Realizing the seriousness of his situation, Watney leaves a message for
his parents expressing his feelings about dying for a greater cause.
Individual issues that may be left over from your family of origin — for example, as a child you never observed
your parents expressing their feelings of love in an open and affirming way to one another and emotional sharing was discouraged.
Not exact matches
These heartfelt lines from a perceptive mother's letter
express the intensity with which many
parents feel the responsibility of raising children.
The
parent who makes a confidant of the child because there is not a good spouse relationship in which
feelings can be
expressed is hurting the child.
They need the freedom to
express negative
feelings from time to time and to rebel occasionally, but they need the
parents to be in charge in the long run.
Many peopie carry this kind of psychological burden, unable to
express their negative
feelings, unable to work them out, finding themselves under the burden of a law that says no matter what your real
feelings are you are supposed to honor and love and obey your
parents.
There can be many reasons why a child acts out, and API believes that it's our job as
parents to identify the unmet needs of the child and help him
express his needs and
feelings in more positive ways, rather than punish him for the challenging behavior.
Yes, his
parents and mine
expressed some concern — his more than mine because his mother went to church and my
parents were not religious — and both of us
felt pretty devastated for a period, but we had no children and therefore we were not seen as «ruining» other lives beside our own.
However, how the conflict is handled matters very much: Teens do better when they are allowed to
express their opinions freely (respectfully, still validating and showing empathy for the other person's point of view), without being made to
feel that their relationship with their
parent is threatened.
For example, these
parents may encourage their children to dress themselves to
express the importance of individuality and give them the opportunity to resolve problems in the way that
feels most comfortable for them.
However, teens in both cultures did better and
felt better when they were free to
express their views, their
feelings, and even their criticisms — and when they received empathy and an understanding of their different perspective from their
parents.
Parents are often quick to
express negative
feelings to children but somehow don't get around to describing positive
feelings.
As the poor babies can not even
express their
feelings, their little cries also make a
parent anxious about the baby getting any illness.
Feeling and
expressing them fully and loudly in the arms of a loving
parent offering sympathy and acknowledgment — that's different in my book.
Words can not
express how sad I
feel for any child that is subjected to the measures they suggest in the name of
parenting.
I think the greatest possible gift for our children would be to grow up witnessing and experiencing their
parents expressing frustration, anger, and disappointment and modeling how to get to the other side to resolve issues and support each others
feelings in the process.
It is extremely important that the adoptive
parents are open and prepared to, in positive and age - appropriate language, answer their child's questions, discuss their child's unique story, and help him
express and process his
feelings.
Because when
parents know how to recognize their
feelings and
express themselves they model the behavior for their daughters.
During this time together, reflecting on the ups and downs of the day provides a child with opportunities to develop a capacity to retell a story or events,
express feelings about experiences, and share meaningful information with
parents.
But a
parent should help them learn how to properly
express those
feelings.
A secure attachment does not mean «over
parenting» but rather involves being a resting place where your child can safely
express thoughts and emotions and receive empathy and support, and where he or she can
feel a sense of belonging, acceptance, and unconditional love.
She says
parents need to remember to listen closely to their kids and acknowledge the difficult
feelings they are
expressing so they
feel understood.
An interview with best selling author Dr. Cara Natterson offering advice for
parents on how they can talk to boys about their bodies as they enter puberty and
express their
feelings without
feeling ashamed.
Some
parents like to create their own poem, whereas for others a poem which helps them
express their own
feelings is enough.
Last week I received this email, which perfectly
expresses the dismay many
parents feel when they first venture into the world of public school food:
These benefits include but are not limited to the power of the human touch and presence, of being surrounded by supportive people of a family's own choosing, security in birthing in a familiar and comfortable environment of home,
feeling less inhibited in
expressing unique responses to labor (such as making sounds, moving freely, adopting positions of comfort, being intimate with her partner, nursing a toddler, eating and drinking as needed and desired,
expressing or practicing individual cultural, value and faith based rituals that enhance coping)-- all of which can lead to easier labors and births, not having to make a decision about when to go to the hospital during labor (going too early can slow progress and increase use of the cascade of risky interventions, while going too late can be intensely uncomfortable or even lead to a risky unplanned birth en route), being able to choose how and when to include children (who are making their own adjustments and are less challenged by a lengthy absence of their
parents and excessive interruptions of family routines), enabling uninterrupted family boding and breastfeeding, huge cost savings for insurance companies and those without insurance, and increasing the likelihood of having a deeply empowering and profoundly positive, life changing pregnancy and birth experience.
Many new
parents express this first - time vision of their new child like that, «I
felt like somebody stunned me or I just hit by anything.
When a
parent is concerned about the child's
feelings and
expresses it to the child, the child will learn that is the right way to communicate and consider other people and their
feelings.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber This bestselling classic includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time - tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to: · Cope with your child's negative
feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment ·
Express your strong
feelings without being hurtful · Engage your child's willing cooperation · Set firm limits and maintain goodwill · Use alternatives to punishment that promote self - discipline · Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise · Resolve family conflicts peacefully Enthusiastically praised by
parents and professionals around the world, the down - to - earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.
Between
Parent and Child by Dr. Haim Ginott Based on the theory that
parenting is a skill that can be learned, this indispensable handbook will show you how to: • Discipline without threats, bribes, sarcasm, and punishment • Criticize without demeaning, praise without judging, and
express anger without hurting • Acknowledge rather than argue with children's
feelings, perceptions, and opinions • Respond so that children will learn to trust and develop self - confidence
When children can
express their vulnerable
feelings to a
parent and see over time that they can have independent relationships with both
parents, they can recover and grow through this experience.
If you're thinking of joining a single
parent support group yourself, you'll make new friends, get your thoughts off of personal pressures, and be able to
express your
feelings in constructive ways.
Especially when
parents are expecting another baby in the household, it's important for children to work through the complicated
feelings they
express when a new baby will arrive.
Parents can help kids identify what they're
feeling, where they
feel that
feeling in their body, and healthy ways to
express their really big
feelings.
Never downplay these
feelings and always
express your understanding and acceptance of these
feelings, no matter what your
feelings are towards the other
parent.
As a
parent, you can't protect you children from grief, but you can help them
express their
feelings, comfort them, help them
feel safer, and teach them how to deal with fear.
A good fit for Tyler will be a mom and dad couple or two single
parents who are ready to engage him in supports and services to help him build attachment, continue to develop positive ways to
express his
feelings, and provide consistency and structure to help him
feel safe and secure.
Contributing to API is an opportunity to offer your support and knowledge, participate in a movement of cultural change and advocate for Attachment
Parenting and families, build your portfolio as a writer, receive feedback and encouragement in your writing,
express your observations,
feelings and experiences as a
parent, help us build the body of knowledge on Attachment
Parenting and contribute as a volunteer to a valued organization.
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Parents model the behaviors that children will use in the world; if parents model fighting to express negative feelings, then kids will think that this is how to express themselves when they are upset,» says parenting coach and licensed social worker Mercedes S
Parents model the behaviors that children will use in the world; if
parents model fighting to express negative feelings, then kids will think that this is how to express themselves when they are upset,» says parenting coach and licensed social worker Mercedes S
parents model fighting to
express negative
feelings, then kids will think that this is how to
express themselves when they are upset,» says
parenting coach and licensed social worker Mercedes Samudio.
Children naturally regulate their emotions, and their behaviour, by
expressing feelings, but our cultural attitudes towards crying, or other expressions of emotion, make it doubly hard to
parent.
I started this blog to share the message that listening to tears helps our children to fully
express their
feelings, so that they are free of the upsets that cause all those off - track kinds of behaviour, such as aggression, whining and all the other challenging behaviours we have to deal with as
parents!
You're not going to want to miss this webinar if you're the
parent of a child over 3 who is still having a difficult time
expressing their
feelings in a healthy way!
Most
parents ask their kids to stop whining or
express annoyance when they do, but that is unlikely to prevent a child from whining if they are in a bad mood, frustrated, tired, hungry, or
feeling unwell.
And I teach other
parents how to do the same with their babies, to
feel the same pride, to provide for their babies»
expressed needs.
Most
parents of NICU babies
feel some anger, and they
express it in different ways.
«Anything that you can do to
express your pain and frustration... will be beneficial, whether it's related to
feeling inadequate as a
parent, being tired and angry because your child isn't sleeping, or managing fights with your partner that occur as a result of the incessant crying,» says Dr. Mihalas.
Researchers have found kids who have authoritative
parents are most likely to become responsible adults who
feel comfortable
expressing their opinions.
Learning how to
express feelings and ask for help and cooperation is a learning task that occupies
parents and children across all of childhood and through life.
The goal of childbirth isn't to give
parents a satisfying experience, or to
express their
feelings about the medical establishment, or to give them a sense of being in control.
If your child hears you
express doubts about the other
parent, it can have a detrimental impact on them emotionally because they will
feel that they are in the middle.