If the parent has the ability to help the child
process upset feelings and repair the rupture, the child begins to develop emotional literacy, or the ability to experience and navigate feelings, conflicts, and relationships constructively (Steiner & Perry).
Not exact matches
Becoming
upset at your child could delay the potty training
process, by making them
feel self conscious about going and not wanting to go.
I think she's gone through the
process enough times to realise that if any
upset feelings come up she will get through it with my empathy and listening, and end up having a great time.
He was still
upset from something else and didn't know how to
process all his
feelings.
Re # 5 — Christy and Spencer have been quite critical that as arguably the top experts in the analysis of satellite date for temperature information, they have stopped receiving papers for review as part of the peer review
process (in particular, they were
upset at not receiving the Nature article for review due to the errors they
felt were significant and obvious to them).
Children have a fundamental need to express the range of emotions that arise through the
process of growing up — and to have these emotions validated by the people around them (eg «It's okay to
feel upset when something bad happens»).
Many factors contribute to the way we
process information, so it makes sense that many factors also contribute to how
upset we
feel after a breakup.
which makes them second guess their own
feelings... Other times, children are scoled, ignored, or hurt and this just brings up a bigger emotional charge that perpetuates the tantrum or «crying because I was crying and told not to cry... which makes me cry...» Other children just really need long to
process whatever it might be and that is ok too... But if a child isn't receiving the care and information to develop the skills for self - regulation, such as been allowed to cry in arms or being supported / listed / validated in a compassionate attuned, helpful manner, these emotional overloads or
upset tend to get longer, more aggressive or «wilder.»
So many sellers
upset that the
process is in fact challenging and
feeling they've wasted hundreds of dollars or have been misled.