Many
partners feel threatened by the perfect bodies so often portrayed on - screen.
Not exact matches
Like not
feeling threatened by other close relationships or attractive people in your
partner's life.
We might
feel a constant fear of losing our
partner so we
feel threatened easily.
Not knowing the sexual preference of other people can make it difficult to know who to approach with one's
feelings in the offline world but in the online sphere more people are open about what they are looking for in a
partner and this can make the process easier and less
threatening for both parties.
When your
partner is making your research memo bleed red ink or opposing counsel is
threatening you with sanctions, your
feelings are irrelevant.
- Three months into the merger, the incoming workaholic
partner suffered a nervous breakdown still
feeling unsupported, the «senior»
partner threatened to quit and it was becoming evident the other two were under - performing.
Any of these will cause your
partner to
feel legitimately
threatened by you.
Because they know they can ask for what they need and
feel certain that they will reconnect in the future, secure
partners are less likely to
feel threatened by the absence of each other, and are less likely to pick fights.
Because they maintain a basic sense of self - esteem and worth even in moments of disagreements, they are less likely to
feel threatened by their
partners reactions, and better able to stay engaged without becoming angry, sad, or withdrawn.
The abusive
partner may even choose to escalate the abuse because he
feels his power and control
threatened.
Does a man
feel threatened or emasculated when his female
partner outperforms him?
The authors suggest that being empathetic to a
partner's negative emotions may
feel threatening to the relationship for men but not for women.
Providing help that isn't needed or wanted can be viewed as
threatening to the self and may make people
feel that their
partner doesn't have faith in them11 or can make them
feel indebted to the giver.12
When people
feel as though their freedom to do what they want is being
threatened, they'll cling to that
threatened freedom more — like a child who desperately wants to play with a specific toy simply because it's forbidden.8 When you try to control your
partner, you're restricting their freedom.
I remember my
partner having a friend who happened to be girl at work and initially I
felt threatened, but I soon learnt that I had to trust my
partner and I loved and supported my
partner.
They were encouraged to discuss how they
felt when these
threatening behaviors were directed at them, while their
partner listened without interruption.
Professionals should not make the experience worse by adding to the conflict or by causing either
partner to
feel more
threatened or vulnerable than they do already.
When his
partner inevitably makes normal and totally acceptable mistakes and imperfect decisions, this tends to
threaten the plan for superior performance he
feels he desperately needs, and unreasonable anger, irritability and criticism results.
EFTCT was created by Dr. Sue Johnson, and is a theory which is useful in explaining why you have such a great reaction when you
feel that your bond with your
partner is «
threatened.»
Other means of abuse are using the children to maintain control, such as
threatening to take children away or using the children to relay messages to the other parent; using economic abuse such as not allowing one
partner to know about or have access to family income or giving an allowance and expecting receipts for all purchases; using emotional abuse such as putting one
partner down, making them
feel crazy or making them
feel guilty for other's inappropriate behavior; using threats and coercion to make one
partner drop charges or do illegal acts.
As a therapist who uses Emotionally Focused Therapy to work with couples, I am convinced that, even for the most securely bonded couples, there are times when we
feel that our connection with our
partner is somehow
threatened.
If your
partner knew all the details of your relationship with this friend, would he or she
feel threatened?
Maybe you've shared just enough with your
partner so that he or she won't
feel threatened.
A
partner who
feels threatened or believes the discussion is getting ugly can raise his or her hand and terminate the conversation.
In turn,
partners may
feel threatened by the distance, leaving them
feeling unsafe to raise and explore conflictual issues in a well - modulated fashion, and instead respond reactively by withdrawing or attacking their
partner verbally.
That is, secure individuals
feel trusting and safe to share their more vulnerable and tender sides with their
partner during disagreements because they view conflict as less
threatening to the relationship and perceive the relationship to be a safe place for exploration.
Once you start
feeling emotionally safer with your
partner, talking about in - laws, money, sex, or kids will not be as
threatening.