Furthermore, across cultures, authoritarian (cold and firm)
parenting by a stepparent proves extremely toxic to stepparent - stepchild relationships (Papernow, 2013).
Not exact matches
But when you're a
stepparent, those obstacles are compounded
by the fact that you are not the birth
parent — this can open up power struggles within the family, whether it's from the kids, your partner's ex, or even your partner.
Stepparenting the Grieving Child: Cultivating Past and Present Connections with Children Who Have Lost a
Parent Written
by Diane Ingram Fromme; Edited
by Donna Mazzitelli Merry Dissonance Press Gold — Adult Books:
Parenting — Contemporary Families
If you are a
stepparent, the only right you have to make decisions for or take care of the child is
by an extension of the lawful
parent's right to do so.
Submit an Affidavit of Liability and Guardianship (DR 2460) signed
by a
parent or
stepparent and verified
by either a drivers license employee or a Notary Public.
These policies must be supplemented
by others that improve economic well - being, strengthen
parent - child bonds, and ease the stress experienced
by children in single -
parent and
stepparent households.
This does not include frequent and regular childminding
by stepparents, grandparents, or other third party relatives while a
parent works, both of which should take less precedence than direct care
by a child's
parent.
But the road to family harmony can be smoother, they say, if couples abide
by general rules, like acknowledging feelings of loss, abandonment and anger; avoiding bad - mouthing the other
parent or
stepparent; and not expecting too much too soon.
The real wounds come when a child feels rejected
by one
parent, forced to choose between
parents, or when a
stepparent introduces negativy toward the child.
While this puts an added burden on the birth
parent, the
stepparent can ease that burden
by responding honestly and openly about what he / she needs.
In case of refusal
by the other birth
parent to give consent, or if the other
parent is nowhere to be found, there are still ways to carry on with the
stepparent adoption.
Designed both for
parents and
stepparents, Active
Parenting for Stepfamilies is a great resource for foster
parents, adoptive
parents, single
parents and others affected
by loss and change.
By contrast, among married adults who have step siblings or
stepparents — many of whom presumably had divorced
parents — more than six - in - ten say their marriage is closer than their
parents» marriage was, while roughly 30 % say it's about the same.
Children may also be placing pressure on themselves to remain «loyal» to their
parent over their
stepparent, but you and your partner can lessen that pressure
by reinforcing through discussion and action that you will never make them choose between the two.
«The stronger association between adolescent outcomes and ties to nonresident mothers compared with ties to stepmothers stands in contrast to the results reported in prior research on resident mother families where close ties to resident stepfathers are more strongly associated with positive adolescent outcomes than ties to nonresident biological fathers (King, 2006; White & Gilbreth, 2001), suggesting important differences in the role of nonresident
parents and
stepparents by gender....
«Exploring the Stepgap: How
Parents» Ways of Coping with Daily Family Stressors Impact
Stepparent - Stepchild Relationship Zuality in Stepfamilies,»
by Melady Preece.
Fact: «Although children living with married rather than cohabiting
parents fare better in terms of material well - being, this advantage is accounted for
by race and ethnic group and
parents» education... the initial marriage advantage for children living with two biological
parents (cohabiting two biologicals vs. married two biological) and
stepparents (cohabiting
stepparents vs. married
stepparents) are explained
by the covariates included in the models.
By planning ahead, partners create opportunities to support each other in
parenting and
stepparenting.