First thing to keep in mind: whether or not you feel your wife has been clear in the past, or is even clear now, there is one truth to keep in mind: Everything you do or say, or don't do or say, is being carefully analyzed by your wife as
proof of a failed marriage or as hope for the marriage.
Last month Lady Hale and Lords Neuberger, Kerr, Clarke and Reed heard the onward appeal on the issue whether the Inner House erred in
failing to hold that, in cases where the respondent intervenes to stop an alleged
marriage of convenience and makes a removal order on that basis, the evidential burden
of proof rests with the respondent and requires to be discharged on the balance
of probabilities.