A family lawyer can employ their extensive legal knowledge in this area of law to present your strong
parental bond with the child as a highly compelling factor to gaining custody or greater access.
The ineluctable implication of that finding is the subsidiary finding that her separation from the children for ten months while she was in Russia, the damage to
her parental bond with the children during that time,... the need thereafter to reintroduce herself to the children as their mother through supervised therapeutic visitations, and the restrictions on her access to the children because of her husband's claims that she has untreated mental problems and would flee with them to Russia have all resulted from efforts by the father to alienate the children from their mother on a groundless basis.»
Not exact matches
When dealing
with parental loss, one logical connection
with psychoanalytic theory is that disruption of parent -
child bonds or dysfunctional relationships would lead to future impairments in the individual's capacity to develop relationships (Furukawa, Yokouchhi, Hirai, Kitamura, & Takahashi, 1999).
No other issue facing us today is so critical as this work of hers, on re-establishing
parental bonding with our infants and
children as nature intended.
Furthermore, a lack of adequate
parental leave policies, low wages and demanding workplaces make it all the more difficult for them to have the time needed to fully engage,
bond, and connect
with their
children.
Research from the University of Minnesota has shown that
children age 2 and up who lack secure attachments to their mothers have higher rushes of cortisol during even mildly stressful events, such as getting a vaccination shot, than do youngsters
with strong
parental bonds.
We have repeatedly warned that, since
children are priceless,
bonds are never «painful» enough to overcome the decision that
parental abductors often make that — at any and all cost — their
child should be away from the other parent and
with their family in their country of origin.
This is notwithstanding that numerous Canadian courts have held that pregnancy and
parental benefits serve different purposes: pregnancy benefits provide income while a woman is away from work due to pregnancy or recuperation from childbirth;
parental benefits provide income while parents are away from work in order to care for and
bond with their
child.
The purpose of
parental leave (and a
parental leave top up), on the other hand, is to provide income to parents while they are caring for, and
bonding with, their
child during its critical first year of life.
Kahn, T. J. & Chambers, H.J. (1991) Assessing reoffense risk
with juvenile sexual offenders,
Child Welfare, LXX (3), pp. 333 - 345 Kobayashi, J. Sales, B. D., Becker, J. V. Figueredo, A. J. & Kaplan, M. S. (1995) perceived parental deviance, parent child - bonding, child - abuse, and child sexual aggression, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 7 (1), pp. 25 - 43 Rasmussen, L. A. (1999) Factors related to recidivism among juvenile sexual offenders, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 11, pp. 69
Child Welfare, LXX (3), pp. 333 - 345 Kobayashi, J. Sales, B. D., Becker, J. V. Figueredo, A. J. & Kaplan, M. S. (1995) perceived
parental deviance, parent
child - bonding, child - abuse, and child sexual aggression, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 7 (1), pp. 25 - 43 Rasmussen, L. A. (1999) Factors related to recidivism among juvenile sexual offenders, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 11, pp. 69
child -
bonding,
child - abuse, and child sexual aggression, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 7 (1), pp. 25 - 43 Rasmussen, L. A. (1999) Factors related to recidivism among juvenile sexual offenders, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 11, pp. 69
child - abuse, and
child sexual aggression, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 7 (1), pp. 25 - 43 Rasmussen, L. A. (1999) Factors related to recidivism among juvenile sexual offenders, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 11, pp. 69
child sexual aggression, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 7 (1), pp. 25 - 43 Rasmussen, L. A. (1999) Factors related to recidivism among juvenile sexual offenders, Sexual Abuse: A Journal of Research and Treatment, 11, pp. 69 - 85
For example, adults who experience
parental divorce as a
child have lower socioeconomic attainment, an increased risk of having a nonmarital birth, weaker
bonds with parents, lower psychological well - being, poorer marital quality, and an elevated risk of seeing their own marriage end in divorce.7 Overall, the evidence is consistent that
parental divorce during childhood is linked
with a wide range of problems in adulthood.
In approving
parental agreements, courts always consider the best interests of the
child, the
child's
bonds with each parent and the
child's special needs.
cfm & ContentID = 1252 and of late, along
with Mark Otis, was mentioned as a supporter by Richard Warshak («I appreciate the helpful comments from Mark Otis, Andrew Schepard, and John Zervopoulos on an earlier draft») in connection
with his anti-ALI time allocation article — Richard A. Warshak (2007) PUNCHING THE PARENTING TIME CLOCK: THE APPROXIMATION RULE, SOCIAL SCIENCE, AND THE BASEBALL BAT KIDS * Family Court Review 45 (4), 600 - 619, available at http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1744-1617.2007.00174.x (Warshak is a Gardnerian derivative
parental alienation theorist, author of Divorce Poison: Protecting the Parent -
Child Bond from a Vindictive Ex.)
When dealing
with parental loss, one logical connection
with psychoanalytic theory is that disruption of parent -
child bonds or dysfunctional relationships would lead to future impairments in the individual's capacity to develop relationships (Furukawa, Yokouchhi, Hirai, Kitamura, & Takahashi, 1999).
Advice: In a context where
parental conflicts are all - pervading, it is certainly difficult to maintain strong
bonds with children while they are torn between their two parents, even as their greatest desire is to be
with both and please them equally.
The essential features of the
child's psychological experience surrounding
parental alienation that are key to the
child's therapy and a restoration of the
child's affectional
bond with the currently targeted - rejected parent
However, while the
child is in the
parental care of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent, the
child is in a psychological hostage situation and does not have permission from the hostage taker to form an affectionally
bonded relationship
with the beloved but rejected targeted parent, and the
child is instead required by the hostage taker to actively reject the beloved other parent (see «The Hostage Metaphor» article on my website; http://www.cachildress.org).
«Neural pruning leaves a
child exposed to the impact of
parental lobbying / programming, since the new brain structures, and associated memories of recent interactions, may be laid down in an environment that is not conducive to maintaining historical
bonded relationships
with both parents.
When the three diagnostic indicators of attachment - based «
parental alienation» (i.e., of a cross-generational coalition of the
child with a narcissistic / (borderline) parent involving the role - reversal use of the
child as a regulatory object for the parent's emotional and psychological state) are present, if the psychologist does not make an accurate diagnosis of the pathology then the «reasonably foreseeable consequences» would be the
child's loss of a developmentally healthy and
bonded relationship
with a normal - range and affectionally available parent, and the developmental pathology imposed on the
child by the pathogenic parenting of the narcissistic / borderline parent.
Parental alienation syndrome steals the
bond and security that the
child once experienced
with the parent being alienated.
By offering the parent a more detailed picture of his
parental limitations and capacities, it should be easier for the worker representing the
child protection legislation to promote a
bond of trust
with the parent.
Certainly not all
children who go into day care will end up
with weak
parental bonds, aggressive tendencies, academic problems, personal insecurities, difficulties in peer relations, or other evidence of emotional or cognitive damage.
Parents of
children with ASD reported significantly more parenting stress symptoms (i.e., negative
parental self - views, lower satisfaction
with parent —
child bond, and experiences of difficult
child behaviors), more depression symptoms, and more frequent use of Active Avoidance coping, than parents of typically developing
children.