Like the
part about women - blaming and shaming combined with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an
emotional distance he feels from us as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak
mess of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.