When we were children, our own
parents acted in ways we didn't understand.
Not exact matches
To put it another
way, it is the person, not the self, whose nature is inextricably bound up
in the web of obligations and duties that characterize our actual lives
in history,
in human society — child,
parent, sibling, spouse, associate, friend, and citizen — the positions
in which we find ourselves functioning both as agents and
acted - upon.
In this activity of procreation and care for children the self - regarding and self - serving
ways of the
parents are to a large degree transformed into
acts of self - giving and self - sacrifice.
Jesus is indignant that the scribes and Pharisees (1) will not enter the kingdom of heaven themselves and stand
in the
way of others entering it as well; (2) will do almost anything to win a proselyte only to make that proselyte twice as much a child of hell as they are; (3) confuse people by senseless oaths, telling them that if they swear by the Temple, their oath is not binding, but if they swear by the gold of the Temple, it is binding - the fools ought to realize, Jesus says, that the Temple includes all that is
in it; (4) tithe some of their money but neglect justice and mercy and faith, which are weightier moral matters, when they ought both to tithe and perform these greater
acts of righteousness as well; (5) are careful about outward cleanliness but careless about the inward disposition, so that they are filled with extortion and greed; (6) appear righteous but really are hypocrites, because their appearance hides all manner of iniquity inside; (7) pretend to revere the prophets of history whom their
parents killed but continue to practice the evil of their
parents by rejecting those whom God sends to them now (Matt.
(3)
In such persons, the free, effective Adult takes information from the Child, the Parent, and from external reality, and then makes a decision to act in a way that will result in movement toward constructive goal
In such persons, the free, effective Adult takes information from the Child, the
Parent, and from external reality, and then makes a decision to
act in a way that will result in movement toward constructive goal
in a
way that will result
in movement toward constructive goal
in movement toward constructive goals.
There can be many reasons why a child
acts out, and API believes that it's our job as
parents to identify the unmet needs of the child and help him express his needs and feelings
in more positive
ways, rather than punish him for the challenging behavior.
In light of a few things that happened of late — the Supreme Court's ruling on marriage for same - sex couples, the addition of the word cisgender into the Oxford English Dictionary, the rise of the transgender movement, with Germany leading the way for parents to register their baby as something other than just boy or girl, the increase in stay - at home dads and egalitarian marriages, universities recognizing a third gender, the desire by some to be called they versus he or she, the declaration that 2015 is the year of the gender - neutral baby, it's clear we are moving toward a society that is busting up traditional views of gender and what men and women, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers look and act lik
In light of a few things that happened of late — the Supreme Court's ruling on marriage for same - sex couples, the addition of the word cisgender into the Oxford English Dictionary, the rise of the transgender movement, with Germany leading the
way for
parents to register their baby as something other than just boy or girl, the increase
in stay - at home dads and egalitarian marriages, universities recognizing a third gender, the desire by some to be called they versus he or she, the declaration that 2015 is the year of the gender - neutral baby, it's clear we are moving toward a society that is busting up traditional views of gender and what men and women, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers look and act lik
in stay - at home dads and egalitarian marriages, universities recognizing a third gender, the desire by some to be called they versus he or she, the declaration that 2015 is the year of the gender - neutral baby, it's clear we are moving toward a society that is busting up traditional views of gender and what men and women, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers look and
act like.
Many
parents of children who
act in an overbearing
way find it effective to come up with a cuing system with their child to signal that they're «doing it again.»
* Every situation, every baby, every
parent is different... and not being tied to any one
way of
acting —
in other words, being flexible — allows intuitive responses to those situations that work far better than anything mandated «just because.»
We all know that kids can
act in many disrespectful and rude
ways to
parents: they can slam doors, roll their eyes, and tell you they hate you, to name a few.
If you feel that the most effective
way of asserting your authority as a
parent is to
act out the scene between Liam Neeson and Tim Roth
in Rob Roy, well, then you've got bigger issues than a disobedient teen.
We candidly look at the
parent response
in these hard moments — how to manage yourself as a
parent when your preschooler is not
acting the
way you want.
Bruno Bettelheim, the child psychologist, writes
in A Good Enough
Parent that «
acting on the recommendations of others can not evoke
in us the feelings of confirmation that well up
in us only when we have understood on our own,
in our own
ways, what is involved
in a particular situation, and what we can therefore do about it.»
The kids are learning different
ways to show God's love
in the community, and
parents are given little paper angels on which we are to write the
acts we've observed at home.
One of many
ways it does so is by presenting its Be Kind Award, which is given to those young athletes, coaches,
parents and officials who go above and beyond
in showing an
act of kindness during the youth sports season.
It's offensive to hear a child
act in such rude and disrespectful
ways towards a
parent.
Conscious
parenting is
parenting from a mindset of self examination, questioning the assumptions of
parenting strategies, and
acting in such a
way that the child, the
parent, and the planet are respected.
Their frequent challenges to «the
way things are» can feel overwhelming to the most patient of
parents, and their sometimes epic meltdowns when all of that extreme energy explodes out of their small frames can
act like a tidal wave of emotion that gets everyone swept up
in the maelstrom.
The
way to know if you are truly
acting as your child's emotional partner, and
in alignment with your authentic
parenting style is to check
in and see how you feel after resolving a conflict with your child.
Your job as a
parent is to help your child recognize that the behaviors associated with a tantrum are not acceptable
ways to
act either at home or
in public.
A loving
parent also helps their child through this phase by setting firm boundaries, creating consistent rules, and modeling for their child appropriate
ways to
act, both at home and
in public.
So you might feel pretty confident
in your role as a
parent when your child is nine, but then everything changes again when he moves on to the tween years and starts
acting out
in new, unimagined
ways.
When a loving
parent instinctively
acts in a
way that meets their baby's needs, it usually falls into the attachment
parenting category.
While shouting at your child for
acting out
in such a display is an automatic reaction for some, there are better
ways to handle such a situation with positive
parenting.
As a
parent it's your job not just to treat coughs, colds, toothache and occasional bruises and scratches, but also to
act in a preventative
way at all times; that is, to take every precaution to keep your child physically and emotionally well.
And here's the really good news — when a
parent responds
in different
ways there is no choice for the teen but to
act differently too.
Lying about the
acts of the other
parent in a
way which harms his or her reputation and results
in actual injury can constitute defamation.
The Gentle Discipline Book will help
parents to understand why their child
acts in the
way that they do, how they can get their child to listen to them and how to get them to behave
in more appropriate
ways, both now and
in the future.
For example, some
parents used psychological control by saying, «If you really cared for me, you wouldn't do things to worry me,» while others
acted less friendly toward their teens when the adolescents didn't see things
in the same
way the
parents did.
We can see, even if perhaps Verona can not, that the couple will be good
parents; not so much
in their dismissal of the Arizonans (anyone
in their right minds would do that) but
in the
way they care and
in the
way they
act with each other.
The economist Milton Friedman was the first to propose vouchers as a different
way of distributing public funds for the education of all children, rich and poor - with the assumption that
parents, as consumers, would
act in ways that improved education for all students, not just their own children.
Assisting
parents with more opportunity to connect and share
in this
way not only provides
parents with ideas, but can
act as a regular reminder for
parents of the importance of home reading.
An article
in the Contemporary Educational Psychology journal claims that when teachers and
parents have high expectations of students, they themselves
act in a
way that encourages them to be met.
Involve
parents in appropriate
ways (for example, as a sounding board to help students summarize what they learned from the homework) without requiring
parents to
act as teachers or to police students» homework completion.
She firmly declares that the passage of the Every Student Succeeds
Act earlier this year, the major federal education overhaul, opens the
way for her members,
in partnership with
parents and other groups, to reinvent education for the better — this time, with an eye toward equity and educating the whole child.
However, often times the social pressure is so great that
parents feel as if they must «
act in ways validated by the school system, or their participation is not recognized or may be resented» [xi].
Many of these narratives focus on experiences
in school and
in youth groups where teenagers received powerful messages from teachers, peers, Nazi officials, and
parents about the proper
way to
act and think.
Recognizing the critical need for
parent - teacher communication, the No Child Left Behind
Act (NCLB) requires that schools communicate with all families and involve them
in ways that enhance students» success (Lewis, 2002; U.S. Department of Education, 2002).
The article also provides two sections with related information: 1) a «glossary of testing terms,» which explains fundamentals of standardized tests and how these tests will be used
in the context of new federal legislation (the No Child Left Behind
Act of 2002) which requires states to give standardized tests annually, analyze data
in specific
ways, and track progress toward a required goal; and 2) «frequently asked questions about standardized testing,» which addresses many of
parents» concerns about how standardized tests may be used with and affect their children.
The Trust has no
way to verify that schools are
in compliance with standards outlined
in the SOAR
Act, including whether schools are maintaining valid certificates of occupancy, are providing information on student achievement and accreditation status to
parents, are financially viable, and employ only teachers with bachelor's degrees for core subjects.
An Academies
Act, passed
in the summer, paved the
way for groups of
parents, teachers and charities to set up their own «free schools», and for the expansion of the academies programme, under which schools are being encouraged to «opt out» of local authority control.
In Why Gender Matters, psychologist and family physician Dr. Leonard Sax leads parents through the mystifying world of gender differences by explaining the biologically different ways in which children think, feel, and ac
In Why Gender Matters, psychologist and family physician Dr. Leonard Sax leads
parents through the mystifying world of gender differences by explaining the biologically different
ways in which children think, feel, and ac
in which children think, feel, and
act.
Each of these issues can be frustrating for pet
parents, who may be clueless as to why their cat has chosen to
act out
in such a
way.
Whether it's taking a hands - on approach inside our Adoption Center or Pet Health Centers,
acting as a foster
parent to animals
in need of a little extra love and attention, or providing assistance during off - site events, there are no limits to the
ways our volunteers can better the lives of every dog, cat, puppy, and kitten who finds themselves
in our care.
However, for many new pet
parents, it's a shock to find that some dogs may experience separation anxiety, which causes them to
act out
in unexpected
ways when their owners are away.
, you are lying on the floor of your place looking up, a small draft runs through the room, between the door and the window, and all things seem perfectly still, wind only disturbs concrete
in imperceptible
ways, or it may take millions of years to be noticed and, as the air runs through the space, all your plants move and all is animated and all is alive somehow, and here are the thoughts of all men
in all ages and lands, they are not original with me, and that wind upon your plants is the common air that bathes the globe, and we have no ambitions of universalism, and I'm glad we don't, but the particles of air bring traces of pollen and are charged with electricity, desert sand, maybe sea water, and these particles were somewhere else before they were dragged here, and their route will not end by the door of this house, and if we tell each other stories, one can imagine that they might have been bathed by this same air, regrouped and recombined, recharged as a vehicle for sound, swirling as it moves, bringing the sound of a drum, like that Kabuki story where a fox recognizes the voice of its
parents as a girl plays a drum made out of their skin, or any other event, and yet I always felt your work never tells stories, I tend to think that narrative implies a past tense, even if that past was just five seconds ago, one second ago was already the past, and human memory is irrelevant
in geological time, plants and fish know not what tomorrow will bring, neither rocks nor metal do, but we all live here now, and we all need visions and we all need dreams, and as long as your metal sculptures vibrate they are always
in the Present, and their past is a material truth alien to narrative, but well, maybe narrative does not imply a past tense at all and they are writing their own story while they gently move and breathe, and maybe nothing was really still before the wind came
in, passing through the window as if through an irrational portal to make those plants dance, but everything was already moving and breathing
in near complete silence, and if you're focused enough you can feel the pulse of a concrete wall and you can feel the tectonic movements of the earth, and you can hear the magma flowing under our feet and our bones crackling like a wild fire, and you can see the light of fireflies reflected
in polished metal, and there is nothing magical about that, it is just the
way things are, and sometimes we have to raise our voice because the music is too loud and let your clothes move to a powerful bass, sound waves and bright lights, powerful like the sun, blinding us if we stare for too long, but isn't it the biggest sign of love, like singing to a corn field, and all
acts of kindness that are not pitiful nor utilitarian, that are truly horizontal as everything around us is impregnated with the deadliest violence, vertical and systemic, poisonous, and sometimes you just want to feel the sun burning your skin and look for life
in all things declared dead, a kind of vitality that operates like corrosion, strong as the wind near the sea, transforming all things,
to reach and encourage a critical mass of young people to teach their
parents and schools how to reduce their carbon emissions
in order to galvanize the US public — adults and kids alike — and create a paradigm shift
in the
way that society views, and
acts to abate, global warming.
Babywearing is the
act of «wearing» or carrying your baby or small child
in a
way that keeps them close, supports them, and promotes that important
parent - baby bonding while keeping your hands free.
«Fertility tourism» is the somewhat derisive term for cross-border travel to access artificial reproductive services that are restricted or unavailable
in the traveler's home country.123 Such tourism can be a two -
way street.124 Canada, for example, imposes severe penalties on anyone who provides compensation to a gestational surrogate.125 The risk of a serious fine and even jail time
acts as a deterrent to Canadians who have no access to altruistic surrogates within Canada.126 The restrictions encourage Canadians to access ART services
in the United States or other countries.127 On the other hand, Canada can be an attractive destination for intending
parents who are not Canadian but who have access to an altruistic Canadian surrogate because the public health system greatly reduces the medical costs for the pregnancy and birth of the baby.128 India has a growing reputation for providing low - cost gestational surrogacy as it allows women to be compensated for providing such services.129 All of these scenarios present potential LRW problems addressing contract interpretation and enforceability.
Honestly,
in this case, I'm not sure that there are material differences between common law and civil law systems or law v. equity, so much as there are differences between particularly countries regarding how child welfare is protected when there is a concern that a
parent is
acting in a
way that harms a child's welfare under relatively recently adopted statutes.