there is a
really important subject i always want to ask you about it, it's what if someone has a problem in motor unit recruitment and some muscles
get bigger than other muscles, i mean symmetrical muscles (the two biceps, the two pecs...), i have this problem in mi
arms and pecs, the left ones
get begger than the right ones (by training), is that a problem in motor unit recruitment?
which makes them second guess their own feelings... Other times, children are scoled, ignored, or hurt and this just brings up a
bigger emotional charge that perpetuates the tantrum or «crying because I was crying and told not to cry... which makes me cry...» Other children just
really need long to process whatever it might be and that is ok too... But if a child isn't receiving the care and information to develop the skills for self - regulation, such as been allowed to cry in
arms or being supported / listed / validated in a compassionate attuned, helpful manner, these emotional overloads or upset tend to
get longer, more aggressive or «wilder.»