By which I mean we often, with our first children, tell ourselves and everybody else that we HAVE to let our babies sleep on us / co - sleep / rock them to sleep / take them out in the car or buggy to get them to sleep out of necessity / can not allow them to cry even for a second — but how many
parents of second children are afforded the time to do the same?
Not exact matches
Since estate taxes are assessed only when bequests are left to someone other than a husband or wife — most commonly, when estates pass, after
parents» death, to the
children — it's smart to buy enough
second - to - die coverage in the name
of the beneficiary to pay off future estate - tax bills.
The
children who were willing to delay gratification and waited to receive the
second marshmallow ended up having higher SAT scores, lower levels
of substance abuse, lower likelihood
of obesity, better responses to stress, better social skills as reported by their
parents, and generally better scores in a range
of other life measures.
For readers unfamiliar with the work, but generally familiar with Locke, it puts a great deal
of flesh on the bones
of his treatment
of the
parent /
child relationship in the
Second Treatise.
My
parents and in - laws are
children of the
second - generation; born in America and raised in the last years
of the depression, they inherited the immigrant's unconditional passion for the new country, and happily melted into the pot» Americanizing their own names and Christening their
children John instead
of Gianni; Mary instead
of Maria.
This is the
second post in a weeklong series entitled «Submit One To Another: Christ and the Household Codes,» which will focus on those frequently - cited passages
of Scripture that instruct wives to submit to their husbands, slaves to obey their masters,
children to obey their
parents, and Christians to submit to one another (Ephesians 5:21 - 6:9, Colossians 3:12 - 4:6; 1 Peter 2:11 - 3:22).
Second, these
children and infants were expressly judged and executed for the acts
of their
parents in direct contradiction
of the basic Christian tenet
of divine judgment based on an exercise
of free will to choose evil or reject god.
Never mind that these are
parents who have dreams
of their
children in danger all the time, a mom having a dream
of their infant in danger happens... um... I don't know every 5
seconds?
A number
of parents threatened the school with legal action over the summer after their
children were prevented from beginning their
second year
of A-levels because they didn't achieve at least three B - grades in their first year tests.
Even if a few
parents of transgendered
children are seeking 15
seconds of fame, hopefully, the majority
of such
parents are trying to signal to another
parent... a signal that may say something like this, «Jimmy is OK.
Locke — the first philosopher
of liberalism — on the one hand acknowledges in his
Second Treatise on Government that the duties
of parents to raise
children and the corresponding duties
of children to obey springs from the commandment to «honor thy father and thy mother,» but further claims that every
child must ultimately subject his inheritance to the logic
of consent beginning in a version
of the state
of nature, in which we act as autonomous choosing individuals.
This reliving process can become a constructive thing, giving
parents a
second chance to do unfinished growth work with their «inner
child of the past.»
I've been through the loss
of both
parents and the stillbirth
of a
child, and not for a
second did I feel the need to seek out «god» or some other idiotic deity for help.
Homosexual adoption thus risks aggravating the trauma
of the abandoned
child, for the generational chain would be doubly broken: first in the reality
of the
child's abandonment, and
second, symbolically, in the fact
of the homosexuality
of the adoptive
parents.
To the best
of our ability, their father and I raised our
children to see both
parents working in the home and without as normal, and when they grew up, our daughters, our only
children, had no
second thoughts about giving time to their careers, nor to the advantages
of breastfeeding and the importance
of providing healthy, whole foods to their families.
Luckily with my
second child I have the confidence to take all the «best bits»
of other people's advice and mix it in with my own world view / instincts /
parenting style.
Perhaps not; while about 15 percent to 45 percent
of first marriages end in divorce about 60 percent to 80 percent
of second marriages end in divorce (although numbers vary on how many
of those
second marriages are to the former spouse or a different one with assorted
children from different
parents all trying to live happily a la «The Brady Bunch» under one roof).
* U.S. Department
of Health and Human Services, National Institute on Drug Abuse — Preventing Drug Use among
Children and Adolescents — A Research Based Guide for
Parents, Educators and Community Leaders,
Second Edition
Yet each Independence Day, thousands
of parents don't give a
second thought to giving their
children sparklers — lighted sticks that can burn at a temperature up to 1,200 degrees Fahrenheit.
Most
parents choose to have their
second child within five years
of the first, but there are some good things about waiting longer.
By appealing to mothers» propensity to guilt and fear, the PSA assumed a few things: first, that the target audience was committed to a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby;
second, that they were committed to the nutrition
of their
children; and third, that they were committed to being the best
parents possible.
If this is a
second or subsequent
child, one
of you may already be nursing, and it may be a natural progression to continue breastfeeding the baby carried by your partner, in «tandem» with the first
child and in tandem as
parents.
Once my
second child became a toddler, I thought I crossed my biggest
parenting hurdle: 5 years
of sleepless nights and the suffocating dependency.
I've been thinking about that conversation, and why it is that the experience
of parenting the
second child (or subsequent
children) is so different from being a first - time
parent.
You'd be surprised how many
parents who are on the verge
of divorce send their
children to sleep away camp thinking that a couple
of weeks without the
children will give them the time to make arrangements for finding a
second place to live, etc..
Those kinds
of statistics haven't gone unnoticed, thus the increasingly vocal group challenging
parents to change their ways, among them David Code, an Episcopal minister and family coach, who writes, «To raise healthy kids, simply put your marriage first and your
children second.»
The birth
of my
second child was crash refresher course in Attachment
Parenting.
According to Dennis Allen, CEO
of Hattie Larlham Center for
Children with Disabilities,
parents should seek a
second opinion on their
child's needs.
His
second book, Protecting the Gift: Keeping
Children & Teenagers Safe (and
Parents Sane) was the # 1
parenting book
of 1999.
The other principle that may help
parents of special needs
children is seeking a
second opinion.
When a
parent of a first
child gets pregnant with a
second, often they struggle with a question, «How will I have enough love to spread between the
child I have and the
child that I will have?»
The Playgroup Altercation, Part 2: When Your
Child Is the Victim Judy Arnall, Canadian author of Discipline without Distress, returns with her second part in the two - part series on handling the playgroup altercation — this time, your child is the victim and the other parent isn't sympath
Child Is the Victim Judy Arnall, Canadian author
of Discipline without Distress, returns with her
second part in the two - part series on handling the playgroup altercation — this time, your
child is the victim and the other parent isn't sympath
child is the victim and the other
parent isn't sympathetic.
In the
second, the rudder remains in the
child's hands as the
parent guides, instructs, and leads the way with their little steamboat sheltered alee
of the
parent ship.
The
second year
of life is an amazing, spontaneous, engaging, yet challenging, time for the emergent
child and his
parents.
This is true for all
parents of multiple
children — we are not the exact same for our first
child as for our
second, or third, and so on.
The
second half
of child rearing is a close encounter
of the undefinable kind, unfurling life lessons from every quantum cranny
of the
parent -
child universe.
Some research has shown
children growing up with permissive
parents are less likely to respect rules and authority, and like the
second of our four
parenting styles, authoritarian, teenagers maybe prone to experimenting with alcohol, drugs or risk taking behavior.
Well, I have news for my rookie - pregnant self and any
of you rookie
parents - to - be: a
second - time around mom may be more comfortable with the new baby, but she's still living on the frontier
of how to deal with her older
child PLUS more to juggle and even less time for a nap.
Yes — a
child is considered to have a
second parent in KY if a legal
parent voluntarily chooses to create a family unit, and cedes to the
second «
parent» a sufficiently significant amount
of parental responsibility.
This sounds like an attempt to scare
parents into
second guessing themselves and having their
children buy the school lunch instead
of bringing their lunch from home.
* anatomy and physiology
of second births and beyond * special considerations for
parents planning a VBAC * preparing for the birth process with other
children at home * a review
of comfort measures for labor * how to work with your previous birth experiences * a review
of postpartum recovery, breastfeeding, and newborn care * sibling support and integration
While most
parents I know have strict limits on their first
child even looking in the vague direction
of the iPad, show me a
second child who hasn't accidentally seen Frozen a zillion times, over their sibling's shoulder and I'll show you... oh wait, I'm too tired to argue.
If one
parent's job is fairly low paying, it may make sense to simply quit and eliminate
child care costs, especially after the birth
of a
second child.
After the birth
of the first
child, most
parents feel too overwhelmed to consider having a
second one.
Twenty - four percent
of parents surveyed said that they switched seats before their
child's first birthday, and only 23 percent
of parents kept their kids facing rear until their
second birthday, which is what is recommended by the American Academy
of Pediatrics.
These pushchairs are worth considering if you're just starting out as
parents and plan on having a
second child within a couple
of years.
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Years ago, I heard a
child psychologist tell
parents that bad news should be delivered to
children during the first ten
seconds of the conversation.
The American Academy
of Pediatrics (AAP) is changing the rules on car seat safety by advising
parents to keep toddlers rear facing until they reach the weight and height limits
of their particular car seat or until the
child's
second birthday.
I have been that
parent, who is otherwise able to empathize with my
child's strong emotions but who
second - guessed herself after a decade
of Attachment
Parenting, because
of an old lady's furrowed brow when my kid — with an especially high whine — complained about the length
of the grocery trip.