The child is used by the parent to meet the emotional and
psychological needs of the parent.
The possible sexual abuse origins of this «source code» may be at the generational level of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent, representing the possible childhood sexual abuse victimization of this parent, or the «source code» may have entered the trans - generational transmission of attachment patterns a generation earlier, with the parent of the current narcissistic / (borderline) parent whose distorted parenting practices then produced the narcissistic / (borderline) personality organization of the current parent, so that this particular «phrase» of the «source code» (i.e., a role - reversal relationship in which the parent uses the child to meet the emotional and
psychological needs of the parent) is being passed on inter-generationally through several generations following the incest victimization trauma.
Pathogenic parenting that is creating significant developmental pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 1), personality pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 2), and delusional - psychiatric pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 3) in order to meet the emotional and
psychological needs of the parent represents a DSM - 5 diagnosis of V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.
Not exact matches
Some doctors are aware enough
of psychological factors to help
parents decide whether counseling is
needed.
It attempts to show the following in schematic form: column A, three cultural attitudes which are prominent in our «configuration» and in the personality patterns
of the
parents of the alcoholics; column B, the effect that these cultural attitudes have on the
parents; column C, the way in which these effects tend to deprive the child
of the satisfaction
of certain vital
needs; column D, the relationship between this deprivation
of satisfaction and the
psychological characteristics which are typical
of alcoholics.
Teens don't
need to be as physically close to their
parents, but they do still
need the
psychological closeness and assurances
of support and protection when
needed.
In this episode
of The Family Couch we chat with Holly Moses, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Licensed
Psychological Associate, who talks with us about how to support
parents who are raising children who have special
needs.
In the infant - toddler years, these take the form
of sensitive - responsiveness, which is known to foster attachment security, 1 and mutually - positive
parent - child relations, which themselves promote child cooperation, compliance and conscience development.2 In the preschool through adolescent years, authoritative (vs. neglectful)
parenting that mixes high levels
of warmth and acceptance with firm control and clear and consistent limit - setting fosters prosocial orientation, achievement striving, and positive peer relations.3, 4,5 Across childhood and adolescence, then,
parenting that treats the child as an individual, respecting developmentally - appropriate
needs for autonomy, and which is not psychologically intrusive / manipulative or harshly coercive contributes to the development
of the kinds
of psychological and behavioural «outcomes» valued in the western world.
The idea
of attachment
parenting it to respect the emotional
psychological needs of the baby.
Whether the
psychological and emotional
need and development
of the child will suffer due to lack
of active contact with and attention from both
parents
The Journal also cites that sleep problems can also be related to temperament, attachment problems, tension in
parent's lives or a
parent's own
psychological functioning (such as a Mom who
needs the closeness
of her baby for her own emotional security).
Parents contemplating divorce or dealing with the emotional,
psychological and financial aspects
of divorce often require a reminder that for children to become well - adjusted emotionally and psychologically, they
need a safe, secure, and happy family environment.
When he has willfully transgressed against his
parents» rules and he hides his misdeeds in shame, he has a
psychological need to be cleansed
of his guilt and restored to fellowship.
Psychological stress, such as the presence
of other cats, prolonged absence
of the owner (who is usually viewed as a
parent by the pet cat), or other problems may create a
need for a cat to reassert a territorial claim.
Legal and
psychological experts agree that what children
of divorce
need is to continue healthy
parent - child relationships.
A
needs of the child report, aka a 211 report, involves both interviewing the child, interviewing the
parents, interviewing collateral witnesses, and conducting
psychological testing on the
parents and the child.
Strategize with
parents to best meet the individual emotional,
psychological, and educational
needs of their child
• Track record
of providing instructional support within special and general education classrooms as required to meet the students»
needs • Skilled in student evaluation and
need assessment • Substantial knowledge
of and ability to cater for students» age related developmental cognitive, social and
psychological needs • Proficient in facilitating the teacher in conducting classroom related activities • Expert in developing and maintaining cooperative working relationships with students and colleague teachers • Effective in devising interactive supportive learning activities to reinforce the lesson being taught • Well versed in filing in for the lead teacher in case
of leave or absence and implementing the devised lesson plan effectively • Particularly effective in supervising the children during lunch and playtime, ensuring ample and healthy social interaction among peers • Competent at lesson planning, classroom control, assignment marking, lesson reinforcement and activity facilitation • Profound ability to develop
need based individualized educational plans and implement the same in light
of pre-determined long term learning objectives for each pupil individually • Proven skills in record keeping, developing individual student progress charts and portfolios along with demonstrated ability to maintain open communication channels with the students»
parents and teachers to discuss progress • Track record
of providing excellent teacher support in all classroom and lesson planning related activities • Committed to delivery
of highest standards
of classroom support, maintenance
of an interactive atmosphere and provision
of specially designed AV aids for special
needs students
• Assist the teacher in classroom activities while catering for emotional,
psychological, social and cognitive
needs of physically or mentally disabled students • Provide one to one tutoring and reinforce daily lessons in small groups • Identify weak areas
of students and develop individualized lesson plans accordingly • Supervise the children during play and lunchtime • Inculcate strong moral and social values among the students to make them responsible citizens • Facilitate the teacher in conducting various classroom activities • Maintain all teaching aids in an organized manner • Devise
need - based AV aids to facilitate teaching process • Assess multiple instructional strategies for effectiveness and change the teaching methodology as per requirement • Carefully record and gauge each student's progress and discuss the same regularly with teachers and
parents • Encourage students to participate in extracurricular activities and boost their confidence in all possible ways • Communicate home assignments clearly, mark homework and test papers • Assist students in completing classroom assignments • Maintain daily attendance and early departure records • Discuss individual cases
of individual
needs and interests with teachers and
parents of the student • Develop and implement targeted instructional strategies to cater for particular
needs of each student • Observe students» behavior at playtime and chalk out a behavioral intervention plan to address any inappropriate, violent or disruptive behavior • Operate adaptive technological equipment single - handedly • Maintain complete confidentiality
of student data • Aid physical, speech and rehabilitative therapists in their sessions and encourage the student to cooperate with them
As far as the conclusions and recommendations from child custody evaluations, they just make up whatever they want based on their own personal beliefs and inherent personal biases, they then apply some
psychological constructs in entirely haphazard and idiosyncratic ways to justify whatever biased and idiosyncratic conclusion was reached, and they usually take a middle -
of - the road risk - management response
of recommending the status quo with the addition
of «reunification therapy» and an admonishment to both
parents that the degree
of parental conflict is harming the child and that the
parents need to co-parent better.
The April 2016 Flying Monkey Newsletter addresses the false justification that peer - reviewed research is
needed in order to make an accurate diagnosis
of the pathology as pathogenic
parenting representing a DSM - 5 diagnosis
of V995.51 Child
Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.
To determine the child's best interest, judges consider various factors, including the
parents» suitability for custody, the child's
psychological and emotional
needs, the
parents» ability to communicate, the
parents» past care
of the child, the child's preference, where each
parent lives, the child's safety, and any history
of domestic neglect or abuse.
Psychological testing can highlight a child's strengths, clarify areas
of need and provide
parents and teachers with practical steps they can take.
If parental migration, for such as going to a city or working abroad for employment opportunities is considered as a livelihood strategy that helps rural workers get a job and improve their families» living conditions, a potential cost for the
psychological well - being
of these families» children due to their separation from
parents needs to be taken into account [13].
A caregiver or
parent must satisfy all
of the infant's physical, emotional,
psychological, cognitive, and social
needs.
Whether or not the child meets the entrance criteria for the gifted program, early identification
of giftedness provides
parents with valuable information, allowing them to address the special educational and
psychological needs of their child.
* Increase friendship in their relationship * Deal effectively with conflict * Keep dads involved in
parenting and infant care * Improve the quality
of parent - infant interaction * Recognize the
psychological and emotional
needs of their child
There have been calls for intervention and counseling programs to help families that have been affected by parental alienation, 4 and there remains a great
need to further understand how alienation affects the
psychological health
of the
parents themselves.
Furthermore, there are also «strong arguments» that evidently suggest parental alienation is a form
of psychological abuse since it depicts a
parent perpetrator's incapability to put a child's feelings and
needs above him or her.
Children's
psychological reactions to their
parents» divorce depend on 1) the quality
of the
parent - child relationship before the divorce; 2) the intensity and duration
of the parental struggle; and 3) the
parents» ability to prioritize the
needs of the children.
In considering
psychological factors affecting the best interests
of the child, the psychologist focuses on the
parenting capacity
of the prospective custodians in conjunction with the
psychological and developmental
needs of each involved child.
Adolescents fare best, and their family relationships are happiest, in households in which
parents are both supportive and are accepting
of the child's
needs for more
psychological independence.
Actually, children's
psychological reactions to their
parents» divorce vary in degree dependent on three factors: (1) the quality
of their relationship with each
of their
parents before the separation, (2) the intensity and duration
of the parental conflict, and (3) the
parents» ability to focus on the
needs of children in their divorce.
Even if the distortions to the child's attachment bonding motivations toward a normal - range and affectionally available
parent as a consequence
of pathogenic
parenting by a narcissistic / (borderline)
parent are not the product
of the trans - generational transmission
of sexual abuse trauma, the severely distorted
parenting practices
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent in which the child is being used as a «regulating other» to meet the emotional and
psychological needs of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent nevertheless rise to the level
of psychological child abuse that is severely distorting the child's healthy emotional and
psychological development.
But in surrendering to the
psychological will and
needs of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent, your child has betrayed you, betrayed their beloved.
A child specialist can provide the
parents with insights into the
psychological developmental
needs of children at differing ages.
The child - initiated cut - off
of the child's relationship with a normal - range and affectionally available
parent as a consequence
of the distorted pathogenic
parenting practices
of a narcissistic / (borderline)
parent in which the child is being used by the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent in a role - reversal relationship to meet the emotional and
psychological needs of the personality disordered
parent (i.e., «parental alienation») may represent a trans - generational iteration
of child sexual abuse victimization that occurred a generation (or two) prior to the current child, but that is continuing to severely distort
parent - child relationships through the distorted
parenting practices
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent (whose own disordered personalty organization likewise represents the impact
of the prior sexual abuse victimization).
And in return for the child's
psychological surrender to the will and
needs of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent, the child is granted indulgences.
In the struggle
of targeted
parents across the globe to obtain an appropriate response from professional mental health to the pathology
of attachment - based «parental alienation» (i.e., to a cross-generational coalition
of the child with a narcissistic / (borderline)
parent involving the role - reversal use
of the child as a regulatory object for the
parent's emotional and
psychological state), targeted
parents will
need to identify the professional standards
of practice applicable to the professional organization within their nation in order to apply these professional standards
of practice to the expectation for professional competence.
This study evaluated the effectiveness
of an intervention designed to improve early
parenting by increasing understanding
of infant developmental
needs and promoting maternal responsiveness as indicated by increased positive behavior support for infants and decreased
psychological control.
The
need for a protective separation
of the child is made necessary on two grounds, 1) to protect the child from continued exposure to the
psychological child abuse associated with the pathogenic
parenting of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent, and 2) to prevent
psychological harm to the child during the active phase
of treatment as a result
of being turned into a «
psychological battleground» by the continued active resistance
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent to the goals
of therapy, and from the continued motivated efforts
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent to maintain the child's symptomatic state even as therapy seeks to resolve the child's symptoms.
If, on the other hand, the child can read the inner
psychological and emotional
needs of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent and respond in ways to meet those
needs, then the child can stabilize the emotional and
psychological functioning
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent and prevent this
parent's collapse into disorganization, hostility, and rejection
of the child.
From a therapeutic perspective, the protective separation is
needed in order to protect the child from being turned into a «
psychological battleground» by the continuing
psychological pressures applied to the child by the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent designed to maintain the child's symptomatic rejection
of the other
parent even while therapy is trying to restore the child's affectionally bonded relationship with the targeted
parent.
Access to any
psychological testing or test results performed on the children or any
parent, custodian, or guardian
of the children and access as
needed to speak with the evaluator personally;
It gives children a voice, an opportunity to communicate to adults about what their experiences are inside and outside
of school, and has great potential to provide educators,
parents, researchers and policy makers with much
needed information about the
psychological and social worlds
of children.
More research is necessary to understand differing patterns
of associations among
psychological control, firm control, and well - being, but the present study provides further evidence
of the
need to consider the child's age when evaluating
parenting practices.
In order to explore this further we
need to understand the
psychological profile
of those
parents that severely alienate their children against the other
parent.
In response to the intense and unpredictable emotional displays by the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent, the child becomes hyper - vigilant regarding the emotional and
psychological state
of the narcissistic / (borderline)
parent in order to prevent the
parent's collapse into intense, dysregulated emotional displays
of anxiety, sadness, or anger, and the child becomes what the
parent needs (i.e., the «regulatory other» for the
parent) in order to keep the
parent in a regulated emotional state.
We offer psychiatric evaluations, medication management and
psychological testing for a wide variety
of needs as well as
parenting programs, individual and group therapy for children, adolescents, and adults as well as marriage and couples counseling and wellness coaching Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Art Therapy, Play Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy.
The education, experience, and training requirements to be specified for court - connected evaluators are to include knowledge
of the
psychological and developmental
needs of children and
parent - child relationships.