Provide information to students and
parents about college options, required courses and financial aid
Greg, the high school senior main character, is speaking with
his parents about college admissions.
recently, i was talking with
another parent about college.
Not exact matches
Our idea was that some
parents might buy it for kids who were
about to graduate from
college and begin pursuing a job in software.
Some of his subjects were worried
about sharing things like
parent's affections or money for
college.
Strike up a conversation
about his or her hobbies, siblings /
parents, hometown, sports,
college, etc..
Students shouldn't borrow more in loans than they'll make in their first year of employment, said Jeff Selingo, author of «There Is Life After
College: What
Parents and Students Should Know
About Navigating School to Prepare for the Jobs of Tomorrow.»
Yet, nearly one - third of
parents haven't even thought
about college for their kids yet.
Let's face it, your
parents didn't teach you how to get rich and the schools and
colleges don't even talk
about it.
When you're a
parent shipping a kid off to
college, it's hard not to worry
about every possible financial mishap, like is that money meant for textbooks paying for a music festival ticket?
Stories continue to churn through the media
about young
college graduates, unable to find work, being forced to live at home with their
parents.
The figure below was in the WSJ this AM, in an interesting piece
about how, given the rising costs of
college relative to incomes, some kids and their
parents are taking a closer look at alternatives like technical / vocational programs.
In «Clark Smart
Parents, Clark Smart Kids,» he addresses everything from allowances — when and how much to give — to teaching teens
about credit cards and navigating the purchase of a first car — how to get it, pay for it, and insure it — to saving for
college, paying off loans, staying out of debt, and much more!
About 53 percent of
parents are actively saving for their child's
college fund.
If you're organized, knowledgeable
about the higher education process, and enjoy working with adolescents and their
parents, consider starting a side business as an independent
college application consultant to help more smart, ambitious, and qualified kids get into the schools of their dreams.
Buy a 10 pack: Robert Johnson, president and CEO of the American
College of Financial Services in the Philadelphia area, suggests
parents give kids a portfolio of
about ten stocks.
Ginger Ewing, a financial adviser with Ameriprise Financial, says new
parents often ask her
about saving for
college but she urges them to think
about more pressing needs like day care first.
Though we won't all be the next Michael Dell, I think he makes an important point
about convincing your
parents that it's okay for you to drop out of
college.
Also,
parents may consider a prepaid card for their teenage or
college - age children to teach them budgeting and money management without worrying
about overcharging a credit card or incurring overdraft fees or minimum balance fees charged by many checking accounts.
In
college, I was an English major, wasting my
parent's tuition money learning how to read, and then learning how to say worthless things
about what I'd read.
In her book How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott - Haims, a dean at Stanford University, tells horror stories
about parents who speak for, plan for, and advocate for their
college - aged children, afraid to let go lest their precious charges....
Into such a world has come in recent years a proliferation of
college guides» aiming to tell would - be students and their
parents what they need to know
about the choices before them.
A
college chaplain told Campbell that she rarely gets calls from
parents upset
about how their children are doing in school, either academically or socially.
My gay child has a strong father, a two
parent household, a upper middle class income, both
college graduates, went to church, had a supportive family life, engaged in sports, school activities and I think someone needs to teach you
about what the real Jesus would have done.
A visit to a small New England
college campus offers a snapshot of the novice daily fantasy football player, and illustrates the reasons administrators and
parents are concerned
about students playing DFS
With the skyrocketing cost of education, many kids listen to
parents discussing the stress they feel
about college tuition and then take on that stress themselves.
Avoid the word «just» when talking with other
parents about our kids or their peers: «She is just applying to the state schools,» «he is just going to community
college,» «they are just working for right now.»
With
colleges now opening for the fall term there's no better time for
parents and
college - bound children to talk
about the role the
parent currently plays in the life of the child, and how that role will evolve so the child can build the skills she'll need to thrive out in the world of adult life, relationships and work.
When you start to feel besieged with worry or fear
about how this is going to play out, or
about how disappointed you and / or your senior may be if s / he does not get into the
college of his / her dreams, or
about how tiresome it will be to listen to your fellow
parents smugly brag
about their senior's
college plans, ask yourself the following questions:
Think
about all the
college bumper stickers you see on
parents» cars.
Even after graduating from Rudolf Steiner
College and working as Director of Community Development at the Princeton Waldorf school, she received inquiries from other schools
about The
Parent Handbook.
We're not talking
about examples of helicopter
parenting run amok such as
parents of
college - age kids calling professors to argue
about grades; but not supervising 9 - year - olds at all to the point that
parents don't know who their friends are or what they are doing is not only opening a child up to potential risks and bad choices, but making them stressed as well.
My son is now in
college, so you can read
about how my son developed over time and what it was like for me as a
parent of a gifted child.
What
Parents Need to Know: We may expect to hear more from
colleges about exactly how they use endowment funds to specifically help students.
In the end, it all comes back to education: In the ideal world, a
parent's decision
about whether to allow a child to start playing or continue playing collision sports before high school under current rules of play (which are evolving in the direction of safety, fortunately, as seen, for instance, in USA Hockey's ban on body checking at the Pee Wee hockey level and below, and limits on full - contact practices instituted at every level of football, from Pop Warner, to high school,
college, and the NFL), will be a conscious one; a decision in which the risks of participating in a particular sport - provided it is based on the most up - to - date information
about those risks and a consideration of other risk factors that might come into play for their child, such as pre-existing learning disabilities (e.g. ADHD), chronic health conditions (e.g., a history of history of multiple concussions or seizures, history of migraines), or a reckless and overly aggressive style of play - are balanced against the benefits to the child of participating.
The Conveyor Belt starts with Baby
College, a nine - week program that provides expecting
parents and
parents of young children with new information
about effective
parenting strategies.
(I had a piece on This American Life this weekend
about Baby
College and the complicated process of trying to sway Harlem's
parents toward different methods.)
Moms share their worries
about money, their biggest
parenting expenses, and their thoughts on saving for
college.
Adult children of divorce tend to have: lower paying jobs and less
college than their
parents; unstable father - child relationships; a history of vulnerability to drugs and alcohol in adolescence; fears
about commitment and divorce; and negative memories of the legal system that forced custody and visitation.
Alfred Sacchetti, an emergency room doctor in Camden, New Jersey, and spokesman for the American
College of Emergency Physicians, says it's common for
parents to worry more
about their child being abducted by a stranger than
about his riding in a car without a seat belt or playing near an ungated swimming pool — even though car - and water - related accidents pose a far greater threat to kids than abduction.
Parents must be honest and realistic with their kids during the application process
about how much they will spend on
college... MORE
Parents need to encourage their high school seniors to investigate all options, including in - state schools which will cost a fraction of a private
college which can save significantly on the cost of a bachelor's degree.
Pope thinks that the haste to assign homework grows out of misconceptions —
parents thinking that lots of homework makes their children more prepared to apply for
college, teachers thinking a lot of homework indicates they're serious
about their courses.
Even though many of these young people expressed longing
about their
parents» divorce, these were resilient, well functioning
college students.
I spoke with several of their
parents, many of whom told me
about their own first holidays home from
college, unconsciously assuming the perspective of the child.
In my first book, Whatever it Takes, I wrote a lot
about Baby
College, a nine - week
parenting program that the Harlem Children's Zone has been running for more than a decade.
The U.Fund Dreams Tour offers a relaxed opportunity for
parents to get information
about saving for
college while kids can play interactive games and mug in a photo booth.
29 percent of children aged 13 - 17 report that they worry
about getting into a good
college and deciding what to do after high school, while only 5 percent of
parents of 13 - 17 year - olds believe this is a source of stress for their child.
Susan Cain's Quiet Revolution: «Class Participation: Let's Talk
About It» American Camp Association magazine, «While Goodbye is Never Enough for Me, It's Perfect for Him» Room for Debate at the New York Times, «Autonomy Works Best for the Classroom» Your Teen: On
parenting through
college admissions: «It's Their Journey, Not Yours» Your Teen: Review of the book Wonder, written with Ben Lahey Your Teen: Review of the book Echo, written with Finn Lahey
We invite you to come learn more
about: costly mistakes
parents make; amount you need to save for
college; pros and cons for different education savings plans; applying for scholarships, grants, and student loans; and more!
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