PT helps to improve parenting skills, not to make
parents feel inadequate or unsuccessful.
Many expectant
parents feel inadequate to make such decisions - everything from a planned cesarean or induction for no medical reason, to whether to have routine intravenous fluids or artificial rupture of the membranes, to whether to use formula to feed the baby while mother is at work or to pump breastmilk.
Having a clean house is a cruel myth that makes most
parents feel inadequate.
Not exact matches
It was the
feeling of having failed older children who had been treated in ways the
parents now recognized as
inadequate.
It's so easy to fall into the trap of
feeling inadequate as a stay at home
parent, especially in a new city.
Any
parent will tell you that it is agonizing to hear their baby cry, and if this is the method chosen to teach their baby to sleep, the very last thing they need is to be made to
feel inadequate in any way.
This label can leave
parents who have used or are planning to use cry - it - out
feeling inadequate and like they have done the absolute worst thing for their child.
Today,
parents have more information available to them than ever before, and while it's nice to be able to connect with other
parents online or to quickly research ear infection symptoms in the middle of the night, all of that information from blog posts and social media can make you
feel inadequate.
I think every new
parent feels ill - prepared and
inadequate when they bring a newborn home.
You should emphasize that though they
feel guilty, sad and
inadequate as a mother, they are a successful
parent and that the
feelings will come to pass.
Many people
feel inadequate when they first become
parents.
Parents often
feel stupid,
inadequate, and insecure, and try to cover up these
feelings (even from themselves) by reacting thoughtlessly.
You make this sound so easy so
parents who have a more complicated baby
feel inadequate.
You may
feel unsecure and
inadequate and may not be prepared for the
parenting job.
These babies are a source of great frustration,
parents feeling guilty and
inadequate.
Parenting is difficult at the best of times and in others there are issues beyond our control that leave us
feeling helpless, deflated, or even
inadequate.
«Anything that you can do to express your pain and frustration... will be beneficial, whether it's related to
feeling inadequate as a
parent, being tired and angry because your child isn't sleeping, or managing fights with your partner that occur as a result of the incessant crying,» says Dr. Mihalas.
They might not want to admit to themselves or others that they do need help,
feeling that would mean they were an
inadequate parent.
I recently read a post by another mom, a terrific writer who fills her numerous blogs with all kinds of «great mother» articles: gardening, cooking, natural
parenting, crafting, just the kind of articles that make the reader (me)
feel inadequate that I'm not doing those kinds of things on a regular basis in MY house.
Fatigue and burn out are one of the key reasons why some moms
feel that their
parenting is
inadequate.
This occurs often with «helicopter»
parents who are constantly hovering over their children, and do so much for them, that the children grow up
feeling inadequate to cope with life.
What's more, the latest research shows that kids with helicopter
parents can grow up to
feel inadequate and unprepared for adulthood.
Math Matters: Kids Are Counting on You is a resource kit prepared by the National
Parent Teacher Association for
parents who
feel inadequate in helping their children with mathematics.
As
parents, we often
feel inadequate when challenged with making our children learn the different things that they will need in order to become functional adults eventually.
«I
felt inadequate often enough in how to
parent,» she recalled, something she hadn't expected.
This process can be quite overwhelming at times, resulting in
feeling inadequate, as though you are failing as
parents because you have tried everything without much consistent success.
They jump from one theory to another, but their attempts are met with failure; their family life becomes chaotic because of the inconsistency, and
parents are left
feeling even more frustrated and
inadequate.
Or,
parents who are insecure and
feel inadequate themselves may seek out comfort from their child, unintentionally reversing the role between child and
parent.
Regarding supportive
parenting, it is probable that mothers who are
feeling less helpless and
inadequate when entering interactions with the child start to derive more enjoyment from this interaction, which is reflected in more responsiveness toward the child and more acceptance of the child (Gondoli and Silverberg 1997).
Making someone
feel like an
inadequate parent will only make things worse.