S&M used to be considered a
psychiatric disorder by psychologists and researchers, but many years of research indicate that there is no evidence of mental disorders among those who enjoy this type of sexual
practice.2 Indeed, S&M is very common, with about 1 in 10 adults across multiple surveys reporting fantasizing about or engaging in such behaviors.3 Researchers are also documenting some positive effects of S&M play, such as enhanced adrenaline and endorphin «highs» resulting from the infliction of pain that enhances sexual sensations.3 In Monika's case, however, she longs for more «vanilla» sex
without the S&M and is concerned that her boyfriend will only be satisfied if she continues to play the sadist role.