If we're honest, a lot of us are tempted to move through life like this at times, covering our eyes and ears to tough, awkward or
painful realities around us, hoping that we can buy ourselves a bit more time before we must confront them.
Not exact matches
The
reality is that every one of us has created some negative pattern in our lives, usually at an early age in life, where we discovered that when we experienced
painful feelings, usually
around violations of love (identity) and trust (safety), we found a way of coping that helped us survive.
Couple Spotlight: Meet Joan and Frank (and how an old song turned their marriage
around) To say that Joan and Frank were constantly arguing is an understatement — marital conflict and relationship problems had become the norm, and to adapt to this
painful reality, the couple simply started avoiding one another.