For heterosexual couples, just making sure that
both partners reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse can be difficult.
from xkcd.comFor heterosexual couples, just making sure that
both partners reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse can be difficult.
Not exact matches
Kitzinger shows that women (and surely their male
partners too) have been confused by images derived from aggressive ways both of defecating and of
reaching an
orgasm.
Symptoms may include difficulty inserting a tampon (since the muscles are contracted), an overactive bladder (caused by muscle spasms), pain during or after a bowel movement, feeling like your
partner is «hitting a wall» during sex, and trouble
reaching orgasm (again, due to contracted muscles).
If clitoral
orgasms don't come easy for you or you're having trouble
reaching climax, consider looking into sex toys designed with clitoral
orgasm in mind, such as a mini vibrator you or your
partner can wear on your fingertips.
The overarching goal is not
orgasm (though thats definitely a bonus) but a deep connection with your
partner to
reach ecstasy, enlightenment, and even sexual healing, she says.
Ladies, if you don't
reach orgasm through intercourse, and your
partner is circumcised, it's not you, it's him.
Studies show 5/6 of women do not climax with circumcised
partners, but less than 1/6 of women have any problem
reaching orgasm with intact
partners.
When you can, sex becomes less about performance and
reaching orgasm, and more about receiving pleasure, enjoying your
partner, and awakening the aliveness in your body.
If a woman can
reach orgasm with digital stimulation from her
partner, LoPiccolo considers that therapeutic goals have been met.