Unless both spouses kill assumptions and express what they're really feeling or thinking, the conflict will continue to be
a pain point in the relationship.
Not exact matches
Afterwards they are invited (everything is by invitation; there is no coercion at any
point) to tell their own abortion story, to connect the
pains of the past with the present; and
in the telling of these stories, damaged
relationships with God, with the unborn child, with family members and the Church are also addressed.
That's an overarching example of our conflict, but there were all sorts of specific sticking
points that brought us a lot of
pain and frustration
in the early phase of our
relationship.
I would like to
point out a couple of targets I reached since starting Vivica's program... and of course thank her for her dedication to help us and the passion she puts
in her job My blood pressure is getting back to normal and now my sleep is good again (I began not to sleep well because of high blood pressure... I think)-- I had some
pain in my knees and hips (nothing serious, but it bugged me from time to time) and I realized today that they do not hurt anymore — I also find that I'm less «bloated» (or, at least, I find that some garments are less tight, although I don't know if I lost weight or not... I had such a bad
relationship with the scale throughout my life that now I tend to stay away from it So Vivica, thanks so much for what you did up to now... and for all you will do
in the next weeks.
At some
point in your grieving process, you may feel the need to channel your
pain, as well as the time and energy once devoted to your
relationship with your loved one, into something productive and meaningful.
Arguments
in relationships become a cycle — when a specific
pain point or topic gets brought up, one partner gets defensive and the other pushes to get the
point across.
At some
point,
in most of our lives, we experience difficulty, turmoil, and / or
pain in some aspect (s) of our lives; emotionally, psychologically,
in relationships, or coping.