For some women, the physical and emotional
pain of breastfeeding is so not worth it.
«I feel like I have failed as a mom because I couldn't stand
the pain of breastfeeding any longer.
When you solve
the pain of breastfeeding, the milk production goes up and that's better for everybody.
It will help you ease into
the pain of breastfeeding.
Exclusive pumping is an alternative to the frustration and
pain of breastfeeding.
Not exact matches
If a woman couldn't
breastfeed because
of lack
of support or lack
of maternity leave or social pressure and used formula and made her peace with it and moved on, then hears about a campaign to provide others with what she did not have, I think there is some
pain (that she didn't have it) and anger (why should they get it when I didn't) that is a legitimate reaction that needs to be addressed before moving on.
And then they pay for it, in a high rate
of infection
of the incision, extended recovery and
pain in comparison to vaginal birth, risks
of injury to the baby, greater difficulty initiating
breastfeeding, and greater risks
of breathing problems in the babyâ $» and finally in a loss
of insurance coverage.
Another friend here was in really awful
pain with cracked nipples and everything and had a whole tin
of vegan formula in the house but did not use it and continues to
breastfeed her one year old to this day.
I think that lots and lots
of education beforehand on what
breastfeeding is - all the ins and outs - will better prepare women to know that even though natural, it's not always easy or
pain free or without it's trials - and That Is Okay.
* A baby who has reflux symptoms which include1: Your baby is bringing up a large amount
of milk after most feeds.She seems to be in
pain after
breastfeeds.
Wearing your bind encourages good posture and can help minimize low back
pain as your center
of gravity readjusts, and helps to reduce hunching over while caring for your baby or
breastfeeding.
I STILL will occasionally get the clogged duct, engorged
pain, or bleeding thanks to someone biting with his mouth full
of teeth, even though
breastfeeding has been a highly successful experience for us.
Of course, I couldn't hide the
pain so I told him how much I wished I could
breastfeed our sweet baby girl.
When Kaitlyn was four weeks old, I suddenly started having lots
of pain breastfeeding.
Most causes
of sore nipples can be treated and you will be able to
breastfeed,
pain free.
The risks to NOT doing skin to skin include: unstable temperatures in the baby (Walters et all., 2007; Fransson, Karlsson, & Nilsson, 2005; Bergman, Linley, & Fawcus, 2004), more maternal stress and less satisfaction with
breastfeeding (Anderson, 2004), less desire by the mother to hold her infant (Anderson 2004), less ability
of the baby to smell the natural scent
of mother's milk (Marlier & Schaal, 2005) and greater
pain for baby with more crying during painful procedures (Johnston, 2003).
Having a surgical birth can make
breastfeeding more difficult in many ways, since intravenous fluids, anesthetics,
pain - relieving medications and antibiotics are all routine parts
of a C - section.
After the laser treatment, and a good month
of my nipples healing, we are still exclusively
breastfeeding with NO
pain and my lovely son will be 10 months.
Understanding the relationship between
breastfeeding and postnatal depression: the role
of pain and physical difficulties.
A poor
breastfeeding latch is a common cause
of pain.
Anyway, the following tips can actually help in case
of sore nipple or
breastfeeding pain.
After $ 400 worth
of lactation visits, pediatric dentists, cranial sacral appts, etc, I was very depressed, in serious
pain and starting to actually dread
breastfeeding my baby.
Failing to succeed because
of a challenging birth scenario, maternal
pain, cracked nipples, ineffective suckling, poor latch or return to work would not equate an inability to achieve optimal
breastfeeding, although certainly it does seem that way sometimes (Abrour & Kessler, 2013).
Karabulut, R et al Ankyloglossia in
breastfeeding infants: the effect
of frenotomy on maternal nipple
pain and latch
Breastfeed Med 2006; 1 (4): 216 - 24.
This video's voice - over gives a step - by - step explanation
of the adjustments she made to
breastfeed pain - free.
If you are experiencing
pain while
breastfeeding, break your baby's latch by gently pressing your pinky finger in the corner
of his mouth.
I also had a lot
of pain and trouble
breastfeeding.
I can't even begin to count the number
of times I talked to DoulaK on the phone during that time, and she always had a recommendation for something I could try to ease my nipple
pain, or to encourage Peeper to latch, or just to help us to bond, in the absence
of an actual
breastfeeding relationship.
You can throw them in the freezer or microwave to ease
pain and discomfort that can come in the initial weeks
of breastfeeding.
If on a scale
of 1 to 10 your
breastfeeding experience is above a level 3 for
pain than you need to get help.
Tongue tie refers to an unusually tight or short lingual frenulum which inhibits normal function
of the tongue and can be a literal
pain for
breastfeeding parents, as well as possibly causing short - and long - term developmental issues such as problems with gaining weight appropriately, eating solids foods, impaired speech, and dental concerns.
This
pain doesn't typically last through the whole feed and usually decreases and disappears on its own over the first month or so
of breastfeeding.
I'm glad I was finally able to
breastfeed «
pain - free» with my second boy, but I'd hate to think
of anyone putting themselves through the nightmare
of breastfeeding that I imposed on myself the first time around.
When I see images
of women
breastfeeding, I still feel a tinge
of jealousy and
pain, but am also happy they are able to make it happen.
Would like to discuss feelings
of anxiety, emotional issues, concerns such as milk supply,
pain, baby medical concerns, will impact
breastfeeding.
Unless the gas is causing
pain, a
breastfeeding mom usually doesn't have to go to a lot
of trouble restricting what she is eating.
Even if we're exhausted, depressed, in constant
pain, our babies are losing weight, we resent our child, or
breastfeeding is causing emotional flashbacks to previous abuse... none
of that matters because our baby is getting breastmilk and we're avoiding evil disgusting formula.
Ok, I had a planned C - section, husband was the first person to feed the baby, attempted to
breastfeed about twice & then switched to formula, took dostinex to dry up breastmilk (nothing ever really came in so had no
pain or anything) and husband does at least one
of the night feeds each night.
There's prolonged, more intense
pain postpartum, a longer hospital stay, readmission to the hospital, an upsetting or emotionally traumatic birth experience, less early contact and connection with the baby, depression and mental health problems, low self - esteem, relationship issues, difficulty functioning and doing usual daily activities postpartum, chronic pelvic
pain from scar tissue, problems with and discontinuing
breastfeeding - along with the associated risks to mom and baby
of not
breastfeeding.
So simply put, if a baby does not need nourishment, hydration, comfort,
pain relief, extra nourishment for fighting an illness, or is not in need
of some entertainment due to boredom or anxiety... then they simply will not
breastfeed!
If the baby is not getting enough to eat and the mom is having intrusive thoughts
of cutting off her breasts with a kitchen knife because it would stop the
pain of raw, mangled nipples (yet the LC says baby has a great latch so just keep putting baby to breast and it will get better) is
breastfeeding still the healthiest choice?
Four months
of dreading the sound
of my son's cry as he woke for the next feed, four months
of not wanting him anywhere near me unless he was feeding... It came good after that and I still believe
breastfeeding can be great, but in my experience not worth the guilt and
pain of those early months.
Some studies suggest that certain foods might cause a
breastfed baby to suffer from intestinal upset, causing the
pain and discomfort
of colic.
No offence, but you kind
of sound like every midwife, lactation counsellor and
breastfeeding advocate who tried to help me when I had so much
pain breastfeeding my son.
It seems to me that even if only 1 - 2 %
of women legitimately can not
breastfeed, not to mention many more with low supply,
pain, infection, prohibitive work responsibilities etc., there are a significant number
of us who are being emotionally attacked by «lactivism.»
Causes
of nipple
pain while
breastfeeding and why it does not matter what someone thinks
of the latch...
Once to the other side, that investment
of time, nipple
pain, breast discomfort, and awkward learning all comes together into a good
breastfeeding relationship.
Most lactation consultants address many different nursing topics, including education for a new
breastfeeding mom, to infants who are having challenges with nursing due to a variety
of issues (including tongue tie), weight gain issues, or even
pain for Mom while
breastfeeding.
I had far, far, far, FAR more
pain and problems with engorgement and oversupply with the baby I did
breastfeed — I am talking months
of problems — than with the baby I pumped milk for.
The hormones from
breastfeeding helped me deal with the
pain (I had painkillers the day
of the surgery and the morning after and when the complications hit)(friends who have had the same surgery were stuck with painkillers for a week or more).