A presumption in favour of the custodial
parent sees the relationship between the child and its parents as static.
Not exact matches
Children who
see a certain amount of honest argument
between their
parents, followed by friendly relations within a short time, are learning that anger is not necessarily destructive to a
relationship but can be a positive force.
Again and again, among the families I treat as a psychologist, I
see a disconnect
between the skill set that
parents are pushing (compete like crazy, get good grades, over-prep for tests, go to a prestigious college, make lots of money) and the assets and attitudes that actually bring young people success in college, at work, in
relationships, and in life.
Divorce also can strain
parent - child
relationships, lead to lost contact with one
parent, create economic hardships, and increase conflict
between parents (including legal conflicts — for a way to avoid these
see Emery's Divorce Mediation Study).
But our culture does have its leftovers from previous generations» perspectives on
relationship, and those leftovers are most often
seen — not in the news of mass killings that we are increasingly
seeing — but more in our homes, behind closed doors, when conflict arises
between couples and
between parents and children.
Pam offered her «Healing the Feeling Child» at our center where staff and
parents both learned tools that I
saw directly impact the ease of the drop - off transition and gave a common understanding that provides consistency
between home and child care, therefore strengthening the
parent / caregiver / child (family)
relationship.
A lot has been said about the central romantic
relationship between Elio (Timothée Chalamet) and Oliver (Armie Hammer) but how refreshing it is also to
see a genuine, loving
relationship between a teenage boy and his
parents that isn't tainted by a generic moodiness.
The
Parent Trap captures all the best things about the
relationship between a mother and daughter, no matter how much time may go by without them
seeing one another.
I
saw films with stories about finding happiness even with cancer (Me and Earl and the Dying Girl), the struggles of addiction (I Smile Back), transgender women in Los Angeles (Tangerine), post-apocalyptic love triangles (Z for Zachariah), a teenage girl's sexual awakening (The Diary of a Teenage Girl),
relationships between interviewer and interviewee (End of the Tour, True Story), washed up Olympians (The Bronze), two kids who go for a joy ride (Cop Car), psychological studies (The Stanford Prison Experiment), lesbian lovers coming - of - age (The Summer of Sangaile), being a single
parent (People, Places, Things), and geeky kids learning how to grow up (Dope).
If we divide the period into three spans of about 10 years (1968 — 78, 1979 — 88, and 1989 — 99), we find that the estimated
relationship between the single -
parent family structure variable and educational attainment more than tripled in size, from -0.11 for the earliest cohorts to -0.43 in the latest cohorts (
see Figure 3).
Graves said she could
see a big difference
between the
relationships with
parents and teachers.
Now that you've
seen the power of a strong working
relationship between educators and
parents or caregivers, where do you begin, if you want to build or enhance it in your school?
However, the
relationship between proficiency rates and school ratings is more than twice as strong for
parents of school - age children than for other respondents (
see Figure 2).
Some readers
saw it as a novel told in stories; though Crummey originally had no intention of writing an entire book set in Black Rock, the collection became a patchwork quilt held together by place and the vocation of its characters, and bound by the author's preoccupations: complex
relationships between siblings and
parents, and love, «that impractical, infuriating, enduring thing that makes a family so impractical, infuriating and enduring».
I recently
saw a thread on the Adoption UK forum about the
relationship between an adoptive
parent and a head - teacher which had broken down.
The best
relationships I've
seen between adoptive
parents and adopted kids seems to be when the adoptive
parents had nothing at all to do with the
parents decision to relinquish or with their loss of rights over their child.
«One of the factors in custody decisions is the ability to facilitate a close
relationship between a child and his or her other
parent, a scathing post on Cheaterville may be
seen by a judge as antithetical to a child's best interest.»
When children
see positive communication
between their
parents or carers and staff, they begin to learn it is important to build healthy
relationships.
As such alienating
parents see no wrong in destroying a previously loving
relationship between their child (ren) and the targeted
parent.
It's not the separation itself that can cause harm to your children, it's the level of
relationship conflict that they
see or hear
between parents.
I have
seen both Fathers and Mothers the victims of attacks, and targeting for alienation, by the disordered
parent that seeks to damage the
relationship between the
parent and the child (ren).
The lack of an effect of mother's age for this more restricted sample of families with both biological
parents contrasts with the simple association found
between mother's age and risk of poor father - child
relationship for the larger sample of couple families (
see section 4.4).
Considering the
relationship between parental anxiety and
parenting, research has focused on how parental anxiety is associated with more overcontrolling
parenting of the child (
see the reviews of Bögels and Brechman - Toussaint 2006; Kaitz and Maytal 2005; Murray et al. 2009).
Divorce also can strain
parent - child
relationships, lead to lost contact with one
parent, create economic hardships, and increase conflict
between parents (including legal conflicts — for a way to avoid these
see Emery's Divorce Mediation Study).
Thus far, our investigation of factors influencing children's activities or the
parent - child
relationship has not taken account of the interrelationships
between socio - economic status,
parenting support,
parent attitudes and organisation (
see section 6.4.3).
However, the prohibition's purpose is to protect the
relationship between the child and non-custodial
parent by ensuring the non-custodial
parent does not suddenly become unable to
see his child.
The studies identify that teens who
see aggressive scenes
between parents were more likely to perceive the violence as something justifiable in a loving
relationship, a belief that predicts the perpetration of aggression against partners (Clarey, Hokoda, & Ulloa, 2010; Rey - Anacona, 2011; Temple, Shorey, Fite, Stuart, & Le, 2013).
In describing DV as «a dynamic
between parents» (p. 8), and making statements such as when «
parents are entangled in an abusive
relationship» (p. 12), «when there is violence at home» (p. 8), and «violence or abuse in the
parents»
relationship» (p. 9), rather than discussing abusers who batter their partners, most mental health professionals doing custody evaluations, mediation or otherwise involved in custody disputes, who have been schooled in the family systems dynamic, will continue to
see the problem as involving the dysfunction of both
parents.
As in many cases that this writer has
seen where he picks up a file from another lawyer or from a self represented litigant, the judge laments that she had «very little information upon which to assess the quality of the
relationships between these children and their
parents».
Future research could distinguish
between stable and non-stable friends in order to
see whether adolescents with stable and non-stable friendships differ regarding linkages
between parent — child
relationships and friendships.
The
relationship between the Great Delay and the housing market is most clearly
seen in the record number living with their
parents and the decline in homeownership rates among Milennials.