Pregnancy is a time when millions of questions run through the mind of the expectant mother, and then there are always more
questions after the birth of the baby.
Not exact matches
However, one
of the
questions I wrestled with over the term
of my wife's pregnancy and in the beginning
after my daughter's
birth was how would I establish a bond with my
baby?
After the
birth, a post-partum doula can come into your home, and gently answer
questions, show you basic infant care, do daily chores and meal preparation, take care
of older siblings, or even take care
of your
baby so that you can get a shower or a nap.
Make sure to meet with your lactation consultant ahead
of time so you get to know that person and feel comfortable asking
questions prior to and
after the
birth of your
baby.
around midnight i began to
question my decision to have a home
birth, & maria was getting tired... she called in a second midwife for support & my doula arrived from another
birth... i was afraid
of the power - i hadn't felt it like this in kayenn's
birth... i was afraid that i would come apart - even though i had to - i know now that coming apart is a part
of the process... someplace in the middle
of this
birth i realized that i did not know how to do this - i was acting against the
birth process - literally & emotionally... i had a mental idea
of what it should look, sound, smell, be like...
after some hours maria checked me again, i had been at 9 cm for 4 hours... she said to me, «some
babies can come through at 9 cm, but yours will not, sokhna... sokhna, you are going to have to fight to bring this
baby out... go into the bathroom, get in the shower & work it out... «so i did... i went in the cold bathroom alone & remembered every cold detail
of kayenn's
birth... i wondered if i could get to the hospital on time to have an emergency c - section & i began to cry... & as i cried i had to go to the bathroom - i sat on the toilet & the rushes came down like nothing i can explain - but they didn't hurt - it was just POWER!
They were bound, gagged and given drugs that drove them mad or caused millions
of babies born with
birth defects... husband weren't allowed to see their wives, new moms were allowed to hold their children but maybe 30 minutes every few hours (breastfeeding was out
of the
question for many), dads could only see the infants through a glass until
after mom and infant were released... Yet we argue that medicine and science are correct??
This discussion has included the
questions of whether exclusive breastfeeding is safe and whether all
babies should be supplemented in the first week
after birth.
The Green Moms Weekly
question is this: Why is it as important to begin your journey as an attachment parent during pregnancy as it is
after the
birth of your
baby?
Then again, it's no surprise that we
Baby Bunchers are assailed with this
question...
after all, the number
of twin
births has risen by 50 percent in the past three decades *.
Afterwards, the women received an educational booklet on the intervention, in Arabic and French, containing illustrations and information on: the benefits
of breast milk, the importance
of skin - to - skin contact immediately
after birth, the importance
of early breastfeeding and giving colostrum to the
baby, the criteria
of good positioning for corrective breast - taking, the signs
of effective suckling, the signs
of effective breastfeeding for the first six months, on - demand breastfeeding and its daily frequency, breastfeeding accessories, techniques for collecting and storing breast milk, and
questions and answers about different maternal concerns (depression, hygiene, nipple pain, quantity
of milk produced, duration and number
of feedings, mixed feeding, diet to be followed during breastfeeding, mothers» illness and breastfeeding, weaning
of the
baby, etc..)
CRISTI LEWIS: It's a very dangerous
question because there really aren't any because if you are, I tell my women at the end
of that 6 weeks postpartum period, that when our bodies are kind
of ready to make another
baby and so if you are not exclusively breastfeeding, you can have a fertility cycle as early as 3 weeks
after the
birth.
Feinbloom, Richard PREGNANCY,
BIRTH AND THE EARLY MONTHS Perseus, 2000 A family practice doctor answers most of the questions a pregnant mother will have before, during and after the birth of her baby, and offers thoughtful choices based on current research for both common and uncommon condit
BIRTH AND THE EARLY MONTHS Perseus, 2000 A family practice doctor answers most
of the
questions a pregnant mother will have before, during and
after the
birth of her baby, and offers thoughtful choices based on current research for both common and uncommon condit
birth of her
baby, and offers thoughtful choices based on current research for both common and uncommon conditions.
One remaining
question is whether these changes persist for longer than 12 to 14 weeks
after the
birth of a
baby.
Let me hasten to add that the
question here is not whether or not normal, healthy
babies can selectively identify their mom's face or voice;
of course, they can turn their head and fixate with their eyes onto the face and eyes
of their mother even very soon
after birth.
For example, in an 8 - year prospective study by Doss et al. (2009), both mothers and fathers experienced sudden negative changes in relationship functioning
after the
birth of their first
baby that tended to persist over time, whereas nonparents who were
questioned at the same points in time did not report such negative relationship changes.