and others, regardless
of mistakes, that we can have truly loving relationships»... «When a
child learns
by her
parents» example that it is appropriate to ignore a
child's cries, she will naturally treat her
own child the same way, unless there is some intervention from others.
These «storms» often disappear as
children become more confident and secure about being a separate person from their
parents and having their
own identity - usually
by the age
of four.
Parents can help
by being aware
of this push and pull and can help their
child feel better about forging ahead more on their
own by providing a comforting atmosphere at home where kids can feel secure in daily routines and reassurances
of love and understanding.
Don't allow yourself to be pressured to start solids
by the practices
of other
parents (or even your
own past practices with previous
children),
by the marketing schemes
of baby food manufacturers, or
by the often inaccurate «old wives tales» on baby nutrition.
Now imagine a
child, roughed up
by his
own bad choices or suffering at the hands
of her
own human weaknesses, hoping to find a safe harbor in a
parent's healing embrace, but instead being punished, spanked, or sent to isolation in a corner or in their room... leaving them all alone in a stormy sea
of human emotions when what they really need in that moment is to reconnect with us.
You are the expert here knowing as well as you do your infant's needs in relationship to your
own and your overall circumstances; and while you will be bombarded
by well intentioned professionals and friends or family
parents all telling you why you «must get that
child or baby out
of your bed or room»!
I learned that most
of us grew up in «dysfunctional» families and the way that we
parent our
children is influenced much more strongly
by what we subconsciously learned from our
own experiences in childhood, than
by what we now consciously learn from books.
Rather than advocating a vice-like grip on the umbilical cord
by projecting your
own unmet and unfulfilled needs
of childhood onto the
parenting experience, the end - goal
of attachment
parenting has always been growing and nurturing your
child to healthy, timely, age - appropriate independence.
By TAMMY WHITE Before I had
children of my
own, I was a foster
parent for five years.
Patricia identifies key concepts that every member
of the adoption triad can benefit from and helps
parents, birth families and counselors find their
own path to success
by focusing on what is best for the
child.