It's an honest reality that sometimes we buy gifts for
people out of habit.
Get
people out of the habit of simply aligning with the powerful.
Not exact matches
Aligning purpose with culture is about defining and embodying the values that will guide your organization towards purpose, and delivering tools to your
people - in the form
of purposeful
habits - that will allow them to live
out the purpose in the work they do every day.
When most
people set
out to create a new
habit, they make the mistake
of going too big.
Whatever the goal you want to achieve with your desired
habit, think
of what emotion you could get
out of it, usually by looking at what successful
people who do it get
out of it, and shoot for that.
The rich
habits study is really a five - year study
of 233 millionaires, 128 poor
people, and what I found
out was that wealth, success, being in the middle class, being poor, is all about your
habits.
The report was from Paul Kunert's The Register and cited a
person who told Kunert, «While these things have a
habit of fizzling
out there are some fairly serious players around the table.»
Lemonis says that Twitter can be a powerful tool for leaders, and the president should get in the
habit of consistently delivering both good news and bad news over the platform, instead
of using it to vent his frustrations or point
out other
people's mistakes or faults.
[01:10] Introduction [02:45] James welcomes Tony to the podcast [03:35] Tony's leap year birthday [04:15] Unshakeable delivers the specific facts you need to know [04:45] What James learned from Unshakeable [05:25] Most
people panic when the stock market drops [05:45] Getting rid
of your fear
of investing [06:15] Last January was the worst opening, but it was a correction [06:45] You are losing money when you sell on corrections [06:55] Bear markets come every 5 years on average [07:10] The greatest opportunity for a millennial [07:40] Waiting for corrections to invest [08:05] Warren Buffet's advice for investors [08:55] If you miss the top 10 trading days a year... [09:25] Three different investor scenarios over a 20 year period [10:40] The best trading days come after the worst [11:45] Investing in the current world [12:05] What Clinton and Bush think
of the current situation [12:45] The office is far bigger than the occupant [13:35] Information helps reduce fear [14:25] James's story
of the billionaire upset over another's wealth [14:45] What money really is [15:05] The story
of Adolphe Merkle [16:05] The story
of Chuck Feeney [16:55] The importance
of the right mindset [17:15] What fuels Tony [19:15] Find something you care about more than yourself [20:25] Make your mission to surround yourself with the right
people [21:25] Suffering made Tony hungry for more [23:25] By feeding his mind, Tony found strength [24:15] Great ideas don't interrupt you, you have to pursue them [25:05] Never - ending hunger is what matters [25:25] Richard Branson is the epitome
of hunger and drive [25:40] Hunger is the common denominator [26:30] What you can do starting right now [26:55] Success leaves clues [28:10] What it means to take massive action [28:30] Taking action commits you to following through [29:40] If you do nothing you'll learn nothing [30:20] There must be an emotional purpose behind what you're doing [30:40] How does Tony ignite creativity in his own life [32:00] «How is not as important as «why» [32:40] What and why unleash the psyche [33:25] Breaking the
habit of focusing on «how» [35:50] Deep Practice [35:10] Your desired outcome will determine your action [36:00] The difference between «what» and «why» [37:00] Learning how to chunk and group [37:40] Don't mistake movement for achievement [38:30] Tony doesn't negotiate with his mind [39:30] Change your thoughts and change your biochemistry [40:00] The bad
habit of being stressed [40:40] Beautiful and suffering states [41:50] The most important decision is to live in a beautiful state no matter what [42:40] Consciously decide to take yourself
out of suffering [43:40] Focus on appreciation, joy and love [44:30] Step
out of suffering and find the solution [45:00] Dealing with mercury poisoning [45:40] Tony's process for stepping
out of suffering [46:10] Stop identifying with thoughts — they aren't yours [47:40] Trade your expectations for appreciation [50:00] The key to life — gratitude [51:40] What is freedom for you?
And if not why and whenever you can kind
of come to that analysis and you think well why am I hanging
out with this
person who makes fun
of me every time I'm with them and who encourages me to do these
habits that are not good
habits.
However easy it is to demonize and to hate from a distance (I won't provide links, but, trust me, the demonization and the hate was quite evident online), it's a bit harder to do so in the context
of a small college, where
habits of conversation are encouraged, where
people talk the talk (even if — sinners as we all are — we don't always walk the walk)
of fairminded openness to the truth, and where Others (not «The Other,» which, as a colleague rightly suggested, is too abstract) are
people we encounter day in and day
out.
This new breed
of church planters love hanging
out with
people who use use foul language and have bad
habits.
Maybe we find the words
out there, in the marketplace, a coffee shop, a stadium, where
people aren't dressed for church and can speak their own true words (if we'll listen) about the flesh, their fears, the blessing and curse
of family, the craziness, not to mention dreams, fantasies,
habits and memories.
As well, it drives me crazy when sincere
people veer away from sincere «church talk» and
out of habit or influence, start using the buzz words and «churchy» talk... I want to shake them and remind them they are better than that... to go back to their most sincere and honest use
of language.
While the
habit of trying to leap swiftly in and
out of the moccasins
of others is easily formed, where you are after transmigrating can be terribly hard to determine; too much altogether unfamiliar experience may have gone into shaping the
person who lives in those moccasins.
Similarly, the «soft» conversion expected
of believers hardly calls for a
person to change his
habits at all, but for the two painless 20 - minute periods a day,
out of which come new life.
Yes, some
people pray incoherently
out of habit or because they are not being thoughtful, but sometimes the prayers you criticise result from spiritual emotion and depth
of experience
of God - especially (I think) speaking in tongues.
Out of a sense
of duty, guilt, or
habit,
persons continue in such groups, cluttering their schedules with a plethora
of meetings.
Living in God's love is a daily practice and
habit that can be developed, and which leads
people out of their woundedness.
«I prefer a church which is bruised, hurting and dirty because it has been
out on the streets, rather than a church which is unhealthy from being confined and from clinging to its own security... More than by fear
of going astray, my hope is that we will be moved by the fear
of remaining shut up within structures which give us a false sense
of security, within rules which make us harsh judges, within
habits which make us feel safe, while at our door
people are starving and Jesus does not tire
of saying to us: «Give them something to eat.»»
It's one
of the
habits of my heart: I light the candle in the middle
of the house and every time I see it, I breathe
out the names and their places, the
people I'm carrying for the day.
I guess in my personal experience
people who were religious enough to say «bless you» (outside
of the sneeze ordeal which I even say bless you
out of childish
habit) did it as some kind
of display
of their awesome religiousness vs other
people's sinner ways.
In discussing why proofs for the existence
of God are valuable, even though
people might still reject them, Hartshorne points
out that, at the very least, the proofs illuminate the price
of rejecting the conclusion: namely, having to relinquish some
of their premises or
habits of inference (pp. 257f).
People in business operate not only with profits in view but also
out of deep - seated
habits of mind with regard to how profits are earned.
It's one
of the worst
habits a
person can have, but we just can't seem to figure it
out.
It should be an adage, a way to say goodbye, passed down from generation to generation until
people who don't know why they're saying it do so
out of habit and tradition.
If you are one
of those who prefer to buy on brand then you are potentially missing
out on getting the best mattress that is most suitable to you and your sleeping
habits, but you should at least check
out customer satisfaction scores and feedback to see what other
people are saying about them.
Not a lot
of people make it a
habit to read the nutritional charts on food packaging, but next time you are
out shopping take a look — it may shock you.
I've long felt like the lone voice
out there promoting minimally processed food as a way to address poor eating
habits: I think that when we insist on fresh, we are turning our back on all kinds
of good foods, and
people who can't afford fresh foods then just throw in the towel and go for junk.
Most
of the work
of clearing minor blocks that come about due to bad emailing
habits is manual and cumbersome (it involves a lot
of filling
out web forms and begging for forgiveness from the right
people).
This new period
of interruption is about breaking into the new social and entertainment
habits that
people are now following -
habits that are locking
out traditional forms
of media engagement, as well as traditional forms
of advertising and marketing.
«Those data, taken as a whole, may provide very precise information on the private lives
of the
persons whose data are retained, such as the
habits of everyday life, permanent or temporary places
of residence, daily or other movements, activities carried
out, social relationships and the social environments frequented.»
«Fingerprinting on computers is invisible to most
people but there are companies
out there who are already using these techniques to learn more information about individuals, about their interests and their
habits,» says Lachlan Kang, a Computer Science PhD student who is conducting this study as part
of a wider project on privacy, within the University's Schools
of Computer Science and Mathematical Sciences.
Now researchers at the INSEAD - Sorbonne University Behavioral Lab and the University
of Bonn said they have discovered how the brain lights up when under the sway
of the placebo effect, a potential step in figuring
out how to train
people to recognize when they are falling victim to this
habit of human nature.
Out of 3,635
people surveyed about their health and reading
habits, bookworms were 20 percent less likely to die over the next 12 years — even after researchers controlled for factors such as gender, education, and cognitive ability.
From these questions, they gleaned whether a
person has a strong instigation
habit — one where a cue triggers the instantaneous decision to exercise — and whether a
person has a strong execution
habit — that is, knowing exactly what kind
of exercise they'll do once you get to the gym, or being able to go through the motions
of an exercise routine while being mentally checked
out.
We say yes to things that don't necessarily serve us, connect with
people who take our energy rather than energize us, and spend hours
of our precious time doing things
out of habit or to please others.
«In the future, I see Ingestibles becoming way more accessible to everyone and starting to pop up in unsuspecting (more mainstream) locations that will allow
people to make a daily
habit out of them,» notes Amanda Chantal Bacon, L.A. — based chef and founder
of Moon Juice.
These are things we use, in the form
of habit, addiction,
people, places, and things in our lives that allow us to mellow
out the feeling that we are actually not pursuing our deepest vision.
Many
people hold onto way more tension than necessary simply
out of habit.
The nasty
habit of skipping breakfast and routinely running
out the door without waking up the body
out of its fasting mode could hurt your performance, muscle gains and overall health and well - being, so if you're guilty
of this, read this article to get inspired by some breakfast ideas straight
out of the diets
of the fittest
people around!
makes me so sad to think
of all this
out for young
people to see and make bad life
habits.
Breaking the
habit can be hard, and a lot
of people think they have to cut
out the not - so - healthy things they love immediately (and without saying a proper goodbye).
This can be more helpful for those who say that «they are too busy» to workout or just have a bad
habit of forgetting things that are needed to go workout (leading to another reason why
people make excuses to get
out of working
out).
People get into bad
habits regarding activity and diet and before they know it, they're
out of control.
Many
people like to spend a lot
of time in the water when they have a bath, but this
habit will only serve to dry
out and irritate the skin.
Similarly you don't even know me so what facts are you using to reach the conclusion that I am a
person acting
out of habits acquired in the past rather than someone who has formulated a set
of dietary guidelines based on the best current practise / evidence.
Would this be a confounding factor that paints a picture
of unhealthy
habits that was ignored — just like as Ravi pointed
out above so were the foods these
people ate with their eggs over the years, which probably included white or wheat toast, with a schmear
of margarine (industrial seed oils & fake trans fats) & some jelly or jam (high fructose corn syrup)?
Whether this involves using smaller plates, keeping «seconds»
out of immediate reach, or hiding the chocolate, altering the food environment helps
people lose more weight than trying to change eating
habits or food choices, the researchers found.
Instead, most
people just grab something quick and convenient to make the hungry feeling go away, or they binge on junk food
out of habit, boredom, as a «reward,» or as a way to distract themselves from negative feelings.