Not exact matches
Parents should encourage discussions while respecting the
preferences of those children who rely upon
other means
to work out difficult situations.
Nipple
preference is also tied
to parents and caregivers attitudes and usage of nipples
other than the breast and breastfeeding.
Parents who use formula may as well use price and the
preferences of their child
to select a formula (brands do have different tastes depending, for example, on whether added omega 3 is derived from fish oils, fungi or
other sources).
We can go back and forth all day about
parenting philosophies, but at the end of the day, that whole «proper role of government» question boils down
to this — if you want the government imposing upon the free interactions of
others to serve your
preferences, at the very least, it's incumbent upon you
to prove that the government action (in this case the classroom environment) is the independent variable that deterministically thwarts your goals for your child.
In
other words at least pre speech infants are still completing their gestation, so
to speak, and so my own
preference both as a father and scientist is
to encourage
parents to let the infant and toddler sleep as close
to them as is safe for as long as they can, without specifying an artificial, arbitrary «cut off.»
All
parents have different lifestyle, different needs and different
preferences — some will prefer an umbrella stroller for quick rides around the city, while
others will choose something that is better for longer trips
to the parks, couples who love traveling will consider an umbrella stroller that is the most light and compact so they can get it
to the plane, train or car, some
parents pay great attention
to the number of accessories.
There are even baby carrier libraries organised by
parents for
parents,
to support each
other finding the baby sling that works best for their lifestyle and
preferences.
A bit of trial and error is a better way
to find which bottle perfectly suits baby and
parent needs, function requirements, cost budget and any
other personal
preference.
The court awards custody in the following order of
preference unless in a particular case the best interest of the child requires otherwise:
to both
parents jointly or
to either
parent;
to a person or persons in whose home the child has been living and where the child has had a wholesome and stable environment;
to any person related within the third degree of consanguinity;
to any
other person or persons whom the court finds suitable and able
to provide proper care.
Michigan: Custody is awarded based on the best interests of the child, based on the following factors: moral character and prudence of the
parents; physical, emotional, mental, religious and social needs of the child; capability and desire of each
parent to meet the child's emotional, educational, and
other needs;
preference of the child, if the child is of sufficient age and maturity; the love and affection and
other emotional ties existing between the child and each
parent; the length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the desirability of maintaining continuity; the desire and ability of each
parent to allow an open and loving frequent relationship between the child and
other parent; the child's adjustment
to his / her home, school, and community; the mental and physical health of all parties; permanence of the family unit of the proposed custodial home; any evidence of domestic violence; and
other factors.
A good midpoint leaves certain areas open
to discussion, but the
parent reserves the right
to make the final decisions, while the
other areas are discussed openly by all with each child's
preference given as much priority as possible.
Some children need assistance longer than
others, and while it is every
parent's individual decision, the Montessori way takes into account the needs and
preferences of the child; children are not forced
to comply with sleeping arrangements or expectations that they are insecure or upset by.
Parents also recognized major benefits of having their child registered as an organ donor, including having their
preferences known in advance (51 percent), having an opportunity for their child
to help
other children (70 percent), and increasing the number of child - sized organs for transplant (67 percent).
Likewise, if you're a single
parent, you can indicate a
preference to meet
other singles with kids.
Of course, whether educational
preferences based on demographics or dissatisfaction with existing school performance manifest themselves in support for charter schools depends on
other circumstances as well: notably, the political power of opponents
to charter schools, the most prominent opponents being teachers unions; and the degree of school choice already available
to parents.
Parents who want to effect change in the district school system often need the support of a majority of school board members, which means that parents who disagree must vie against each other in a political process to have their preferences exp
Parents who want
to effect change in the district school system often need the support of a majority of school board members, which means that
parents who disagree must vie against each other in a political process to have their preferences exp
parents who disagree must vie against each
other in a political process
to have their
preferences expressed.
Part of the point I was trying
to make the
other day, with my «More money
to the
parents» post, was that plenty of these
parents, including poor
parents, are a lot smarter than we — the system — gives them credit for and that if they had more choice (or the money
to exercise those
preferences) and fewer structural and institutional impediments
to overcome, you'd see big changes in some of our slackard schools.
... While the Education Act and the Regulations related
to it acknowledge the importance and relevance of considering parental
preferences and encourages communication with
parents before implementing certain decisions, the legislation does not give
parents the absolute power
to make all decisions about the education of their children within the public education system, especially in the areas of curriculum and
other related aspects of programming, such as teaching methodology.
(1) the temperament and developmental needs of the child; (2) the capacity and the disposition of the
parents to understand and meet the needs of the child; (3) the
preferences of each child; (4) the wishes of the
parents as
to custody; (5) the past and current interaction and relationship of the child with each
parent, the child's siblings, and any
other person, including a grandparent, who may significantly affect the best interest of the child; (6) the actions of each
parent to encourage the continuing
parent child relationship between the child and the
other parent, as is appropriate, including compliance with court orders; (7) the manipulation by or coercive behavior of the
parents in an effort
to involve the child in the
parents» dispute; (8) any effort by one
parent to disparage the
other parent in front of the child; (9) the ability of each
parent to be actively involved in the life of the child; (10) the child's adjustment
to his or her home, school, and community environments; (11) the stability of the child's existing and proposed residences; (12) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved, except that a disability of a proposed custodial
parent or
other party, in and of itself, must not be determinative of custody unless the proposed custodial arrangement is not in the best interest of the child; (13) the child's cultural and spiritual background; (14) whether the child or a sibling of the child has been abused or neglected; (15) whether one
parent has perpetrated domestic violence or child abuse or the effect on the child of the actions of an abuser if any domestic violence has occurred between the
parents or between a
parent and another individual or between the
parent and the child; (16) whether one
parent has relocated more than one hundred miles from the child's primary residence in the past year, unless the
parent relocated for safety reasons; and (17)
other factors as the court considers necessary.
Those factors include the age, physical and mental condition of the child and
parents, the relationship existing between each
parent and the child, the needs of the child, the role each
parent has played in the upbringing of the child, the propensity of each
parent to support the child's contact with the
other, the reasonable
preference of the child and instances of family abuse.
In Virginia, a court may consider any of the following factors, among
others, in making a decision: The age and physical and mental condition of the child, giving due consideration
to the child's changing developmental needs; the age and physical and mental condition of each
parent; the relationship existing between each
parent and each child, giving due consideration
to the positive involvement with the child's life, the ability
to accurately assess and meet the emotional, intellectual and physical needs of the child; the needs of the child, giving due consideration
to other important relationships of the child, including but not limited
to siblings, peers and extended family members; the role that each
parent has played and will play in the future, in the upbringing and care of the child; the propensity of each
parent to actively support the child's contact and relationship with the
other parent, including whether a
parent has unreasonably denied the
other parent access
to or visitation with the child; the relative willingness and demonstrated ability of each
parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child, and the ability of each
parent to cooperate in and resolve disputes regarding matters affecting the child; the reasonable
preference of the child, if the court deems the child
to be of reasonable intelligence, understanding, age and experience
to express such a
preference; any history of family abuse; and such
other factors as the court deems necessary and proper
to the determination.
Each
parent will try
to come up with reasons as
to why their
preference is the best but usually in such cases none of the two is better than the
other; it is just a matter of differing opinions.
In its application in a given case, the best interest of the child means what a judge says it means, but a number of best interest factors come into play, such as the child's age, gender, mental and physical health, the health of
parents, the lifestyle and
other social considerations of
parents, the love and emotional ties between
parent and child, the
parents» ability
to provide food, shelter, clothing and medical care, the quality of schools of the child, the child's
preference if the child is over 12, the ability and willingness of the
parent to foster a healthy relationship between child and
other parent, and the stability of the environment.
Virginia law dictates factors that judges must consider in awarding custody, including the child's age and physical and mental condition, the
parents» ages as well as their physical and mental conditions, the
parent - child relationships, the child's relationship with siblings and extended family, each
parents» history as caregiver, each
parent's willingness
to support the child's bond with the
other parent, the child's
preference, and any history of family abuse.
Michigan courts will consider the «reasonable
preferences» of children if they are mature enough
to express an acceptable reason for wanting
to live with one
parent rather than the
other.
This is rarely controlling — if all
other factors favor the
parent the child does not want
to live with, this would override the child's
preference.
Some common themes include the child's
preference if he's old enough, which
parent traditionally cared for the children when the marriage was intact, and whether either
parent is likely
to interfere with the children's relationship with the
other parent.
Some states are amending laws
to adopt a
preference and presumption for joint custody, while
others are amending laws
to allow joint custody only when the
parents agree
to it.
While mental illness is often one factor, its impact may be offset by
other concerns, such as the relationship each
parent has
to the child, the child's
preference, and the proximity of each
parent to the child's school and activities.
Some children might not enjoy being touched, and children will have their own
preferences, so it is important in this case for
parents and carers
to find
other ways
to connect.
One can't help but wonder whether this «universal»
preference for similar
others is nature (i.e., we're born with it) or nurture (i.e.,
others, such as our
parents, teach us
to like similar
others and not like dissimilar
others).
These include the age and maturity of the child, the age and physical condition of the
parents, the child's relationship with the
parents, the child's relationships with
other family members, the willingness and ability of each
parent to maintain a close relationship with the child, the child's
preference and any history of family abuse.
To make this decision, the courts consider many factors including, but not limited to, the child's preference if he or she is mature enough to make a decision; the ability and willingness of each parent to provide for the child's physical, intellectual and emotional well - being; the willingness of the custodial parent to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the other paren
To make this decision, the courts consider many factors including, but not limited
to, the child's preference if he or she is mature enough to make a decision; the ability and willingness of each parent to provide for the child's physical, intellectual and emotional well - being; the willingness of the custodial parent to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the other paren
to, the child's
preference if he or she is mature enough
to make a decision; the ability and willingness of each parent to provide for the child's physical, intellectual and emotional well - being; the willingness of the custodial parent to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the other paren
to make a decision; the ability and willingness of each
parent to provide for the child's physical, intellectual and emotional well - being; the willingness of the custodial parent to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the other paren
to provide for the child's physical, intellectual and emotional well - being; the willingness of the custodial
parent to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the other paren
to provide continuing contact between the child and the noncustodial
parent; and abusive or criminal conduct by the
other parent.
These factors include the child = s sibling relationships, the
preference of the child, the attempts of one
parent to turn the child against the
other parent, any history of drug or alcohol abuse, and any
other relevant factors.
Where the limitations of RCW 26.09.191 are not dispositive of the child's residential schedule, the court shall consider the following factors: (i) The relative strength, nature, and stability of the child's relationship with each
parent; (ii) The agreements of the parties, provided they were entered into knowingly and voluntarily; (iii) Each
parent's past and potential for future performance of
parenting functions as defined in RCW 26.09.004 (3), including whether a
parent has taken greater responsibility for performing
parenting functions relating
to the daily needs of the child; (iv) The emotional needs and developmental level of the child; (v) The child's relationship with siblings and with
other significant adults, as well as the child's involvement with his or her physical surroundings, school, or
other significant activities; (vi) The wishes of the
parents and the wishes of a child who is sufficiently mature
to express reasoned and independent
preferences as
to his or her residential schedule; and (vii) Each
parent's employment schedule, and shall make accommodations consistent with those schedules.
On this and
other issues with long - range impact — for example, the changing nature of children's visitation
preferences as they mature —
parents must be helped
to envision the future and plan accordingly.
Many states include consideration of the long - term family relationship and give
preference to the
parent who is most likely
to encourage an ongoing, healthy relationship for the children with their
other parent.
Florida considers factors including which
parent serves as the child's primary caregiver, whether each
parent can provide a stable home environment, the bond each
parent has with the child, each
parent's ability
to help foster the relationship between the child and the
other parent, the child's
preference and any evidence of spousal or child abuse.
Joint or sole custody may be awarded based on the best interests of the child and
other factors that include 1) the
preference of the child, 2) the desire and ability of each
parent to allow an open and loving relationship between the child and the
other parent, 3) the childs health, safety and welfare, the nature and contact with both
parents and 4) the history of alcohol and drug use.
Answer: Unfortunately, sometimes kids are «coached» by one
parent to recite certain derogatory facts about the
other parent or
to state
preferences or positions that don't reflect a child's true feelings but rather the positions of that
parent.
According
to divorce experts,
parents are wise
to communicate in a clear way with each
other and deliver a consistent message when their child or adolescent voices a
preference to change their living arrangement.
We've had situations where a child has specifically expressed a
preference to live with the
other parent but, upon our investigation and evaluation, we learned that the child's
preference was the result of the emotional abuse, pressure or alienation.
During a divorce, children often want
to express their wishes about custody, especially if they have a stronger
preference to live with one
parent instead of the
other.
When it comes
to deciding custody, many factors are considered by the court: fitness of the
parents, character and reputation of the
parents, desire of the
parents, any agreements between the
parents, potential
to maintain familial relations, child's
preference, material opportunities affecting the child, child's age and health, suitability of the parental homes, whether the non-custodial
parent will have reasonable visitation, how long the child has been separated from a
parent, any prior abandonment or surrender of the child, or any
other relevant facts.
(1) the temperament and developmental needs of the child; (2) the capacity and the disposition of the
parents to understand and meet the needs of the child; (3) the
preferences of each child; (4) the wishes of the
parents as
to custody; (5) the past and current interaction and relationship of the child with each
parent, the child's siblings, and any
other person, including a grandparent, who may significantly affect the best interest of the child; (6) the actions of each
parent to encourage the continuing
parent child relationship between the child and the
other parent, as is appropriate, including compliance with court orders; (7) the manipulation by or coercive behavior of the
parents in an effort
to involve the child in the
parents» dispute; (8) any effort by one
parent to disparage the
other parent in front of the child; (9) the ability of each
parent to be actively involved in the life of the child; (10) the child's adjustment
to his or her home, school, and community environments; (11) the stability of the child's existing and proposed residences; (12) the mental and physical health of all individuals involved, except that a disability of a proposed custodial
parent or
other party, in and of itself, must not be determinative of custody unless the proposed custodial arrangement is not in the best interest of the child; (13) the child's cultural and spiritual background; (14) whether the child or a sibling of the child has been abused or neglected; (15) whether one
parent has perpetrated domestic violence or child abuse or the effect on the child of the actions of an abuser if any domestic violence has occurred between the
parents or between a
parent and another individual or between the
parent and the child; (16) whether one
parent has relocated more than one hundred miles from the child's primary residence in the past year, unless the
parent relocated for safety reasons; and (17)
other factors as the court considers necessary
The child's
preference is controlling — this means if he says he doesn't want
to move and wants
to remain with his
other parent, the court is obligated
to grant his request unless his chosen custodial
parent is unfit.
Understand that if you express strong feelings about not wanting
to be subjected
to the flip - flop of joint custody, or a
preference for living with one
parent over the
other, or not visiting at a particular time, you will be diagnosed with parental alienation syndrome, possibly forced
to live with the
parent you prefer less, and subjected
to therapy
to convince you
to change your opinion.
Saying «I want equal time with each of you» doesn't mean that's actually what they want; it's what they think is fair
to their
parents, and it will enable them
to avoid expressing a
preference for one over the
other.