Although sex is believed to
promote feelings of attachment to one's partner, 3 it seems that sex, in and of itself, is not enough to elicit disclosure or affection from one's partner.
Oxytocin is a hormone that
promotes bonding during the early stages
of relationship development, positive
feelings toward relationship partners1, including
feelings of trust.2 In fact, oxytocin has been implicated in a variety
of positive relationship behaviors, including
attachment, social memory, sexual behavior, and orgasm, as well as maternal caring and bonding behaviors.3 As a result, the media often refers to oxytocin as the «cuddle hormone.»
It is assumed that RF originates in the context
of early
attachment relationships and is
promoted by a mentalizing mother who is able to treat her child as a being with a mind, and can keep her child's
feelings, desires as well as intentions in her own mind (Fonagy et al., 2002).