Not exact matches
All in all, I wish I spent less time in my early pregnancy watching YouTube videos and
reading blogs and worring
about fighting with the hospital and doctor, and more time doing what I'm doing now: talking to people who actually live where I do and have given
birth at my hospital, who had positive
experiences.
If moms take some time to learn
about their choices and take an Independent Childbirth Class (not hospital based) or
read GOOD books (not WTEWE) then they will be in a better position to have a positive
birth experience which can empower them!
Safety Concerns, Pain Management and Supplies To keep your
birth experience as safe as possible, «I highly recommend
reading books
about physiological
birth and preparing your space and practicing any relaxation techniques,» suggests Moser.
Or head over to our main
Birth Stories Section to
read about other types of birthing
experiences...
-LSB-...] has a story (that I'm too squeamish to
read)
about her
birth experiences.
So,
read on to learn more
about the first pediatrician visits baby will
experience from
birth until they're 3 months old:
Prior to my son's
birth, I had started
reading up
about breastfeeding and participated in several online breastfeeding support groups to learn from the
experiences of other mothers.
Or head over to the main
Birth Stories Section to
read about other types of birthing
experiences...
Both were great, hard but wonderful, and I found that
reading a lot
about labour and
birth (both physiological and stories) helped me to realise that I could influence my
experience hugely just by the attitude that I cultivated as pregnancy progressed and the mental «tools» I used during labour.
Yet time and time again I have
read and written
about homebirth loss mothers praising deadly midwives, praising the «
experience» of a vaginal
birth of a dead child, refusing to cooperate in disciplining the midwife responsible, advocating for more «freedom» for homebirth midwives, and, most grotesque of all, choosing to risk their next child's life by having a homebirth.
Our own Jennifer Lance has a story (that I'm too squeamish to
read)
about her
birth experiences.
It's almost never too late to switch to a new
birth attendant; see the Parenting Squad article Prenatal Care and Doctor Wars: Standing Up For Yourself And Your Child to
read about one mom's
experience switching doctors at 38 weeks.
You can also talk to others
about their
experiences (including online in places such as mothering.com);
read stories; watch videos, (including Youtube) of home and hospital
births; and ideally attend the meeting of a homebirth group.
A great suggestion I can offer up for expectant dads is to, sure,
read some books and articles
about what to expect, but most importantly, take the time to talk to the wife (or girlfriend or baby mama)
about everyone's goals for the
birth experience and immediately after.
While I agree that one person can't define what is traumatic for another, it's pretty irritating to
read posts from women who had normal, healthy
births without permanent damage to themselves or their babies complain
about not getting the
birth experience they wanted.
I had
read about this phenomenon in multiple
birth experiences and I knew it could happen to me.
Click here to
read about my first
birth experience.
Take a class at your local hospital, watch natural
birth videos,
read books and talk to
experienced moms so that you have knowledge to make an informed decision
about your
birth preferences, including place of
birth.
Read about the link between
birth control and depression or one women's
experience with postpartum depression.
Although textbooks and studies are good resources, I enjoyed
reading about other women's
birth experiences and the lessons they drew from them.