Sentences with phrase «parents accept both feelings»

On the other hand, some parents accept both feelings and actions, not correcting either one.

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The parent accepts him, and the child feels a wonderful euphoria.

I try so hard to accept everyone and feel everyone deserves a good life... but then don't try to change MY LIFE and the life my parents, grandparents, great - grandparents, and so on... were so proud of... went to war for... lived for... you want ur beliefs?

Etiologically speaking, the parent who does not feel accepted, by himself and others, is unable to give his child the warm, vital experience of being accepted.

Correcting behavior without condemning feeling, listening to and accepting fears and worries without taking charge in an overprotective way, allowing free rein to the developing need for freedom while at the same time holding fast to the limits appropriate to his age — these are the continuing bases of parent - child intimacy.

Can the parents say «No» when the child runs into the street, and prevent him from doing it, while at the same time accepting his feeling of anger and frustration at being thus limited.

Usually such parents have not been able to admit to or accept strong negative feelings in themselves, and thus project onto the child their own feelings of badness.

Tears of pain and joy openly and unashamedly accepted from time to time, in parents as well as in children, teach a child the value of deep feeling in experiencing life to its fullest.

This does not suggest that parents accept any action the child chooses for expression of his feelings.

If, during the toddler and young - child stage, parents are sensitive and accepting enough to help the child to understand how he feels, and to put their understanding into words and actions, they and the child are well prepared for the next stage of parent - child intimacy.

There is NO greater feeling of loss than realizing you accepted the bulls ** t your parents, priests and society told you.

Parent's feelings need to be accepted and their emotional needs and desires also need to be fulfilled.

Research shows that when parents regulate their own emotions and accept their child's emotions, the child learns to manage his or her feelings and behavior earlier than other kids.

With Lucas I feel more confident in my parenting and accept the fact that people may judge me but I don't care because I now know that I am doing what is right for my child and for my family instead of trying to pressure him to fit.

«If parents don't accept the hurt their child is feeling, they can't help their child overcome it.»

Other parents feel upset, disappointed, or unable to accept their teen's sexual orientation at first.

Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy principally involves PLACE - creating a Playful, Loving, Accepting, Curious, and Empathic environment in which the therapist and parent attune to the child's «subjective experiences» (feelings, and thoughts) and help the child make sense of them by reflecting back and validating those experiences to the child by means of eye contact, facial expressions, gestures and movements, tone of voice, timing and touch.

had never considered weaning at 16 months, or even cutting back on nursing, with my others, it felt as if I was going to have to «force» T - Bird into accepting less than she needed and less then my parenting principles supported.

Kids who co-sleep, according to Healthy Child, feel more accepted by their parents.

And way harder to just enjoy them and accept their uniqueness and to feel empathy toward them and compassion for their strong emotions, including anger or sadness, and to see them in a positive way and to just enjoy being a parent.

So while there's clearly room for improvement in Greene, it feels unfair to compare it to a county which places an unusually high value on exceptional school food, has a student population better conditioned to accept such food, and has affluent parents who can pay the higher price tag that comes with it.

Tyler thrives when he feels loved and accepted, and is given space to process his emotions by those parenting him and their extended family.

And so it is that MANY a loving, self-less parent (yours truly included) resigns themselves to doing the only thing they feel there is left to do — they accept the sleep deprivation: the effects sleepless days and nights are having on them, their other children, their patience, their sanity, their ability to focus, work, love and play.

Christine Carter, Ph.D. in an article for Raising Happiness, explains that mindful parenting can be as simple as this: first, notice what is happening (and what you're feeling and thinking) and second, accept what is going on without judgment.

Every child wants, needs and deserves to feel accepted, liked, loved, valued and appreciated by parents, family, friends, caregivers, teachers, classmates and community.

It is about finding a psychological identity that is separate from parents — that they have a role in the family or at school, they know what that treasured and valued role is, and that they do feel accepted and loved but also a bit «separate», a bit ready to take a view on something... there is a shift toward the child having real opinions about the world, that may be different than the parent's view, and that in this view that the child has a continuous self and therefore can participate in learning.

As we have already noted, permissive parenting shares the positive aspects of authoritative parenting: identifying and accepting the child's emotions, being nurturing and showing your love through words and actions, making the child feel comfortable in their own skin.

And just say exactly that to those people, «This is what I feel works for us, I understand your point of view but I would appreciate if you would accept that my way of parenting is different than yours».

Studies of American adolescents have reported that teens with authoritarian parents were the least likely to feel socially accepted by their peers.

Attachment research shows that when parents are able to accept the full range of their child's feelings, the child becomes better able to manage his emotions and soothe himself.

In an important series of studies by psychologist John Gottman and his colleagues, children of parents who valued and accepted their children's feelings showed better academic achievement, had lower levels of stress hormones, and were more successful in resolving conflicts with their peers.

Children who feel like they're loved and valued by their parents will be more willing to accept correction and limits.

And I don't feel that night - waking even for a period of years is in any way unhealthy or psychologically damaging, as long as the parents accept that it's normal and have found a way to manage.

Children that are able to accept the new person in their parent's life will typically feel conflicted between the love and loyalty for the other parent and this new person in the other parent's life.

Sadly, this makes marriages difficult because stepchildren frequently feel guilty about accepting the stepparent as if they are not being loyal to their biological parent.

Parents need to accept the feelings of jealousy, resentment or anger that a sibling might have, while setting limits on hurtful actions.

• When the parents» rules are broken and the child feels guilt and shame, the feeling of guilt can be removed by confession and accepting the consequences bravely.

In the beginning, my parents struggled to accept my diagnosis; they didn't want me to suffer, and putting a name to my symptoms probably felt scary to them.

It's also only been in the past half - century that household items have become so cheap and easy to come by that younger generations do not feel the need to accept and cherish items from parents.

I also recognise her perspective and feelings about my parenting decision and accept the feelings and even the fight that she is putting up against my limit.

Responding to your child in a way that makes him feel safe and secure, assuring him that he is accepted and loved unconditionally, and learning how to maintain healthy, open communication should form the foundation of your parenting techniques.

I absolutely DO think the feelings behind hitting another child are «perfectly» valid and need to be accepted by the parent or caregiver.

Studies of American adolescents have reported that teens with authoritarian parents were the least likely to feel socially accepted by their peers.

Even though homosexuality is widely accepted as a normal expression of sexuality for some people, parents may worry that their children will be unhappy or may feel uncomfortable about it themselves.

Parents of children on the autism spectrum often balk at breaking the news of a diagnosis to their son or daughter; after all, while they know that they will always love and accept their autistic child because of, and not in spite of, who he (or she) is, there's no way to be sure that the child will feel the same way.

In weekly parent - child play groups, the parents were taught to be accepting, reflect their children's feelings and set limits, Giesler said.

It is also potentially dangerous, since the impaired parent may not disclose his or her impairment, but feel under a compulsion to accept the offered right of first refusal in order to protect his or her ongoing right by taking the child even when the parent is impaired and should not do so.]

In our quest to raise emotionally intelligent children, positive parents understand the importance of accepting a child's feelings.

According to Pam Leo, author of Connection Parenting: Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion, Through Love Instead of Fear the secret is to simply acknowledge and accept the feelings — as soon as they appear.

In this way the spirit of unconditional parenting is about encouraging our children to work their way into their natural character rather than trying to change who they are in order to feel accepted, appreciated and admired.