Loss of consortium may include present and future sexual disability, as well as the emotional
pain of divorce if your injuries caused the relationship to dissolve.
Not exact matches
But
if you must get
divorced, you can spare your family a lot
of pain by doing it through the collaborative
divorce process.
As is frequently the case,
if there isn't enough money to make it possible for the parties to reestablish something close to their marital standard
of living, then most judges will look for a way to make the
divorcing parties share the financial
pain equally.
The battle
of wills in even a moderately difficult
divorce, in which two adults struggle with the urges and needs
of a younger psyche — as
if the other person is more a parent than another vulnerable adult, when coupled with the fear attending almost every severing
of this intimate bond, will often lock people into a miasma
of pain and resentment, which simply can not be hidden from the children.
And sadly many people underestimate the level
of pain they will go through
if they decide to
divorce or separate — kids, assets, finance, extended family and friends — the story — gone.
Divorce seems to damage a family no matter the age
if the parents don't have a healthy plan to get it done without a lifetime
of hurt and
pain.
The latter might seem odd when you're facing the
pain and turmoil
of divorce, but you and your partner will communicate in the future, especially
if you have children, and mediation can give you a solid base now upon which to build better communication in the future.
If you have questions about how the collaborative process can help your family through the
pain of divorce, schedule a consultation with Family Diplomacy: A Collaborative Law Firm at (813) 443-0615 or CLICK HERE to schedule a meeting with Adam B. Cordover.
If your spouse truly is the kind
of person who would go out
of his / her way just to cause you
pain, your
divorce is probably going to be long and ugly.
Even in the most difficult and painful cases
of marital separation,
if the parents really want to spare their children the
pain of being caught in loyalty conflict, they will figure out a way to develop a mutual story
of the
divorce.
If, however, the parents are either not available for their children (E.g. because
of their own
pain from the
divorce), or too uncomfortably talking with their children, then the assistance
of a therapist can be very beneficial.
For many people, the experience
of separation — despite our knowledge
of the frequency
of divorce — is a
pain like no other, and it is natural to react defensively, especially
if one feels vulnerable or attacked.
Permission To Be a Kid: Children are not responsible for your
divorce (even
if you're fighting about them) nor should they be given the job
of healing your
pain.
If you have questions and need answers about your
divorce options, contact the Collaborative Family Law Group
of San Diego at 858-472-4022 to learn about your options for a healthy, respectful
divorce that preserves family relationships, especially with your children, and avoids the expense and
pain of a litigated
divorce by using the Collaborative Process.
If you are stuck in the
pain of divorce and the fear
of trusting again, reach out for help.