How do we make the shift towards
positive thought and feeling patterns?
We then have a choice: We can allow that emotion to take control or use mindfulness to work toward replacing it with
positive thoughts and feelings.
It's easier to find an action that naturally lends itself to
positive thinking and feeling, rather than trying to control your thoughts.
Research is very clear that even after they have faced a serious life - changing event resilient people focus on
positive thoughts and feeling that might come up — whether it is a moment of peacefulness, calmness or delight over a visit from a child or the beauty of a flower.
Getting in the habit of sharing
positive thoughts and feelings rather than withholding them is often a very simple thing do, and can help build a stronger sense of connection that will help partners weather storms much better, since each partner feels appreciated and loved.
Research shows that women who had an orgasm disclosed more
positive thoughts and feelings about their partner afterward than those who didn't.
Not exact matches
Those who struggle to generate a genuine smile prior to a meeting should
think of a
positive mood changer: a kiss from a spouse, a hug from a child, scoring the winning run in a softball, or anything else that induces a warm
and fuzzy
feeling.
Vaden says, «When you ask yourself that question, you will find that you immediately
feel less pressure to only focus on the urgent things that are pressing today or this week
and you instead gain a perspective to start
thinking about what you can be doing now to make a
positive impact on the future.
Contrary to what marketers might
think, most consumers like how they look
and feel positive about their bodies, according to a new report from Havas Worldwide.
«Working out in the morning also results in numerous benefits such as upbeat mood,
positive thinking, more healthy metabolism, etc.»
And you only need five minutes to
feel these effects, he insists.
The third reason that employees
feel negative about the workplace is that even though managers
think they are creating a
positive environment, they frequently fail to deal effectively
and efficiently with problem performers.
The survey, with responses compiled both during
and after Trump's November election victory, showed 72 % of members
felt that
positive U.S. - China relations were «critical» to business, but only 17 %
thought they would improve in 2017.
Any time you
feel angry, sad, frustrated or just generally uncomfortable, repeat
positive thoughts over
and over again.
«I
think with the focus being on earnings
and not macro, it
feels like we shifted to micro rather than macro
and that micro is
positive.
As for the reason Jesus was put to death, Cox locates the proximate cause not in humanity's sinfulness; nor in Jewish outrage over Jesus» claims to be the Son of God
and the Way, the Truth,
and the Life; nor in the jealousy of religious leaders threatened by Jesus» miracles (which Cox suggests were the fruit of
positive thinking on the part of those who «
feel» healed after touching Jesus); nor in his teachings (which Cox insists were uncontroversial among the Jews).
Researchers in the latter field have known for some time that people don't
think like adding machines, tallying up potential
positive and negative outcomes («gains»
and «losses»), but
feel worse about a given unit of loss than about a corresponding unit of gain.
They call them peddlers of religion,
and they do not mean that in a
positive way, but rather are referring to people they believe are trying to push their own agenda of a psuedo - religious toxic mix of some sort of religious something, politics, power, control, personal profit (
think $ $ $)
and efforts to
feel good about ones self while at the same time looking down on neighbors (condescension) rather than loving neighbors.
The word is also used for
positive and negative
feeling tones accompanying sensations, mental images or more complex
thoughts.
Moreover, the spiritual but not religious reflect the «me» generation of self - obsessed, truth - is - whatever - you -
feel - it - to - be
thinking, where big, historic, demanding institutions that have expectations about behavior, attitudes
and observance
and rules are jettisoned yet nothing
positive is put in replacement.
And he thinks it is not cogent to argue that all truth must be partly positive and that the complete absence of feeling has no positive meaning but is a mere negati
And he
thinks it is not cogent to argue that all truth must be partly
positive and that the complete absence of feeling has no positive meaning but is a mere negati
and that the complete absence of
feeling has no
positive meaning but is a mere negation.
More generally, we see that the use of cosmetic neurology
and cosmetic surgery so far is mostly about making oneself look younger
and smarter,
feel more
positive, be more engaged
and engaging,
think more clearly,
and remember more precisely.
I'm going to do a big social media cull now (obviously not Ella) but there are a certain few people who claim to be so
positive, but really I
think there is a fine line between being
positive (i.e. look at me, I've 3 kids, a full time job, a flat tummy,
and I'm a healthy eater, non stop good doer, if you can do it I can too person)
and just being annoying
and making you
feel inadequate as I can't juggle all of those things at all
and constantly
feel overwhelmed!!
As for Giroud I hope what I'm hearing is not true.You get the
feeling that once Lacazette starts scoring he just won't like it.He's also another overrated player who's also hear because of Wenger's kindness.Apart from the fact that he's good with his head I don't see the
positives of keeping here
and even Welbeck.We need players who can push Lacazette to perform
and these are just not the players.They are more of rotation players.Do you
think if Welbeck
and Giroud were at top form they can challenge Laca at his best?I always laugh at our strikers though.On one hand, one doesn't fit our style of play but at least he can finish.On the other hand, the one who fits our style of play can't even score a goal.I can't believe we are joking with such a crucial role.I'm sick
and tired of seeing average strikers in the club.It's been painful watching the likes of Bendtner
and Chamakh already.Now I have to cope with this.
Even though, I
felt there were
positives from Ozil, Alexis
and Giroud who were up for the challenge, before we got to 3:0 down
and I turned off the TV, because I
think I had seen enough.
But if I dwell on the
thought that we could win, I start
feeling good
and lively,
and my mind begins to dig out the
positives of our team.
With that in mind I
think that Wenger is waiting for the right time to make his announcement
and a win over Man City at the Emirates on Sunday would certainly make us all
feel more
positive and potentially receptive to the news.
While it is pretty difficult for anyone connected with Arsenal to
feel very
positive about anything football-wise at the minute, after a comprehensive stuffing from the Premier League leaders
and now almost certain champions Chelsea last weekend, I do not
think we should be all doom
and gloom.
I
feel we did well against city too; I get we didn't do well against dortmund
and I don't
think anybody is more disappointed than me but let's move on, focus on villa on saturday, let's stop d negative vibes; let us together create a
positive energy around our club
Considering how well the team has been playing since January, it is even more disappointing, but a lot of that
feeling comes because of the great expectations we had
and in the cold light of day, I
think there are good reasons for Arsenal fans to be
feeling fairly
positive as we head into the international break.
Minus some flashes from both Sead
and Iwobi,
and a workingman - like effort from Elneny, we learned very little... so here are a few of my observations from today's game, which highlight my concerns about this team moving forward... the fact that Mertz started this game, regardless of our injuries or those being «rested», should be a serious red flag for any true Arsenal fan... if Wenger is preparing to use Mertz with any regularity then the whole thing is a moot point because we are in deep shit... the fact is no quality team would ever have this tin soldier anywhere near there starting eleven except to groom their youthful players, who in turn should be playing in this type of game instead... I can only hope he was simply throwing him a bone for the FA appearance
and for agreeing to stay on following the season, but I
think the most likely answer is that Wenger's fragile relationship with the fan - base can't be ignored so he
felt his experience was a safer bet... unfortunately not a
positive choice for a team trying to move forward (same old, same old)
not really making the news, the atmosphere on last wednesday was really strange, silent, step by step to normal football, but you can't throw away your
thoughts immediately, I just got a glimpse of Enkes personality during a film of him shown before the match, I can't realize how hard it must be for his wife to lose him, tomorrow the players of Germans first Bundesliga will wear a black ribbon again, but I
think it won't affect the atmosphere like it has with the national team despite of Hannover of course, people will be enthousiastic again, but there is the idea of an «Enke donation» which I like, will keep his name alive, will take some
positive emotions on this tragedy
and a kind of appeal for everyone to reflect the important things of life
and control your own behaviour, I hope so at least,
and I hope his wife will cope with that situation,
and again: it was really hard for the German nationl team to play under these circumstances, to lose someone close in this way is hard to deal with, on the other hand it causes a close solidarity
feeling I
think, but of course the world will not change, things are returning to the old soon, but nonetheless for me this tragedy is a kind of human wake - up call, at least a call
and then you continue
Reframe the
thought or
feeling and find something
positive in it, instead of sweeping it under the rug.
Depending on the situation, focusing on
thinking and positive self - talk first can impact a child's
feelings, which then impacts her behavior.
There is much to
feel and say about all of that, of course, but quite simply, I'm
thinking today about how our experience, thus far, has been a truly
positive one.
I just
felt strongly that we were in a
positive environment — Why would I then talk badly about one of my peers
and ask them what they
thought about this situation?
Expressing negative
feelings is easier than expressing
positive ones, so next time you're about to pass off a not - very - nice comment,
think twice — it will be stored in your child's head for a long time, she will «replay» your words to herself over
and over again, because they matter to her, even if she won't admit it — is it really necessary?
I just
feel so passionate about the
positive discipline stuff
and sure hope folks get a lot out of it, or at least it gets them
thinking of ways to help encourage, empower
and develop capable kids.
But I
think when kids can have that experience of
feeling like they're part of a team, group, or community — in school or in camp — it is enormously powerful
and positive for them.
Some of you may be reading this
and thinking «I have made my choice as to care provider
and I don't
feel I want to change that now, are there any other choices that I can make so that I can get the care I want
and the most
positive birth experience possible?»
We can adjust our
thoughts and feelings about the struggles of parenting
and become calmer
and more
positive parents.
They hadn't said anything to the florist about rainbows,
and we only use the «rainbow baby» terminology sparingly, yet, I
felt great emotion over the coincidence of it all
and couldn't help but
think of it as a
positive sign.
It's very intriguing for little ones to
feel like they can «fix» something,
and often the idea that they have that kind of power makes all the difference in the frequency
and intensity of meltdowns, not to mention the
positive impact of learning to
think and care about the
feelings of others.
I am
positive and strive on postive parenting
and although I still have a lot of anxiety like you on baby 2 I
felt ready for it
and so I
think we did well.
One of the reasons
positive parenting is so important to me is that I want my kids to be considerate
and thoughtful of the
feelings of others, as I
think the world is really lacking in considerate adults.
Our
thoughts and feelings can be permanently redirected in
positive ways,
and relatively quickly, too.
I
feel that women
and their partners do much better with privacy
and intimacy during the birth process
and that, my role is to sometimes protect that privacy
and intimacy first of all by educating them that that might be really important
and to talk about you know the effect both
positive and negative about um, support during that time can be or even just letting people know hey, we're in labour, the Facebook kind of thing but you know keep it quiet, keep it down, don't fritter the energy away by drawing other people to it or drawing the expectation that something's happening rather than just letting something evolve... I
think guarding the space by keeping the space as calm
and quiet
and private as possible is key
and giving people tools to do that during the prenatal time to deal with over eager family members or friends.
I had an episiotomy
and I
think the pain medication, they put me on, was just, I'm really sensitive to stuff, so I was just, take me about two weeks to be able to take care of myself with the loneliness, like tiny infant, like when I
think about the first couple weeks with him, the most
positive I
think about is sitting in my glider after I've nursed him,
and that
feeling of that little head on your chest.
However, gaining awareness
and insight into how you
feel and acknowledging those
feelings gives you the ability to transform those
thoughts into something more
positive.
For instance, when parents wonder aloud top their young child about what their baby sibling
thinks,
feel and wants, the child develops more empathy for their sibling
and the relationship between the two siblings is more
positive.
Have you check
and see if your pregnant but if you are
feeling cramps its because your body is changing i was in sooo much pain then couple month later the mucus discharge will come out everything will be okay
think positive.