Over the past year or so, I've been helping parents with yelling and
parental anger through Mama's Village and Mama's Anger Management.
Not exact matches
«Dr. Corgiat... recommended counseling for both parents regarding appropriate parent - child boundaries, finding that «[t] he
parental alienation that has evolved
through mismanagement of their
anger towards one another has already affected the children.
Whereas fearless temperament can impair conscience development
through insufficient engagement with important socialization cues (i.e., reduced face preference during early development; see Bedford et al., 2015), high emotional reactivity / dysregulation might make children overwhelmed in negatively charged situations, thus more prone to miss such cues in those particular contexts where they tend to be elicited (e.g.,
parental anger, peer distress; see Hoffman, 1982; Young et al., 1999; Frick and Morris, 2004).
Reduce
parental conflict
through anger management, communication and conflict resolutions skills.
As the child adopts the role as the «regulatory other» for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's pathology in order to avoid the emotional collapse of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent into chaotic and unpredictable displays of intense
parental anxiety, sadness, or
anger it becomes relatively easy for the narcissistic / (borderline) parent to then communicate to the child
through clear but subtle «emotional signals» and «relational moves» that the parent's emotional regulation is dependent on the child adopting the «victimized child» role in the narcissistic / (borderline) parent's trauma reenactment narrative.
When young people experience stress, confusion, chaos, depression, anxiety, trauma,
parental discord, bullying and loss, they show their
anger, fear and sadness
through mood and behavior changes.