In Episode 61, Asha and I respond to a listener letter and share 7 tips for how to get
past feeling bad for taking time for yourself or feeling that you owe something in return, while also improving your communication strategy and treatment of one another.
Not exact matches
There's nothing wrong with
feeling bad about how someone is treating you, but your self - talk (the thoughts you have about your
feelings) can either intensify the negativity or help you move
past it.
Many
feel deceived that they were not informed of
past bad behavior with the general partners they invested in.
My manager asked me recently why I don't like to share my personal life, and I gave him an honest answer (i.e.,
bad past experiences, unfair judgments against me, etc.), and I have the
feeling that he thinks I'm weird.
The Swiss National Bank said in its statement that, essentially, it
felt the
worst of the danger was
past and that the Swiss economy had had enough time to adjust to a strong franc.
While retail banking hasn't changed quickly enough over the
past few years, it
feels like business banking is even
worse and has been stuck in the
past.
But I
feel like that's gone
badly in the
past.
For the
past while I've
felt like a
bad son because of it... a sad and bitter son... a disappointment.
I've been struggling with this for the
past couple of days, I had a lot of fear but I don't
feel to
bad today but I just wanted to ask a question.
I was
feeling some
past betrayal
badly this morning.
All physical aspects aside, mine was great, though I am not going to lie, it was very painful, as I have been
feeling considerably
worse this
past month.
«I have a
bad feeling about this» In the
past 10 games the Buck's are 7 - 3, but their are signs that the ship is taking on water.
Sitting in my car, in ridiculous traffic on Chester Road, seeing cyclists glide
past with ease makes you
feel bad about yourself.
Any body in this planet can see Arsenal problems — there is a reason why one of those Director came out and said we have 200mln plus to spend — Arsenal needs very simple solutions reinforcement but the only thing Wenger sees is «philosophy» i will never
feel bad at all if he leaves even now or tomorrow he has been a big jock since
past 10 years.
he is by far the
worst striker we have had in that
past xxxxx year Chmakh Bentner Vela Arshavin all was better i really
feel sick seeing him we can go to second division and find a better striker
Totally agree Chris.He is now well
past his sell by date and defeats like have suffered against Bournemouth and Swansea are not only embarrassing but unforgivable.The results were
bad enough but the performances are now all too familiar against theses lower ranked clubs.To expect us supporters to be blinded by League Cup Final and only a couple of decent performances so far this season is misjudging our
feelings about his position This is a very well educated and intelligent man who can have no doubts about our attitude and utter disgust for him.He has allowed for us to make this personal now and he is deluded if he thinks e can collect another years salary out our expense.He knows his control is slowly being wrestled away from him and that really says it all.Ivan G is taking control and Wenger will be raging inside with this.Did he seriously expect things to continue until he
felt it was time to just walk off into the sunset?Well he now knows his time at OUR club is fast running out.The day can't come soon enough for me.
Time for some brutal honesty... this team, as it stands, is in no better position to compete next season than they were 12 months ago, minus the fact that some fans have been easily snowed by the acquisition of Lacazette, the free transfer LB and the release of Sanogo... if you look at the facts carefully you will see a team that still has far more questions than answers... to better show what I mean by this statement I will briefly discuss the current state of affairs on a position - by - position basis... in goal we have 4 potential candidates, but in reality we have only 1 option with any real future and somehow he's the only one we have actively tried to get rid of for years because he and his father were a little too involved on social media and he got caught smoking (funny how people still defend Wiltshire under the same and far
worse circumstances)... you would think we would want to keep any goaltender that Juventus had interest in, as they seem to have a pretty good history when it comes to that position... as far as the defenders on our current roster there are only a few individuals whom have the skill and / or youth worthy of our time and / or investment, as such we should get rid of anyone who doesn't meet those simple requirements, which means we should get rid of DeBouchy, Gibbs, Gabriel, Mertz and loan out Chambers to see if last seasons foray with Middlesborough was an anomaly or a prediction of things to come... some fans have lamented wildly about the return of Mertz to the starting lineup due to his FA Cup performance but these sort of pie in the sky meanderings are indicative of what's wrong with this club and it's wishy - washy fan - base... in addition to these moves the club should aggressively pursue the acquisition of dominant and mobile CB to stabilize an all too fragile defensive group that has self - destructed on numerous occasions over the
past 5 seasons... moving forward and building on our need to re-establish our once dominant presence throughout the middle of the park we need to target a CDM then do whatever it takes to get that player into the fold without any of the usual nickel and diming we have become famous for (this kind of ruthless haggling has cost us numerous special players and certainly can't help make the player in question
feel good about the way their future potential employer
feels about them)... in order for us to become dominant again we need to be strong up the middle again from Goalkeeper to CB to DM to ACM to striker, like we did in our most glorious years before and during Wenger's reign... with this in mind, if we want Ozil to be that dominant attacking midfielder we can't keep leaving him exposed to constant ridicule about his lack of defensive prowess and provide him with the proper players in the final third... he was never a good defensive player in Real or with the German National squad and they certainly didn't suffer as a result of his presence on the pitch... as for the rest of the midfield the blame falls squarely in the hands of Wenger and Gazidis, the fact that Ramsey, Ox, Sanchez and even Ozil were allowed to regularly start when none of the aforementioned had more than a year left under contract is criminal for a club of this size and financial might... the fact that we could find money for Walcott and Xhaka, who weren't even guaranteed starters, means that our whole business model needs a complete overhaul... for me it's time to get rid of some serious deadweight, even if it means selling them below what you believe their market value is just to simply right this ship and change the stagnant culture that currently exists... this means saying goodbye to Wiltshire, Elneny, Carzola, Walcott and Ramsey... everyone, minus Elneny, have spent just as much time on the training table as on the field of play, which would be manageable if they weren't so inconsistent from a performance standpoint (excluding Carzola, who is like the recent version of Rosicky — too
bad, both will be deeply missed)... in their places we need to bring in some proven performers with no history of injuries... up front, although I do like the possibilities that a player like Lacazette presents, the fact that we had to wait so many years to acquire some true quality at the striker position falls once again squarely at the feet of Wenger... this issue highlights the ultimate scam being perpetrated by this club since the arrival of Kroenke: pretend your a small market club when it comes to making purchases but milk your fans like a big market club when it comes to ticket prices and merchandising... I believe the reason why Wenger hasn't pursued someone of Henry's quality, minus a fairly inexpensive RVP, was that he knew that they would demand players of a similar ilk to be brought on board and that wasn't possible when the business model was that of a «selling» club... does it really make sense that we could only make a cheeky bid for Suarez, or that we couldn't get Higuain over the line when he was being offered up for half the price he eventually went to Juve for, or that we've only paid any interest to strikers who were clearly not going to press their current teams to let them go to Arsenal like Benzema or Cavani... just part of the facade that finally came crashing down when Sanchez finally called their bluff... the fact remains that no one wants to win more than Sanchez, including Wenger, and although I don't agree with everything that he has done off the field, I would much rather have Alexis front and center than a manager who has clearly bought into the Kroenke model in large part due to the fact that his enormous ego suggests that only he could accomplish great things without breaking the bank... unfortunately that isn't possible anymore as the game has changed quite dramatically in the last 15 years, which has left a largely complacent and complicit Wenger on the outside looking in... so don't blame those players who demanded more and were left wanting... don't blame those fans who have tried desperately to raise awareness for several years when cracks began to appear... place the blame at the feet of those who were well aware all along of the potential pitfalls of just such a plan but continued to follow it even when it was no longer a financial necessity, like it ever really was...
Sead look like a quality signing, and I
feel the lack of support affected the team
badly this
past season... lets support the team under any circumstances this season #COYG
All you've done is go back to a historical
past, pick out the
bad bits that make you
feel good, bandy about the idiotic comments that just fall off Mourinhos tongue «specialist in failure» and agree with the likes of Mourinho that we are no good as a club.
I'm fourteen years old starting my road to recovery and it's very fearing and to know that I have to live with it scares the living daylight a out of me I can't speak much about my cognitive behavior therapy because I've only really doing assements but I'm writing this for myself and yourself I haven't always been religious but in times of fear and need know that you aren't alone God is always there and even wen your in your
worse state I usally just lay down meditate a bit and speak to my father God and he always gives me a sense of relief this
past week I
feel like I have been a constant circle of fear but I would always freak out and be scared for no reason but just know that more than 44 million people have this you are br alone and one day you will meet your savior Jesus christ he put you in a test of life and he's going to congratulate you, you must wait for him and on another note if any one knows how to deal with the fear of the future or staying in a constant state please email me at
[email protected] thank you so much everyone and there is a recovery maybe but today or Tommie but you will overcome
Nothing speaks more to that than when Margot briefly imagines sharing her
bad - sex fling with Robert with a sympathetic boyfriend at some point in life — only to realize that she'll probably never find a man she'll
feel comfortable being herself around and sharing her
past with without facing his judgment: «but of course there was no such future, because no such boy existed, and never would.»
Don't
feel bad if you were less effective in the
past; you can always start being more effective today.
And it strikes a
bad chord with me when someone who claims to be a lactation consultant can not appreciate that women can have very personal emotional responses to breastfeeding, whether triggered by
past trauma or not, and thinks that such
feelings need to be hidden away from your delicate flowers?
These
past few months have been really hard, and harder still has been my frustrated
feeling that things should not be this hard, that this should be an adventure, that it could be so much
worse, that I am a terrible mother and that not only do I not blame Callie for hating me, I hate myself.
These
past couple of weeks I have yelled at my 14 month old daughter a couple of times and
felt like I must be the
worst mother in the whole world — to have such precious babies and then to be mad and yelling when they are too little to understand.
Once they learn to verbalize their
feelings, tantrums will be a
bad thing of the
past.
I do
feel a little
bad about not supporting small business however we are a family that has come onto hard times this
past yr... our son was in the nicu and our bills are outrageous..
They are
feeling a little guilty because
bad things always seem to happen to their neighbors, those people of other races and colors and classes who they walk
past on the street but never speak to.
In conclusion, the Inri Church leader maintained that he always
felt bad whenever his negative predictions came to
past due to lack of heeding.
Krueger said she's satisfied with the final agreement on the minimum wage, but she
feels «very
bad» for upstaters who were hoping they would get to $ 15 an hour like their NYC counterparts, but are now uncertain when — and if — they will get
past $ 12.50.
A likely explanation, she said — one that's backed up by a great deal of
past research — is that some people react
badly and get defensive when they're told they should
feel guilty about something, making them less likely to follow a desired course of action.
When I've been pregnant in the
past, I
feel better when I eat several snacks instead of meals, which I know is
bad but it just helps me to
feel less nautious (also, toward the end I can't fit much in my stomach).
I am have hypothyroid for the
past 12 years and i have been on Levoxyl.i am nealry 100 pounds overweight.I tried Tim ferris diet (low carb) for 20 days.I
felt great in the beginning, but crashed at the end of 20 days.I was bed ridden for almost a month with low BP, dizziness and severe hair fall.My
bad timing, i started birth control pills 2 months before starting the diet and was
feeling hyper.So my gynec by mistake asked me to reduce the thyroid tablets.
Feeling bad about myself because of choices I made in the
past is just a waste of time.
Once I removed the
bad programs and changed how I reacted to
past and present stress, then I was able to eat according to what made my body
feel good and discovered a really happy life.
Hi I have just started at gym I am only 32 and have really
bad wrinkles saggy knees I am a size 8 and have in the
past had weight issues but have been 9 stone for
past 5 years and solved diet issues I am currently leg training doing 15 sets of each leg weights but am worried I am not doing those correctly as I have no pain after working out now i am desperate as I really want to
feel comfortable to take my children swimming Amy help would be really appreciated Thankyou
I got fed up with it and
felt the
worst this
past year and since I had $ $ in my flexible spending acct I set up an appt with Dr J.
No strength so weak she can not open a water bottle For the
past 10 yr I have walked 3 x a wk and 1.5 yr decided I need to get serious about weight loss and strength training I recently joined the local gym and started out in the Arc trainer because I have
bad knees (one replaced) After spending 30 minutes on that I go to upper body because that is where I
feel most of my weaknesses is.
Hi trudy just needing some expert advice the
past four months have been crazy I started out on saint Johns wort... But the practitioner gave me a very high dose and I got a really
bad reaction to it... Even though it started to make me
feel s bit better... Then I went onto some anti depressants for sleep called valdoxan which helped but my hair started falling out so I stopped using them.
I know I was always pretty heavy - handed on the cheese when making nachos in the
past, so this sauce allows me to keep my nacho addiction and not
feel bad about it.
i just know how
badly i
feel when i haven't had them at these times in the
past.
Either way, I do not plan to quit this time because my way of eating in the
past made me physically
feel worse.
Allergy Season is in full swing here in L A. I have been sneezing, coughing and blowing my nose the
past few days and have basically
felt like death (ok, I may be slightly over dramatic haha but I am the
worst sick patient).
I don't think there are many of us that look back at the rubble of
past relationships or
bad decisions and don't see a range of crossroads, where we simply told that little voice to shut it down because of what
felt good in the moment.
Sometimes it isn't that
bad + other times (like the
past week) it almost
feels debilitating.
We
feel sooo
bad about it sometimes, and to make up for the
past year filled with the attention on Hudson, we wanted to spoil her this holiday season.
The
past few days there were a lot of comments from people who are having serious troubles or difficulties, and it makes me think of how not so long ago I was in the same boat (going through a break - up, hate my job, hate my body,
bad relationship with my mom, fighting with a friend) and it
felt to me like it all happened at once and it would never end (i.e. depression).
This
past week's taste of spring weather has me
feeling optimistic that the
worst of the winter season is behind us.
This
past week I just had a few moments where I just
felt like the
worst mom on the planet.
I almost
feel badly putting a sun dress on the blog in January but it was such a great fit for the weather here this
past week that I couldn't resist.