Sometimes welcoming your second, third or even fourth child may be even more intimidating than your first as you have the added task of
preparing older siblings for the big change.
The best way to
prepare the older sibling for the birth of the baby is to explain realistically just how it really will be.
«Before the baby is born,» she explains, «you need to
prepare the older sibling (s) for what is to come, what to expect.
Not exact matches
When two young
siblings spend a rainy day inside the house, arguing constantly and irritating their mother at every turn, the routine is wonderfully shaken when the six - year -
old suddenly offers to help
prepare dinner.
There's more information on how to
prepare siblings for the birth of a new baby over on babyReady where they suggest: make a game out of the kinds of strange noises that you may make when you are in labour, try not to make too many changes to your child's routine close to the delivery, let your
older child open the baby's gifts, and take your
older child to your doctor (or midwife) visits, and more.
It's the
old idea that the father
prepares the child for the outside world, the world beyond the mother — in this case the world of friends and
siblings,» Mr Steele said.
For tips on how to manage your child's expectations, involve her in the preparations, and lay the groundwork for acceptance of the new baby, see our piece on
preparing your 2 - year -
old for a new
sibling.
I am the
oldest of seven
siblings and still am completely lost on how to
prepare my 4 year -
old daughter for her brother / sister I have an appointment later this month to find out.
So do you have suggestions on how to
prepare older child for their rival of her new
sibling?»
I've discovered since finding out we're pregnant with our second child that there is great information available... for
preparing a two, three, or four - year
old to welcome a new
sibling.
One of the many things we did to
prepare our
older daughter for her
siblings was to go to the toy store and have her pick something for each of the twins!
When I was expecting my infant son, we introduced a baby doll to
prepare my
older child for her new
sibling.
Visit our Tips for
Preparing for a New
Sibling for more ideas about getting your
older child ready for a new baby brother or sister.
Preparing your 1 - year -
old for a new
sibling Preparing your 2 - year -
old for a new
sibling Preparing your 3 - to 4 - year -
old for a new
sibling Preparing your 5 - to 8 - year -
old for a new
sibling Find out how other moms and dads laid the groundwork for a new brother or sister: Parents» Voices: How can we
prepare our child for a
sibling?
For tips on how to manage your child's expectations, involve him in the preparations, and lay the groundwork for accepting the new baby, see our article on
preparing your 1 - year -
old for a new
sibling.
So, do you have any suggestions on how to
prepare our
older child for their rival of her new
sibling?
As soon as you have a visible bump, or a picture from your scan, start
preparing your
older child for their
sibling's arrival.
Understand how to
prepare your
older child, introduce the new baby and encourage a healthy
sibling bond.
You start out as a first year Hogwarts student with an
older sibling who caused some trouble in the past at Hogwarts, making things quite awkward for your reputation as you
prepare for the Sorting Ceremony.
Older siblings were put in charge of younger
siblings, children who could
prepare food were put to work, while Mom and Dad protected the clan from predatory animals and neighbors.
Comment: Female
older siblings are far more likely than male
older siblings to be given child care responsibilities while young; teenage girls are far more likely than teenage boys to hold childcare and babysitting jobs; new mothers are far more likely to have
prepared for parenthood by reading pregnancy - to - parenting articles and books as well as talking with (and spending social time with) primary caregiving women friends and relatives and their children; the ever - present months - long pregnancy itself initiates mothers into a mindset of habitual constant awareness of child - whereabouts; and various biological and hormonal factors make mothers more responsive to routine infant cues (other than severe distress cries.)